Why do some guys like a small strip of hair growing in the lower region? How is that benefitical? or even a turn on?
There's no real reason but a lot of guys do find it a turn on, I guess it's just sexy. Maybe it's because it creeps them out when there's no hair whatsoever but it's not very nice when there's a lot of hair so it's kind of somewhere between the two.
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whne is the right age to start wearing makeup??
It's up to you, there is no 'right age'.
I started wearing stuff like eye shadow and lip gloss from the age of seven but I never wore it every single day to school and such, it was just for special occasions.
I didn't start wearing make up everyday until I was 13, I think that's pretty average.
Some people don't start wearing it until much older and some never do.
Don't feel pressured into it, it's your choice if and when you start wearing it.
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Ok...have a question of my own...what do guys look in for girls??? Mainly for guys but if the girls want to answer go ahead.
I'm blonde,long hair,thin(103) and 5'6"/if that helps.
I just want to know what guys look in for girls.Please answer it is urgent.
AskBritt
There is no set answer to your question. Different guys look for different types of girls. One guy might look for blonde hair, big breasts and a nice ass whereas another might look for a good personality and a sense of humour. The most common things that guys look for is someone interesting and not too vain, moderately good looking (although some guys don't really care what you look like) and just generally someone who's fun to be with. But like I said, it all depends on the guy.
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hi thanks for answering, but tell me is there any type of risk to the baby, and exactly where the baby stays.
There's no risk to the baby at all unless you get incredibly violent. The baby just stays in the womb.
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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.
It depends on how old both people involved are. If one person in the relationship is 14 and the other is 19 then I don't think that's right because surely someone who is legally an adult shouldn't be interested in a young teenager. They may genuinely care for them but it's a bit odd.
However, if one person is 20 and the other is 25 then that's fine because they're both consenting adults. Most adult couples have differences in ages.
I think that when you're young - by young I mean under 16 or 17 - then you should stick with people around your age group just to be on the safe side.
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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!
It's likely that he did have a boner, considering you were making out and that he didn't want you to see/feel it and freak out. Or he could just have been resting his arm. It doesn't really matter either way.
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hi i just want to know that can we have sex during pregnancy, if yes then till which month,
or if no then why.
please answer me.
Sex lives are supposed to improve during pregnancy actually. I think it's safe right up until you are due to have the baby but many couples stop after a certain point because the bump gets in the way and makes sex uncomfortable. So yes, it's safe to and almost all couples do but it's up to you when you choose to stop and wait until after the baby is born.
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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?
What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?
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Kelsssss
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Going out with a friend is the best thing you can do when you've just come out of a relationship.
Just keep your mind off your ex and enjoy yourself. Don't be tempted to let your mind wander and upset yourself. If you want to, then try chatting to some guys. However, this could make you think of your ex and you don't want to launch into a rebound relationship this early.
Just relax and have fun.
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i wanna earn some money.. problem is, im only 13 is there ANYTHING i can do to get some money?
The law where I live - in England - is that you have to be 14 to babysit someone outside the family's children. However, I think that it may be 13 in America. So try handing out some leaflets, telling people that you're available to babysit. You might enjoy it and you can get payed quite a lot. You could also advertise for other jobs like car washing or pet sitting.
If that's not an option then you could ask your parents if there are any extra jobs you could do for them for money. Things like extra washing up, taking the dog for a walk, washing the car, mowing the lawn etc.
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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
It's up to you.
Most girls trim it and some shave but not many leave it natural, but that's really your decision. Not a lot of guys like it hairy but the majority prefer it to be trimmed rather than completely shaved off.
It does grow back it you shave or trim it so I suggest you try it, see how you like it and either carry on shaving or let it grow back, depending on how you feel about it.
If you want to shave, then trim the hair so it's quite short as it makes it easier to shave and apply lots of shaving cream. Take a razor with a fresh blade in it - you are more likely to cut yourself or go wrong with a blunt one - and gently shave in the direction that the hair grows in. Be very careful, it can be painful if you slip and cut yourself. I don't reccomend that you shave against the hair (like you do when shaving your legs) until you're used to shaving.
Bear in mind that it WILL itch the first time you shave but that it will get better as time goes on.
If you don't like it, then that's fine. It's completely up to you what you do with it.
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how do you spell accents, like what british people have and new yourk people
A-C-C-E-N-T. You got it right.
But I think you'll find that British and New York people aren't the only ones who have accents. Everyone has one, you just don't notice yours and the people around you's because you're used to them.
I live in England, which is in Britain and we have a completely different accent to people living in Scotland, which is also in Britain. In fact, different parts of England have different accents.
