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any ideas for types of pony tails? and how to do it? or just any type of really easy and quick hair-dos for school :]
my hair is getting boring.. :[


peaceandlove. (link)
http://duffwonderland.com (Go to the hair section at the top)

http://www.geocities.com/mka_wonderland/ (go to hair section on the site)

they have nice stuff and good tips for hair.


Well, I broke the pointy part like literally broke it off of my elbow it was something like the elektron or something. well has anyone else broken the same part and if so how long did you have your cast on and did drinking milk help? (link)
Well, i didn't brake the pointy part of my elbow. But i have broken my funny bone which is around that area. I was in a cast for about 4 weeks. Afterwords i couldn't really move my arm for about another 1-3 weeks. Drinking milk could help but also taking vitamins will help. You could try Calcium vitamins. People use them a lot to help heal bone injuries. Good luck.



What exactly does "Wishful thinking" mean?
is it a cliche?


i know this may seem dumb im sorry
but i had no idea what it meant :[ (link)
Wishful thinking to ME means..
Kinda like good thinking, or very thoughtful thinking.
i tried.. :]


ok so this is so emberessing to ask but
the other day i was sitting down and i farted,
but.... not where i should have. im a girl by the
way, and i think i farted from my vagina? this
sounds so gross, and im sorry to ask but i'm really
curious what it is.. my friend said it's called queefing?


haha, whats that and why do we do it?


thanks (link)
Yes its called queefing..
http://community.livejournal.com/sextips/3862192.html

is a site, for you.


my arms are kinda hairy, but not really bad or anything but do you think thats gross or anything because my mom wont let me shave them (link)
Lucky, mine are hairy & dark dark dark black.
I bleach them, you go to walmart and stuff to get some type of cream to bleach it.
& its really easy.


okay i wear a regular tampon for like 8 hours and when i go to take it out it hurts. what should i do ? (link)
I dont use tampons but, maybe you need to take it out slower, and be more calm when you take it be relaxed.


what does tlc stand for and what does it mean? (link)
If you mean as in the channel
the
learning
channel
lol.


I would like teenagers to answer this one,

My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
Im 13, and female also.
She may be either whats now consider "Emo" or "Punk" or "goth". More then likely its "punk" or "emo". i personally dont fit into those "sterotypes". But you need to allow your daughter to express herself, and find herself. Its not exactly in or out of fashion, really its just a sterotype thing, its even possible she can grow out of it.


so, a random question bout sex. i was just wondering, since statistics show that the average teen loses their virginity by the age of 17. well.. is it possible to have sex (when the guy uses a condom) and NOT get pregnant? cuz like, other teens have done it and they havent got pregnant riight? but what im scared of is that my sister had an unplanned pregnancy and she already had a baby. she said she used a condom and i guessed it broke.

questions:
is it common for a condom to break?
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?

thanks in advance. (link)
is it common for a condom to break?- Yes
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?-Yes

Thats why most girls are usally also on birth control.


I have a slight problem. Sometimes when I get out of the bath/shower I feel like I am going to fall, my eyes change for some reason, and I get real dizzy. This has happened more than once and I have never been to a doctor over this problem because my family doesn't have much money. If anyone could tell me why these have been happening it would be much appreciated.
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Oh man, that happened to me too! It was about two years ago and it would happen everytime I got out of the shower. I think it has to do with how warm the water is.. because I used to take REALLY hot showers. Just try to adjust the temperature to make it cooler and slowwwww down. I hope I helped! :)


theres this girl, lets call her...ariella. shes beautiful, funny, nice...almost seems perfect. but i'm not friends with her at all. she's in my classes but we never talk. she's not in my range at all, and i would never dream of asking her out. how do i be just friends with her...13/m (link)
She may almost seem "perfect", and that good make her seem really shallow, or not.
But she can beautiful & not be shallow honestly.
Just say Hi to her, one day randomly she'll say hi back.
And go from there, it would be specially easy if you sit near her.


ok this may sound a bit strange but does any1 know about the average bra size 4 a 13 year old because i get really embaressed getting sized up!! (link)
hey hun! there isnt an average size for 13 year olds because every girl is different. if the female in your family have small chests them mostlikely yours will be to and same with bigger chested families. im 13 female and my bra size is 38C! thats big but my family has big breast. and dont be embarassed about it because every girl goes through the stage where they dont know their bra size. i went through it and then i just tried a couple bras and found the one that fit best.


how do you "talk dirty" if your a girl (link)
http://www.lhj.com/lhj/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/lhj/story/data/TalkDirtyToMe_08092004.xml

tips for talking at that site.


