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i just got my period i take a bath soon i know that you have to take your pad off but how does the blood stop coming out if u take a bath or a shower. explain them both to me fast and i will right all 5s if u hurry (link)
It stops when you take a shower. Its okay trust me. But you do need to WASH down there. PLEASE WASH DOWN THERE. other wise you will start to have an odd smell to you. But foreal its ok, to take a shower.


Hey! I'm a 14/f. I got my period(or so I think it was) about 1 and 1/2 months ago. But it hasn't come back since then. Is this irregular? Isn't it supposed 2 happen the same time every month! I don't know cause I'm kinda new at this whole thing. Plus when I had my period it was brown....like the blood and everything was brown not red. I'm pretty sure it was my period but I could be wrong I guess. Can any one please help me! I'm worried its not gunna come back. Much luv xoxoxo (link)
Its normal.
I had to wait a year for my period to recome back.
its very common.
And when you first have your period its a brownish color.


Okay, well I'm not that good of a singer, and I know that. But, I have a beauty pageant coming up, and you have to have a talent, and singing is all I can come up with. I can also tumble pretty well, so idk if I should do that or not. I have a round-off back-handspring, standing back-handspring, round-off back-handspring series, and standing back-handspring series.
So I have 3 questions:
-Should I sing, or should I tumble?
-If I choose to sing, what are some tips to help an amature?

and BTW, the talent has to be 2:30 seconds long.

Thank you so much if you can help!
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I think you should tumble.
I bet you can sing, buts its not as orginal your know? If i was had a pageant, Id be like wow shes going to tumble?
It would catch my eye.


this is probably gonna sound totally dumb.. but i was wondering something. is it okay or normal for your boyfriend to like send you texts saying "good morning beautiful, i love you" ? i've never had a boyfriend this sweet before & it's weird because he seems so perfect.. and gahhh i dont know. (link)
Yes its normal.
And totally sweet.
Youre just not used to the kindness that he gives you. love it, but dont over use him.


ok im 13/f 8th grade. im one of the only girls who dosen't/has never had a boyfriend. in 7th grade and down i used to be sortof a tomboy. i still am kindof, but i dont dress like i used to. im starting to dress...like regular girls. i was just wondering what it is about me that guys dont like? i like video games and fighting stuff, and stuff that guys like. a few girls think if i dressed a little different i would be really pretty and stuff. is there anything i should change/traits i should have? i wont completly change my personality, but any tips? and guys, what do yo ulike in a girl?
thanks (link)
well.. yeah, i deffinatley say NEVER change yourself for a guy!
you could change your hair style & stuff, like wear it different then you normally do.
be YOURSELF. guys won't like stuck up fakes.
iff you want you could deffinatly flirt a little.
-- & just because someone doesn't have a boyfriend yet doesnt make them a loserr! it's okayy. everyones different, i have friends who don't have boyfriendss. :) they're even cooler then my boy obsessed friends sometimes.

everyone has their benefits, being a video-game player is a cool quality, at least you can do something guys would like to hang with and do with you! =D


ok so I really like this boy at my school..
ok everyone does but he flirts with every girl I know! and ok one day he was looking cute and you know I kinda sorta..smiled at him! he smiled back! I was so amazed then at the end of the day we had sex in the back of the aditrorium. I know But he was just to hott. then my dad started to ask me quetions and I'm not a good lier. I think he is finding out about me and what happened!
what should I do!!!! (link)
woahh. okayyy. sex+auditorium=TROUBLE.
but okay.. so, if he asks you alot of questions, you should tell him.. He's going to find out.
orrr you could give him direct answers and not hint about doing it.. so yeah.
like if he goes "have you thought about doing it" just be like yeah i guess i have.
:) but i would tell the truth.


I have an algebra mid-term tomorrow. Oh and by the way, i'm only in 8th grade. I've got to study here in a little bit, but i don't really know how to go about studying. like what do i do so i can get a good grade? do you have any websites tht have practice tests? we've gone through 4 chapters. Its all with equations and crap. SO if you have any advice on studying, i'd really really appreciate it!

thanks!
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i'm in algebra too. =D
i have a midterm tomorow too. =D
what i did when i studied for it, is i studied the forms i need and how to work them, and i went through the book and looked at some equations i had trouble with.

if you've gone over it in class, you might want to study point slope form (y-y1)=m(x-x1) & slope intercept form y=mx+b or standard form Ax+By=C
if you didn't study it, just don't wory about it.
=D


im looking for a song, or a quote. something like that.. about friendship, about how true friends can make it through anything.. about how best friends are the best thing that can happen. me and my friends have been through rough times and now that its over i know who my TRUE friends are. so, if you can think of something, or know something. can you answer this please? thank you. (link)
well, my friend has this quote.
it isn't who you've know the longest;
it's who always stays by your side.
:)


ok, i hadnt got my period and im 13 years old. I went to the docter and they said i wouldnt get it for a while,but ive been having pains in my side ALOT. I went to the hospital and they said that im probly getting my period. I do have pubic hair and i do have dischange and ive had this since like this time last year. My boobs have been getting bigger and everything. When do you think ill get my period? (link)
It's hard to say when you'll get your period. No one can really be certain. The clues are all there; the discharge, pubic hair etc. But you'll probably get it around the age when your mother got hers. My mom got hers when she was almost 14 and I got mine when I was 13. So yeah, just don't worry about it. You should be GLADDDD you don't have it! Haha I hope I helped :)


Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox (link)
I'd recommed waxing or threading. I get mine waxed, and then pluck the stray hairs between my appointments. I hope I helped :)


Is there a proper name for fake nails? (link)
Acryilc nails
=D


okay, on myspace. if i paint something on paint. how can i make it my background?

please help.
im trying to help a friend and we cant figure it out.. (link)
okayyy, this is what i do!
1)paint your picture.
2)save it.
3)go to www.tinypic.com
4)click browse and pick the picture you want, and then click upload.
-it'll come up with an internet address, like www.tinypic.com/_ _ _ _
5)put that address in where it asks for the http address for the backround.
[it can be really confusing, so if you need anything else just leave it in my inbox]

oh, and btw, on tinypic, you dont have to sign up!


Okay on my profile it says I have 2005 questions answered but a few days ago it said I had 2100 + questions answered. I'm so confused, is this happening to anyone else? (link)
yeah, well, DN really is cleaning up advicenators.
so if you had questions like
"OMGz. whats hanging?" he deleted them.
sorrrrry :(


is it gay for a guy to go on a diet? (link)
hahah no!
if you're worried about people making fun of you
[just don't tell anyone] yeahh :)


How old Should a child be when they start dating? (link)
I'd say actual"dating" 14-16 ish.
But just having little boy friend crushes are good at any age.


i was just wondering what people think of glasses. do you find them nerdy or attractive? i have to wear glasses fullo time and i am wondering if contacts are the way to go or should i wear glasses but i dont want to seem like a four eyes freak. any inputs are appreciated. (link)
If you the right frames there fine.


ok i have a friend who has a bf with herpes and he supposively hasnt had any breakouts for a while now and she gives him oral and she thinks shes not gonna get herpes because of him not having any breakouts...is that true?..if its not then i'll tell her to go get tested....im really worried about her (link)
Break outs or no breakouts.
he still has herpes.
So yes, its VERY possible for her to get.
I'd tell her to go to a clinic.


This is not the kinda question i should be asking, but im curious. (dont get grossed out)
Im a guy who is very sexually active with one partner, my question is the following..my girlfriend hardly ever gives me head not because she doesnt want to, but because for the last 8 months or so, ive had this very bad odour comming from my penis. The thing is im the cleanest person ever, i shower everyday and pay extra attention to washing my penis properly, however 10 or 15 minutes later, the smell is back. Ive gotten checked for all stds many of times, and i know for a fact that im my girlfriends first and only lover. Any body have any ideas as to why this odour keeps on destroying my feallatio fantasies? (link)
she got a dirty pussy dawg. you may be clean, a penis is easy to clean. a vagina: not so much. it takes a bit more skill and cunning to keep a vagina clean. and that's obviously the source. hell man every girl i've ever been with their vagina has had kind of a pungent almost body odor smell. not like a terrible smell. not a bad smell, just kind of an odd one. it's a reigion where sweat can build up and be trapped and make things smell none too well. talk to her about it. yeah she's gonna be pissed (girls are sensitive about that stuff) but it's either that or never get head. and i dunno about you but blowjobs make sex all the better.


Dear Advicenators-

This year one of my best friends, let's call her amanda, went into highschool. See, I was always more popular and had more friends then her. (I'm in 8th grade now)And when she was in middle school, let's say she wasn't the coolest of the bunch. We were best friends until I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th. See, then I started hanging out with my friends from school on the weekends; and me and amanda's sleepovers every friday and saturday turned into once or twice hour hang outs once a month. Yet, sure enough, when school was out, we became close again, adn real tight. Now she went into highschool and started to make new friends, when i was still in middle school. She got a new boyfriend, got a new best friend, with a new life. Ever since school started we hardly ever hang out. And now, 5 months later, she straight up tells me she doesn't want to be that close anymore and really doesn't want to be friends. Now, at first I understood she was frustrated, I didn't think she was serious. But now i really now she is dead serious. AND IT KILLS ME! I want to cry so much and pour out tears, and to know it doesn't effect her at all, and she can let go such a great friendship like that, just crushes me. Like, think of your of that one friend were you feel %100 completely comfortable wiht adn can tell anything. WE were tight, when the two of us got together we had so much fun. And now she wants to blwo it all away, and means it! But i don't know what it is! Is it her getting back at me from when I started hanging out with my school friends more, or does she just want to move on with her life and forget me. Like rigth now, we had this huge fight adn she acted liek she did't even care about me, and afterwards her away message was "hanging wiht Bridget watchign American Pie, haha"(her new best friend. When i thik over all are memories I want to cry out my heart knowing that I can never have them again with her. i don't know what to do. Should I make the first step and start trying to be friends with her again. the thing is she really meant when she said she doesn't want us to talk anymore or hang out, or even become friends again! What should I do, I'm devistaited!Thank-you :( (link)
Things happen. But dont feel bad.
If she is that great of a friend, she will come back.
And if she doesnt, Then you will know she may not be great at all.


I recorded a video on my digital camera. Does anyone know how i can take that video and put it on somones myspace as a comment? i cant figure it out and its really botherin me lol thank you so much! five for every answerrr! (link)
http://www.zippyvideos.com/




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