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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months and i want to get him something for christmas. I don't have a lot to spend and i want it to be something special. Any ideas?

Aww♥

You could always get him a shirt from his favorite store (like a band shirt, or American Eagle shirt, whatever he wears)

Or a CD he's been wanting.

Or you could always get a frame and put a picture of you two in it and decorate the frame and then write him a poem!!

Just do something really cute since it's only been 2 months♥

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.

I give fives.

No, it's not a big turn off at all to guys!
13 is still young anyways, you don't want to date the whole world anyways! lol.

So, don't worry about if you haven't had a boyfriend yet.
I was the same way, I didn't really date anyone in Elementary because one I wanted to wait til High School and two because I knew all the guys since I was little! So, it would be like dating a brother haha.

&& plus, once you get into High School, you have a better selection of guys to pick out.
So, for now, just have fun! && don't worry about it that you haven't had a boyfriend yet, a lot of girls haven't!!

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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ok kinda embarressing but...
im 12/f and i havent had my period yet... I have been getting alot of this gross wite stuff in my underwear and vagina and i have a heard lots of things about it could you tell me if these things r tru

1)its called discharge
2)if you have alot of it you could have an infection
3)It means you r going 2 get ur period soon
4)ALL gurls get it

Just wondering if you could give me sum info on wut is going on!!!
thanks

Hey sweetie.

Don't be embarrassed at all!!
&& 12 isn't late to start your period at all.
Every girl starts differently.
I started when I was like 14 or something.

Yeah, you'll get discharge (the white stuff), sometimes you get it for along time before you actually start your period and sometimes you'll only have it for a couple months before you start your period. && no not that I know of you can't get an infection. If you have anymore questions just leave a message in my inbox or you could always try talking to your mom. I hope this helped!

♥ Kourtney

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i'm dying my hair red. what is a good kind of dye to use? my sister is going to do it. and it needs to be inexpensive from walmart.

Either Use the Herbal Essences
or the Garnier stuff.

Both of them work good!!
My friends use those.

♥ Kourtney

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I've known this guy since I was three and we have been dating since I was 15. we are totally in love. but, we havent had sex yet and I'm 21!!! Is there something wrong with me?

NO!! There is nothing wrong with you .. not at all!!

Just because you two are in love, doesn't mean you have to have sex to show how much you love each other.

He may not think you're ready and so he doesn't want to pressure you two into having sex because he doesn't want to pressure you (like I've said) and he doesn't want it to seem like he's using you. He just wants to wait until you feel like you're ready to make that BIG step.

So, if you're ready to have sex with him, try talking to him about it and telling how you feel and that you're ready to have sex with him.

I hope this works and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!!

♥ Kourtney

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Hi I am 14, female, 9th grade. 5'9, 145 lbs.I am pretty happy with my body, I have a flat stomach, but I have some love handles that Iwould like to get ride of. I play softball, basketball, and do track. But what extra exersizes could i do at home to make my love handles go away? Thanks

Hey!

Try going to this:

http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/20020819.html

&& also just eat healthier too!! It'll take time to lose it, so don't get impatient!!

I hope that website works, if not just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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I have gym and I am 13 and dont know who to ask, anyway gym class you know how girls go through theire monthly surprise and I dont know what to do! and i cant miss a class or I have to make it up and do like 40 laps alone!

Hey sweetie.

Ahh, I hated when I had PE and I was on my period. I use tampons though.

So, when you're on it, use a tampon, if you don't know how to use it, read how to do it, ask your friend, or your mom, someone you're close with.

If you don't want to use those yet, use a pad!

I hope this helps you out!!

♥ Kourtney

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I'm planning on asking out this girl tommorrow at school. is this a bad idea? whats a good way to ask some one out?
ALL FIVES

Of course it's not a bad idea!!

I rather get asked out in person than I would on the phone or in class!! haha.
A boy has tried doing that to me! lol.

Or if you don't want to ask her at school, you could ask her to hang out and then ask her!! If you take her out somewhere and ask her, do it cute, my friend asked this girl out by handing her a rose and asking her .. so cute.

But, either way, always ask her in person. It's so much better that way.

Good luck tomorrow.. not that you need it. If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox. Tell me how it goes tomorrow!!

