about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way

i personaly think you should talk to your friend about this and see if she has any feelings for him.. but i think you should be able to go back out with your ex because you had him first.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that?

i think you are loosing a lil interasite in him.. you dont like him as much as you used to or am much as you think you do.. you got soultions:
1) talk to him and tell him how you feel...

2) or just break up with him and find a guy you are more interasitted in. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep trying to go down there even when he knows, and when he does I push his hand away and he sort of seems mad and doesn't get it but sometimes he acts like he does get it, so I am not sure why he keeps doing this?

ok what you need to do is talk to him and tell him how you feel. even though i know you have already told him what has happened in your past. what you need to do is move on.. you were 5-6 years when that happened too. it is sad what happened but you got to know it has already happened and you cant go back and fix the past you can only forget or at least try to forget about.. maybe your boyfriend goes "down there" to show or try to show you he cares since action speak more then words.. but the only thing you can do is talk to him and explain to him how you feel.. and when you move his hand away maybe try kissing him or something else (if he looks mad).. you got to know your boyfriend loves you and cares about you and doesnt want to hurt you... i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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a friend of mine said dr pepper will make a girls "stuff" stink. is that true?

no that isnt true..lol.. sry... it cant make a girls "stuff" stink..hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so my family has 1 computer that has internet..and me and my sister fight constantly about it. so my mom decided that we get the computer every other day. so like i get it today all day and she gets it tomorrow all day..then i get it the next day...and so on..but i think thats totally unfair..cuz i like to talk to my friends everynight/day. so can someone help me with coming up with a plan or somethin to make it so we both get time on the computer everyday? thanks

mayeb try soemthing like every 5 hours you guys switch turns on the computer or how ever many hours you got afterschool and split it in half. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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iwant bigger boobs but im small i dont want to stuff and i dont have money and in 5 days school will start

bigger boobs arent always better...i have small boobs and i actually love them and dont want them to grow any bigger bc then they will just get in the way and most guys dont like that.. if you think about it when you boyfriend hugs you he is like safficatting you smashing your boobs and that would hurt..lol.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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school will be starting soon and i want to wear short gens .a spike belt,and a shirt that say this is the worst day of my life and wear some make up shuo,d i add anything or keep it the way it is
sighed ,
not sure

it sound great.. maybe if you got some earing or bracletts then wear them otherwise your good to go.. hope this helps you out...
*~Stephanie~*

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well. i went camping with my friend adam who brang his friend john with. we were walking in the woods and john was flirting with me and i finaly took his hand, forgetting he had a girlfriend already. so it got dark and the curfue was eleven. so we stayed out and i dont know how but me and john started to make out. and it was the first time i had ever made out in my life. so, we would always go on trails with adam and we would always make out. it was like me and john were together and that i was his girlfriend. they went home and we went home and when i got online, we started to talk. and i never liked his girlfriend. so me and her always talk now and now shes like my best friend. even tho she tells me sometimes to back away from john and stuff cuz he's hers. but i cant. finally, john promised me he would never hert me. i got online the next day, getting an IM from his girlfriend saying, omg. john purposed to me. so i got really pissed and started to cry. john still calls me cutie and still loves me. we're going camping in september again. what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

you need to talk to John and tell him how you feel. explain to him what is happening...tell everything, just poor it all out.. i would be heartbroken and depressed.. if he trys to do anything with you at the camp just like act liek your goin to kiss him and then back out and be like" o sry i 4got you got a girlfriend who is soo to become your wife and you shouldnt be doing this" guys usual say anythin to get what they want..i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok this is for guys mainly, unless girls have any idea

what would you want as an anniversary present?i have no clue what to get my b/f. any opinions?

what could be really cute and not so expensive is if you have any pictures of you and him or you if you dont go by one of those through away cameras take a lot of pictures with him and make like a scap book or a photo album of pictures for him.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im 13 and im going into the 8th grade..and saddly ive never had a boyfriend. To me i think im farely attractive and im a nice person. I have gotten a few offers but there just not the right guys. What could i do to get a boyfriend i really like?
Signed: Single and NOT loving it.

