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How to approach girls
I have always had girls come up to me and say they think i'm cute or ask me out, and all the girls have had crushes on me. What I want to know is how do I approach girls that i like that might be shy or scared to? I've never had to and i'm pretty clueless of what to talk about and how to tell if she's interested in me or not, unless she has come up to me. I'd appreciate your feedback.
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Well to be fair if you always get girls coming up to you then you can't be ugly, so well done you! :P It might sound shallow but any girl is going to be flattered if a good-looking guy asks them out, whether they are interested or not. My advice is just to not be shy - at least if they say no they're going to be unlikely to laugh at you! Girls love confidence (but NOT arrogance!) and if you act confident you should feel more confident inside. Go for it, and good luck! :D
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Im telling, you honestly were not that hard to talk with.
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Take a look at this site (It shows you how girls flirt, and stuff then you'd know she was intrested.)
And really..You can talk about anything like go up to the girl.. And say something like.. "Hey arent you in [teacher name] class?" But pretty much what im trying to say is, you dont have to impress a girl with a big converstation because if she really likes you, just you saying "hi" would make her day.
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Well, you've gotten past the hard part, and that's asking for alittle help.
First, I guess you know which girl you most interested in and why, so use that as a place to start.... some day when school is out ask her if you can walk her to her car or the bus(like in my day) because you'd like to get to know her a little better. Let her know you're not currently dating anyone, because a shy girl won't want to get involved if there's another, stronger, more dominant girl involved, because they are shy and introverted.
Another thing.... talk gently, make eye contact and smile often. Keep it lighthearted and fun and let her know you just want to be friends and don't hurry anything. Shy people will run at the first hint of pressure.... keep it relaxed and easy and for her to unfold in the friendship. She's probably a very nice girl... perhaps in her family she's a passive member and to cause less grief or confrontation at home, she's retreated within herself...
And don't rush anything.... kind of let her choose the pace of your new friendship and I salute and celebrate you young man.... for being good hearted and looking beyond the clicks and the groupies that are more superficial than real. I use to be one of those girls that got looked over for the 'popular' ones and now those same people are begging me to attend our highschool reunions, and why they didn't like me then... and I'm the same person.... but I really am a good person, turned out pretty good, have three great kids and three even better grandkids...
I wish you well dear heart and perhaps giving this young lady a simple, inexpensive Valentine's Day card tomorrow would be a good ice breaker, one just a a special friend... tell her you'd really like to be her friend because she has some qualities you look for and appreciate in others, boys or girls.... good luck and I'll be thinking of you....
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hey girls love compliments so go up to her and say heyy yuo look pretty today or something like that. most convos start naturaly. try to find a topc your both interesting in. after is all done ask for her aim screen name. also make alot of eye contact. cait ♥
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If you see girls starting at you and checking you out, go talk to them. Just say hey and the more you worry about starting a conversation, you won't know anything to talk about. Topics come natrually so don't worry about that. If you see someone that you are interested in, go up to them and start talking. Be yourself and don't try to hard to impress them. Give her a nice compliment but don't make it cheesy. Also, don't be afraid of rejection. All girls are different and if one doesn't like you, don't worry about it. Make eye contact with a girl when you are talking to her and show confidence. It's not that hard but you just need to relax lol.
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