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Masturbing
Ok, so I masturbate on school nights out of fear that I won't be too horny the next day and look at one of my friends the wrong way, ya know? But lately it hasn't been working so well, I still feel horny sometimes when I am at school. Don't suggest doing it in the morning because I barely have enough time for breakfast as it is, add that and well, it'd get messy. And also I have enough morals not to do it at school. So, if anyone knows the cure to unrelenting horniness please tell me.
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*shrugs*
I never had that problem as I never associated my sexuality with other people - unless they liked me and were physically near me.
Unless you're admiring girls and popping wood on the spot, I bet this has nothing to do with your sexual appetite. As males, we are told, "If you look at girls, YOU'RE A PERVERT." Understand the context of your admiration. You're attracted to females. Admiring them does not degrade them. It has nothing to do with how often you masturbate. You're better off understanding the context with which you're admiring them, and just accepting that you're admiring them. That is, just be glad you're in a setting where you can admire them and don't feel guilty about it.
At least, that's my hunch.
Otherwise, when I was in high school, I masturbated before going to bed so I'd sleep faster. It was a useful technique.
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geez enough with the long answers already makes me eyes sore, best way to kick the habit is either scare yourself by thinking about your manly stick is going to fall off by unnatural motion :-D not to mention hey man thats the hand you eat with, thats the fingers you lick after a messy meal think about where that hand has been :-D lol.ok try this on for size, stay physically active, everytime you feel that feeling coming on get down do 20 pushups jog in place for 10 minutes and drink a cold glass of water. make a negative habit a positive habit, and if your at school and you feel that way your looking at something that isnt helping! look away man look away! i could go on but i dont want to bore you stiff oops lol wrong word.
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Ok, first of all, everything that you talked about ,its pretty normal. It's perfectly normal for someone to masterbate, and it would be very hard to find someone that has never felt horny at school. I bet that a lot of guys your age feel that they have the same "problem" (its not really that big of a problem, if it makes you feel better). The best thing to do is to stop thinking about how its going to through you off. The more you concentrate on it, the more you're gonna feel yourself getting horny. besides, mentally, maybe it isn't a good idea to really on doing it at a certain time to relieve "pressure" for the day. You'll find yourself depending on it to get you through the day, and that not a good situation. It sound hard to do, but just stop thinkng about it. Try to think of something else when it happens. And if you do feel a little excited during the day, taht's perfectly okay. Odds are, no one's going to notice (unless there just starting at your pants, but that's not likely :) ) hope this helps
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Ok I have a little insight. First of all masturbating is not the key. Masturbating at school is just as bad as masturbating at home. The reason you have the urge to masturbate at school is because masturbation is addictive. It becomes a very difficult habbit to break, but ask God to help you with it. Say God I am weak you know that I am weak and if I am going to beat this it is going to have to be from you. When you fail just say sorry good I tried and I am used to failing. I trust in you mercy and just keep trying. Never give up. NOw for some not spiritual help ok. Whenever you get the urge in your body quickly seal your heart like if you were deadbolting a door in your will. THen the urge will not only leave your body but will leave town. Also any time your mind starts to drift to the girls in your class or to anything else that turns you on just turn your focus to something else and close your heart like I said. WHen you are at home and you have the urge to touch yourself put your hands out like if you were on a crucifix. Think about the passion of Christ and you will be safe. Also your hands stretched out means they wont be down your pants. It might seem like you can't resist but that is because anybody who commits a sin becomes a slave to sin. Just after you mess up re commit yourself and admit your fault to God and implore his help and you will overcome your horniness. Dont be discouraged. ALso say "Padre Pio pray for me." and you will gain help from a very special friend. If you want you can look him up. Good Luck I will pray for you.
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You're not going to like this, but the only real cure for horniness is age. And it's not really a cure; it just damps down the urgency a bit, makes it easier to cope with.
Relaxation and meditation techniques might help a little, but I really don't know.
There are medications which can cut down on your sex drive, but that's a side-effect, not the main purpose of those medications. No doctor would prescribe them to you just for horniness. And any or all of them could be very dangerous for you.
I think you're going to have to live through it, the way that all the rest of us have. If it's any comfort, right now your self-consciousness is at a lifetime high, too - so your state of arousal is almost certainly NOT as obvious to your friends as you think. For one thing, they're probably all almost totally preoccupied with their OWN horniness.
Good luck!
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wow.
i dont know, i think chocolate only works for girls? I dont know. I think many people get horny at school, and its pretty normal? I dont know, im a girl, and its normal for me.
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ummmmmm......... well i heard that chocolate is good for making you horny so i guess you could cut down on the chocolate.
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