♥ Kourtney

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I want to know if it's possible to answer feedback once it's on my column, and how you do it. I want to give the person who gave feedback to my answer to their question some more advice but don't know if or how I can.

Thanks

Kizlode

No, you can't, I wish you could because people always do that to me!

But, what I do, I always just put:

EDIT:
or
FEEDBACK:

And type in what I need to put. Thats the best answer I can give you.

I hope that works and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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I have a problem with bad breath...i always brush my teeth, i chew mint gum CONSTANTLY and i eat mints all the time, and yet my breath still stinks, what can i do to make it fresh?!?!?!

Try to brush your teeth REALLY good (not saying you don't) and then brush your tongue good!! That's where most of the stink comes from!

&& then try to put the listerine strip in your mouth. Then chew gum or put mints in your mouth!!

If that still doesn't work, see a dentist and see what he/she says!

I hope this helps and if you need anything else leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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My hair has been the same forever. I have never done naything to it. its shoulder length, brown, with some long-ish side bangs. im an average weith girl with bluee eyes and some freckles.

what is something i could to do it that would look cute??

OMGOSH! I love people who have brown hair and blue eyes. It's so pretty!!

You could always put some highlights in it!

Or you could try to get a new hair cut.

If you don't want to do that, try doing new styles to it.

Like:
Straightening it.
Curling it.
Putting it in a ponytail.
Pig tails.
Putting barrets in it!

Just try doing stuff like that, you can always get ideas by looking in magazines too like Seventeen!

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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who do u think are the 5 most prettest girls on here!

AHH man, I think there are so many pretty girls on here!!

But off the top of my head:

- Melissa
- Teza
- Erica
- Amanda
- Naimee
lol.

But, I think all the girls are beautiful!

♥ Kourtney

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what is better for music for an ipod :
ares or limewire.. and why

I haven't tried Ares
But, I have Limewire
&& it's so fast and it doesn't give you so many viruses like a lot of the music sites do!
I would go with that one.

I hope this helps and if you need anymore help, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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do we have to put a email adress on advicenator ?? b/c im tired of getting so0o many emails from here gosh its anoing !!

Yeah, I was getting sick of having all these emails from them too!! haha.

Go to profile setting and where it says "Should we email you when someone asks you a question" put No and so on with the other questions.

I hope this helps and if you need anymore help, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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okay so my hair is parted at the side.. and one of the sides of my part is flat.. and the other side isnt ..does anyone know what to do so my hair isnt flat?

Before you blow dry your hair, part your hair and brush it then blow dry it.
If it's still not flat, try using hair spray or moose!
I hope this works and if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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Where can I find cell phone covers ?

You can try going to the mall and looking for a cover.
Or go to www.ebay.com
Or you could try www.cutepcs.com
Thats a cheap place!

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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ok help help....im thinking about getting my boyfriend one of those dog tag things with our picture on it what else should i say thanks xoxo

Aww how cute.

You could always put "I love you"
Or you could put Your name + His name

I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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Hey, can someone please tell me how to change my password. I made this accound with a friend and I want to make it private just incase she decides to come on it and see all the embarissing questions I asked..

Hey

Just go to your Profile Settings.
And where it says Change Password
Type in your new password there
And then retype it and scroll down and hit submit!
Hope this helps and if you need anything else just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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how can i get my guy to take more control in our relationship when it comes to intimacy? it seems like whenever we do anything i have to make the first move. i mean once i make a move hes into it... but he wont do ANYTHING unless i do it first... is it cause hes scared hell offend me or what? so why and how can i change it? thanx

He doesn't make the first move when it comes to that because he doesnt want to seem like he's pressuring you into doing it. Because sometimes girls don't want to get all into it and when a guy tries to make the move they get all pissed off. Some girls are like, not saying you are. So, he's just respecting you and treating you really good! But, if you still want him to make the first move, just talk to him about it, just be like "I've noticed I always have to make the first move when we're making out, I really appreciate you respecting me and all, but just to let you know, you can make the first move too, it won't make me mad or anything" Just say something like that. I hope that works! If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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can smiling in a tanning bed make your teeth white? i was just wondering, cause i do know that they use lasers to whiten teeth. Could it work? random i know lol. ill give you a 5 if you might know (=

Alright, don't listen to the people that laughed at you!
No, it doesn't work!
That would be awesome if it did though, huh?

♥ Kourtney

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