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I have always had girls come up to me and say they think i'm cute or ask me out, and all the girls have had crushes on me. What I want to know is how do I approach girls that i like that might be shy or scared to? I've never had to and i'm pretty clueless of what to talk about and how to tell if she's interested in me or not, unless she has come up to me. I'd appreciate your feedback.

Thanks (link)
Im telling, you honestly were not that hard to talk with.
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html
Take a look at this site (It shows you how girls flirt, and stuff then you'd know she was intrested.)
And really..You can talk about anything like go up to the girl.. And say something like.. "Hey arent you in [teacher name] class?" But pretty much what im trying to say is, you dont have to impress a girl with a big converstation because if she really likes you, just you saying "hi" would make her day.


is there any new songs you guys know because im starting to get kinda late on what songs are new right now
you can name anything i like it all.. thanks
i rate 5 for all answers! (link)
well, i like more of the ' alternative scene '
but i really like ANY song by :
Panic! at the disco
Taking back sunday [they aren't that new.]
Hellogoodbye [ even though they aren't new.]
armor for sleep [ not new ]
most of these bands aren't really ' big ' so you could find them on itunesss.
but uh there's some other songs too like
I'm sprung or I'm in love[with a stripper] by T pain


19/Male...There is one girl in my Accounting class that I am attracted to. We are in the same lunch line every day right after class, but it seems like every time I am about to talk to her, i freeze up. I still haven't said one word to her. What should I do to break the ice? (link)
Dont plan it out, its really easy to tell (or atleast for me it is.)
Just say something..like "Heyy arent you in (teachers name)" & she'll probably talk to you its really simple,You dont have to impress her with a good converstation starter.




Well my x bestfriend bobby, we have been friends for more then years
before we were in 1st grade, now were both in 10 grade high school.
Well it was just me him his brother and Trevor my other xbestfriend he
was are friend at 6 th grade, so me and bobby were the first. (and his
brother Thad) Well last year me and bobby both got a guitar, so we
started to talk to two kids (Vinnie and Vito) because they are great
at guitar and we wanted lessons, so before we know it we hang out with
them evey day. were having fun its been like six mouths, so were good
friends. well Vinnie and Trevor always beat on bobby, and we were all
throwing empty waterbottes at everyones, them we stoped. Bobby likes
to sing so he started to sing, so i picked up a waterbotte and i throw
it at him now hard. Vito right after throw it at his face. So the next
day everyone hates me because of that. That was six mouths ago. I
started to talk to bobby only on the phone, but only like every two
weeks. Now i don't have any one to hang out with. I was one of the
only people he trusted. SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO SO WE CAN
BE FRIENDS AGIAN!!!!! Or help me to stop thinking about him.
(link)
you hit him in the face?
wtf..


Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide? (link)
Maybe hes scared beacause it so small?
Or he doesnt like sharing he has one.
And if one of those are the cases..I wouldnt come out and ask him why, that be more embarressing (sp?) to him.
My friend says she'd dirty talk him about showing it.
But yea..


I'm currently expecting my first child and my due date is fast approaching. I recently told my husband that I'm hurt that no one has offered to throw a baby shower even though everyone around us (family, friends, coworkers, church members) knows that we are expecting. He said that I should throw a baby shower for myself. I'm afraid that it would be a breach of etiquette and come across as greedy. With our current financial situation, the gifts would be helpful, but I want the shower more for the companionship and celebration that comes with it.
1) Would you consider it greedy if someone were to invite you to a baby shower they were throwing for themself?
2) What would you do in this situation? (link)
I'd be hurt too, if nobody wanted to throw me a baby shower.
But i say since it could help you & your family out, I'd probably go for it, and plan one for yourself.


im getting a treadmill soon and what i want to know is how much should i go on the treadmill each day if i want to lose my chubby stomach ? any hints (link)
I usally do atleast an hour a day.


"I dont know how to put this, but uh, im kind of a big deal"

what is that from? i see it everywhere.. (link)
The movie Anchorman


This question has been bothering me for quite sometime now...

If someone is depressed why wouldn't they want to reach out and get help?

