well. i went camping with my friend adam who brang his friend john with. we were walking in the woods and john was flirting with me and i finaly took his hand, forgetting he had a girlfriend already. so it got dark and the curfue was eleven. so we stayed out and i dont know how but me and john started to make out. and it was the first time i had ever made out in my life. so, we would always go on trails with adam and we would always make out. it was like me and john were together and that i was his girlfriend. they went home and we went home and when i got online, we started to talk. and i never liked his girlfriend. so me and her always talk now and now shes like my best friend. even tho she tells me sometimes to back away from john and stuff cuz he's hers. but i cant. finally, john promised me he would never hert me. i got online the next day, getting an IM from his girlfriend saying, omg. john purposed to me. so i got really pissed and started to cry. john still calls me cutie and still loves me. we're going camping in september again. what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Razhie answered Friday August 26 2005, 9:11 am: Slap him. Hard. And then get over him.
This guy is all talk. He says he loves you, he says he'd never hurt you, an he treats you like his girlfriend, but only when you are alone.
That's not how someone who actually loves you treats you and you know it. Love is costant and concerned and respectful. This guy treats you like a doormat. He gets what he wants from you and then runs back to his girlfriend.
I wouldn't even take his purposal to her very seriously. Clearly everything that comes out of his mouth is bullshit. How many more times will he need to prove that to you before you find the strength to end things? [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
oxtinkerbell522x answered Thursday August 25 2005, 11:31 pm: please, before you answer a question LEARN HOW TO SPELL!!! the word is HURT not hert, and it's proposed, not purposed.
you are probably 13 god damn years old like every girl on this site. and if you are, it is pathetic that a guy PROPOSED to another stupid 13 year old girl. this john kid is an asshole, he's clearly a player. he's a jackass, leave him you moron!!!!!! HE'S USING YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU. [ oxtinkerbell522x's advice column | Ask oxtinkerbell522x A Question ]
babigirl500 answered Thursday August 25 2005, 10:46 pm: Okay, could it be true that shes making that up so you will really stay away....i think she might just be doing that but if its true you need to talk to john about it and tell him how you feel...as for the camping thing if its true,you shouldnt go cause he might wanna make out again and you will get hurt..i am so sorry if its true and guys are such @$$'$ sometimes....
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday August 25 2005, 10:33 pm: you need to talk to John and tell him how you feel. explain to him what is happening...tell everything, just poor it all out.. i would be heartbroken and depressed.. if he trys to do anything with you at the camp just like act liek your goin to kiss him and then back out and be like" o sry i 4got you got a girlfriend who is soo to become your wife and you shouldnt be doing this" guys usual say anythin to get what they want..i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
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