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I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that?
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Hey! Don't worry girl, I know how ya feel!
It could be that you are just starting to lose interest in him. This isn't a good thing for a relationship and you should end it soon. This means that you don't really want to be with him anymore. It means your relationship is getting old and you just... lose interest.
It's O.K. You may not WANT to break up with him but if you don't want to see him, you should break up with him. It could hurt you later on or worse... it could hurt him. Tell him the relationship really isn't working and you and him would better as friends. Email me if you need anything! My email is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com or you could drop one in my inbox!
Don't be afraid to ask me ANYTHING!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped! **
♥ Kayla
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Ahh, I had the same problem before and I figured out it was because I started to loose interest in him. I just didn't want to be around my ex or anything. So, my opinion on your situation is that you don't have strong feelings for him as much. You would rather be friends. If you still feel the same toward him just break up with him. I mean you don't have to break up with him, but I think it would be for the best. You would keep hurting his feelings by not hanging out with him and not wanting to be around him so it would be better if one of you broke it off. Good luck babe!
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i think you are loosing a lil interasite in him.. you dont like him as much as you used to or am much as you think you do.. you got soultions:
1) talk to him and tell him how you feel...
2) or just break up with him and find a guy you are more interasitted in. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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i dont think you like him as much as you think you did, sometimes people get boring after a while and everyone wants to try something new...keep in mind that nothing lasts forever people change and perhaps deep down inside you dont want to be with him, i think alone time is good for you to figure out how you feel for yourself maybe you think hes too clingy i dont kno no one can tell you how you feel..you should know how you feel..go find a close friend you trust and talk bout it to him/her
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maybe you are folling out of love woth him.so you need to talk to him about that before both of you get really mixed upand hurt
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Honestly, you're probably just getting bored. Perhaps it was just lust.
I think you should break up with him, and remain friends.
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maybe you have found out that you wanna be single. you guys are probably better off single since you think that. being single is good, cause you have youre oun room and you can do whatever without a guy on your back.
hope i helped
xOxoXXo~~- ---AdRiiAnA
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well i dont really know why your feeling that, but maybe your just better off as best friends. if your best friends you cant go on dates but you can still hang out. maybe you just need a break from him a while, like a little vacation. guys can be annoying sometimes, lol.
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