ALRIGHT. I can't take this anymore! I've tried every diet you can do & seen a nutrisionist. For awhile I just ate wayy less and lost about 7 pounds (over summer) but I'm pretty sure it's all back now. I honestly don't know how much I weigh because we don't have a scale, but I'm guessing 170-180. And I'm 5'2. Yeah, hah I'm fat. Before I moved to TEXAS (in third grade) I was never fat, I was reeeally skinny actually, less than normal. Then, I guess all the fat asses in Texas had such an influence on me I decided to become one myself!

Kay, no really, what the hell do I do to lose weight. Give me some exercises that will help, or even a plan of meals per day. Please please please, and make sure it works. I'll follow it exactly as long as it truly works. Thanks. (link)
Not all texas people are fat :[
But im going to help you out anyways.
www.toneteen.com (teenager or not its still has some good tips and everything)
You just need to add everything in slowly, to gain into the habits (Habits take 30 days)


My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice. (link)
I'd just tell him
"she (or the girls name) said no, but maybe you should ask her out yourself"
she could be the type of girl (like me) who would rather him come up to her.
but if she really ment know, let your friend know that you still think he's a cool guy.


I have a chance to be on the Oprah Winfrey show. She is looking to interview people with a mental illness and I have schizophrenia. I have been published in other magazines before for how I have managed to live with my condition; but have never been on television.
Some of my friends are telling me to go for it; but I don't know if I want this much exposure. Does anyone have any reasons why I shouldnt go on the show? And Pros or Cons? I havent made up my mind yet! (link)
Oprah is amazing.
I honestly think you should do it share with otheres exactly what it is, and how it "works" (I've never heard of it whatsoever) I think its a good chance to let others know about it.
But you know it is quite of alot of exposure, and if you are not comfortable doing it (beacause alot, i mean alot of people watch oprah) then dont.


Hi, this is going to make me sound really messed up. Sometimes I laugh uncontrollably when a situation doesn't call for it. Today for example my parents were fighting, and I just started laughing. I didn't find it funny at all and I was really upset about it, but I couldn't stop it. It also happened once when my friend told me her mother died.. I laughed as I told other people, even though i felt awful about what happened..
Is there something wrong with me? I hate not having control over my reactions like this. (link)
As long as you honestly dont find it funny you're normal.
Its just your away of reacting to bad situtions.


ok my friend has been making a lot of friends with these internet people in chatrooms. i'm getting worried about her. like the people seem pretty normal..they all have myspaces and pictures and all, so i dont relaly think they're rapists or anything. but still.they're like her best friends now and i'm just kind of worried about her. help (link)
Try going to google and type in "chat rooms" then scroll to the bottom and click on "search within results" and type in "danger"

You will get articles like this one
http://www.netalert.net.au/01465-What-are-the-potential-dangers-of-Chat-Rooms.asp

Myspace, AIM, and chatrooms are all very dangerous. This is why I have all these things. So I can
1. Understand my son's world and
2. Learn what to watch out for
3. Help him and his friends be safe

I've received emails from scary guys in prisons and have seen first hand how powerful all this technology is. All I can say is be careful. There are freaks out there "shopping" don't make it easy for them.

Love, Mrs S


okay you know how some people say you're lighter when you weigh yourself in the morning?? is that true?? i was wondering what your real weight was..like in the morning er in the afternoon/day because i noticed when i weigh myself in the morning i weigh less than at night.

thanks!! (link)
In the morning use the bathroom & then weight yourself. thats usally the closet to exact weight.


Okay my brother and I are like really really close and recently he just moved to college (and im in 7 grade). Im so bored at home and I miss him so much. Also, I had a foster sister for a while and she recently moved away to another foster home because she had alot of anger issues. aNy ways im so bored and sad at home because now im like an only child. My parents are thinking about fostering again but its going really slow with our caseworker and all, and at home I sometimes get depressed and stuff. I have like three or four really close friends and a boyfriend but only one of them lives close enough to see me outside of school(and sometimes she gets pretty annoying just cause im around her so much) Does anybody have advice about stuff to do or something that will keep me busy? All it seems like I do all day is sit on the couch or computer. Thanx!!
I rate high also... (link)
I know what you mean only my brother leaves beacause he has issues & atleast you guys are close.
Im usally on the computer, outside with chalk by myself (its really is fun), listening to music, and school takes up alot. I re do my room all the time, and i get magazines alot to read them. i give myself facials and stuff.
its not all that bad. :]
you didnt mention weather you were a guy or girl, so my ideas may have not worked.




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