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do guys really care about how big a girl's chest is?
guys please answerrrr !! .. and girls if you know the answer too..
Unfortunately the majority of guys do care about how big a girl's chest is. The good news is that if they're not shallow then they won't be all that bothered if you don't have the hugest bust. And if they do care then they can't be worth it.
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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?
There is no appropriate age. It's different for everyone. If you're 13 and you don't think you're ready then fine, that's your own personal choice.
Obviously you should take the law into consideration, in the UK it is illegal to have sex if you are under 16. However, I think that it's as high as 18 in most parts of America.
A lot of people don't listen to the law and they choose to have sex when they feel ready.
So basically, there isn't an age where everyone is ready. Some people feel ready as young as 13 but some don't until they're early twenties, some even later.
It's up to you when you think it's appropriate for you to have sex.
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ok, im 13 years old and i have had this boyfriend for about 7 months now. he is having majior family problems and doesnt know how to deal with them anymore. he is one of those people who keep things bottled up inside of him. i told him he could always talk to me about it but i dont think he is comfortable talking to anyone about it. well, he is getting like really depressed and he told me he doesnt know if he can handle it all anymore. he is thinking about running away or killing himself. i told him not to and i pleaed for him not to but i dont think it is getting through to him. he told me that the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me but he is REALLY anrgy. i dont know what to say or what to do. he told me if he does anything he'll come to school and say good bye to me and stuff. PLEASE PLEASE help me! im so scared!
-Leah-
You have to realise that there is nothing you can do about your boyfriend's problems. He is the only person that can solve them and all you can do is love and support him.
Try and encourage him to open up more and tell him how you would feel if he did anything bad to himself but remember that at the end of the day, it's up to him.
Be there for him when he needs you and try your best to love and support him but don't get so wrapped up in his problems that you forget your own.
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Do you think its wrong to be bisexual?
No way, I'm bisexual, I don't think it's wrong at all. People who think it is are narrow minded and stupid.
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i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty
I was 11 but most people are older than that, some people don't have their first kiss until they're an adult so I wouldn't worry.
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I'm 13 and this guy I really like was talking the other day about whether I was single or not. I got totally nervous and said that I'm not interested in guys (without really meaning it), and now I pretty sure that he thinks that I'm unattainable! What should I do?
Thanks
Trinity
Relax, what you did is understandable, you were just nervous.
Just go up to him and act completely calm and say something like "Oh...You know I was only kidding the other day when I said I'm not interested in guys, don't you?" Even if he doesn't say anything back, he'll know that you are available.
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This will sound rather random, but you are remarkably well spoken and clearheaded for a 14 year old.
I cant begin to describe how sick I am of reading responses and questions from people your age and older who are (or at least act like they are) completely illiterate.
You are a breath of fresh air.
Just wanted to say hi.
Thank you for the compliment, I've always prided myself on being able to spell and such.
It's so irritating seeing all these 13 year old girls who can't spell, I know how you feel.
Now I have to admit some stuff and you'll probably take back what you said when you hear it but here we go.
The other week I asked a question about what I should do about my best friend and my ex boyfriend. You answered and I guess I got angry with you because you told the truth and I wasn't ready to accept that.
Now I realise that I was being pathetic and immature and that you were right.
I took what you said into account and told my friend that I appreciated her thinking about my feelings but that I wanted her to be happy and it would be okay with me if she got together with my ex. They didn't end up going out for some other reason but I want to thank you for making me see how stupid I was being.
I really respect you and your advice, you really helped me out, thank you :)
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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!
1} About two to three times a week, but I have baths on the other days and I only wash my hair if I have a shower because my hair goes weird if I wash it too much.
2} I usually shave in the bath but if I have to shave in the shower then I just turn the shower head away while I do it then turn it back to rinse. As for how many days I leave between shaving, it's usually one or two in the Summer but sometimes it's as long as four or five in the Winter.
3} I usually shampoo, then apply conditioner and leave it on while I shave then I was it off and use soap.
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Is there anyway for people to know you and ask you personal questions. I have had only a few personal questions and I wish I had more. Is there like i said anyway to get more popular on this site, or well known?!?
I've been at this site for over a year, I'm a level II mod, I've answered countless questions, I have a perfect 5 rating and I still don't get many questions to my inbox.
If you stay at Advicenators for a long time, you get pretty well known for giving good advice and all that then you will probably get more questions to your inbox.
However, with so many good columnists here, very few people get loads of personal questions because there just aren't enough for everyone to have tons.
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