i understand how you feel but you got to learn to take chances and make mistakes. it has been told you learn more from your mistakes then your successes... give those guys a chance but remember ***you never have to do anythin you dont want to do or anything you feel uncomfrontable with***.. if you want to get at a guy you like you should first look at your choices and then which everyone you like you should first start out as friends and get to know the guy and then get close and if you still like him go out with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks!

yes it means she wants to eat with you so basically she wants to st with you..lol.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2.

there is nothin wrong with that.. you should go out with her. but i just got to tell you LOOKS ARENT EVERYTHING. she can be the hotest girl and be the stupidest one to. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Do Tums help period cramps? i rate high if i get good advice thanx!

i dont know if tums work but they should but i use tylenol that stuff works i use the extra stengh kind... so yea hope thie helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok if any of you guys have pictures you can answer my question and duhh ill give you an easy 5.

when i load my pic thing on my advice column, the rest of it gets all weird! if you inserted a picture right in your advice column, feedback me and ill give you my advice column name to show you want i mean.

thanks!

ok i think you should go to either http://imageshack.us/

or

http://www.tinypic.com/

and upload the picture on that then get the URL code and put that in instead of uploadin the picture striaght from your computer..hope this helps you out.. if it doesnt then i dont noe what your talking and maybe you can tell me so i can see how i can help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I was woundering how do you make a playist ?? I have no idea how to. And i really want one. Can anyone give me a site and tell me how to so incase I wont have to use the site. Thanks a Bunch

ok this site has a whole bunch of other sites that have different kinds of music http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source


that site down you can get codes from it to and all you do is search for the artist

http://cdzinc.com/cdzinc.html



this is the playlist code>>>>>>>














Name Of Song #0
Name Of Song #1
Name Of Song #2
Name Of Song #3










i got it from here http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=best_hiphopmusik_provider

and you can find other URL codes there. if you need anymore help with your xanaga or whatever you need codes for. drop it in my inbox i am sure i can help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im 15/f and a senior in my school and I are friends. He figured out i was single agian and said stuff like "Oh i'm single too, you looking?" and said he wanted a chance but i assumed he was playing and was like Right right yeah yeah, of course u like me! whatever and such. But now i kind of like him more! I don't know if he was actually joking or not! He gave me his cell # but im to bashful to call it! do you think he was joking?
School starts tomorrow but i doubt i'll have classes with him, should i wait n see if he talks to me in hallways??? help???

i think since he gave you the number you should call why else are you going to give someone your number if you dont like them or want to talk to them.. i mean if i give a guy my number that means something.. it means i like him and i want him to call and talk to him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I was just wondering which would be better for health reasons: eyebrow, nose, bellybutton or lip piercing? thx

i think belly button because you cant get it infected as easy as the rest because you cover it a lot more then the rest. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hello I am an 18 year old female with a rather embarrassing question. My vagina has this weird..... almost like a hanging flap of skin on one side. And only one side. It is pretty long, over two inches when pulled up. I am afriad to date or anything because I dont want him to think I am freaking looking down there. I havn't seen barly any vaginas in my life- is this normal?? PLease help!

i think it is normal and you shouldnt worry about it.. i think you should go out and have fun you have nothing to worry about. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?

i used to cutt like 8 months ago but i stopped like a week latter.. but what helps me stop is to get my mind off of it..like listen to music, watch tv, talk to some friends, go out some place, read a book, look at a magazine,, etc...if you dont want to cut anymore then you can stop if you are determined to and if you set your mind to it.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have had thought of suicide in my mind about 6 times now. i have attempted it, but i dont think i have really tried hard enough to kill myself. do you think i would be concidered suicidal?

i dont think so but i have thought about it to...lol... i dont really love my life and the way it is and so sometimes i think about suicide and i only attempted it once. but i dont think your suicidal unless you attepmt it more then once. i mean you can really think about anyhting but it doesnt always mean you will do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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