Thanks (link)
They dont realize that they can get help, they find themself alone, so therefor they feel nobody can help them.


as a last minute addition to my boyfriend's gifts.. i'm going to make him a mix of love songs.

any good r&b love songs? (link)
My boo - Alica keys & usher
was what i thought of exactly.
And This Mariah Carey & jadakiss song i think its called "Kiss me" Only im not sure.


im 13 and i got my period a week before my 12th birthday. my boobs didnt grow at all before that and they are supposed to grow dramatically and then still havent grown much at all im like a 32A and its been a year and 2 months since ive gotten my period..is somethign wrong or are my boobs just enver going to grow? (link)
There not suppose to grow "dramatically"


My boyfriend is 13 years old..he is always horney and I wanted to know...do you think he would want to have sex? I'm not going to I was just wondering
(link)
Probably, hes 13.
And intrested.


my computer has like ZERO fonts. only the regular ones. my friend has a whole lot of her computer, is there any websites that are FREE and you can just click a button and the fonts will be downloaded to your computer and you don't have to click each and every font you want? i will rate 5's for good answers (link)
flamingtext.com . you can buy fonts there, and theyre like aweswome.


hey, do any of you know really good ways to get relaxed besides drugs? and if you do, give exact details and steps. (link)
meditation:
lay in your bed and focus on relaxing one part: such as starting from your feet up: say "isolation of my feet; my feet are frozen. isolation of my ankles..." say it in a quiet voice, almost like a whisper, and very slowly. this process should take about 20-30 min, and after words, you can go to sleep because of the state youll be in.


15/f
what do you get for a guy that you have been only going out with for about week? lame, huh? i really like him though. we have liked eachother for sometime too...
thanks. ill rate, no need to ask.
=] (link)
Will if he's a guy with a big obsession on something.. (and as obsession for AHWILE now..) you can get something do add on to it.
Of a box of candies, and A cute little card.


I was just on a website, www.rotten.com, and i pretty much clicked on every picture on it. I'm not a murderer or anything, im a 15 year old girl. Basically i'm trying to say that i dont know what to do becuase I feel so dizzy and sick, and I think those pictures are going to be stuck in my head for the rest of my life? I dont know what made me look at them all, but i did and theres no turning back. How do i stop feeling so..i cant even find the word for it, and stop thinking about them, and function normally? Thanks, i'd really like to sleep, hah. (link)
watch some tv before bed, and it could help you feel better.


Ok, so I masturbate on school nights out of fear that I won't be too horny the next day and look at one of my friends the wrong way, ya know? But lately it hasn't been working so well, I still feel horny sometimes when I am at school. Don't suggest doing it in the morning because I barely have enough time for breakfast as it is, add that and well, it'd get messy. And also I have enough morals not to do it at school. So, if anyone knows the cure to unrelenting horniness please tell me.
15/m (link)
wow.
i dont know, i think chocolate only works for girls? I dont know. I think many people get horny at school, and its pretty normal? I dont know, im a girl, and its normal for me.


i have this really small bumb on the right side of my toung. i don't think it's very serious because i've had it before. anyway it hurts when food touchs it and when i touch it. do you think im allergic to somthing or do you think it's somthing serious or do you think it's nothing. let me know!

thanks

(link)
you might have just bite your tongue.
It will go away in a few days.
stop messing with it though.


hey!i have circles,and i now that if i didnt have dark circles,i would look great!i really want to know,from users out their,(or expeirienced people,or anyone who knows anything about it!)what is a great cream to removes them?i also wanted to know what are some great concealers?!thank you so much!

(ps-im not going to rate you low if you give a bad answer,if you try you will get a 3-5! :]) (link)
I'd have to say I use Bare minerals.
And i love it, it covers up my bags (darkcircles) under my eyes. And doesnt give away many of my pimples.


i am 13, and lets just say i gotta some extra junk in the trunk, or baggage in the belly... and i would like it lose some of it before bathing suit season? does anyone have some simple tips, that wont take too much time, but are effective?

anything would be much appreciated (link)
Since your 13 (same age as me) And by the way "Junk in the trunk" means that you have a nice round butt.
And But anyways, you can get in shape and here a few helpful sites..
http://www.toneteen.com/
http://www.lhj.com/lhj/index.jhtml
http://www.shape.com/
http://www.shape.com/
http://www.self.com/fitness/




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