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okay so i like this guy, SORT OF. hes in love with me! i just like him as a friend, but he like wants to go out with me!he keeps asking me questions like IF we go out, and IF i break up with my girlfriend, etc. and my friend HATES him, their like enemies. she's my best friend too! how do i deal with both of these problems! like what if we went out she'd be like EW WHY R U GOIN OUT WITH HIM. how do i tell him i just like him without hurting his feelings?
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omg like i dunno like u shud soo go out with him cuz you SORT OF like him thats like sooo adorable or hurt his feelings that would be so awesome too...god wat r you 13?
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Well, start off by just waiting for the moment to come. He hasn't asked you out yet. That gives you time to plan.
Then, when he does, just say "I'm sorry, but I don't think I want to get into that deep of a relationship just yet." I don't think it can be done without making him feel a tiny bit hurt, but in that manner, it gives him a false feeling of hope. And hope will keep him happy. Just keep on saying "Wait a bit, we're not ready", and it will keep him happy, and your friend.
I hope I helped.
-Steven
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Just be like "Hey I like you a lot, but not in that way" also see if your feelings change. Your friends might get mad at you, but if they are true friends they'll still stand by you. Don't let your friends control ur decision, you're your own person, make ur own desician.
Hope it helped.
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