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Ok, you answered one of my questions about the sperm, & if it stays up in you or not. And you said it would generally stay up there if I wasn't on any kind of birth control. Well, would it effect me any differently if I was on birth control. Which, I am?

♥ thanks in advance.

Well if you are on birth control then the sperm still stays inside you, it just doesn't do anything.

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omg i hate myself sooo much....i'm not supposed to miss my ex and stuff. i'm not supposed to cry over him when i'm going out with my bf joe. god i'm soooo stupid and i shouldn't cry over schuyler i'm like joe a lot i'm a bitch and a whore i don't know what i should do.

First off, you're not a bitch or a whore, you're a teenager and this is the kind of stuff teenagers go through.

You need to keep this in perspective. I'm guessing you're about 14 or 15 - 16 at the most, in which case you have to remember that it's incredibly unlikely that Joe or this other guy is the love of your life. You probably won't end up living together with two kids and a mortgage because at the end of the day, it's just a teen romance. I know you'll come biting back at that with a low rating and a comment like 'it is love, you don't know me, you can fall in love at any age'. That may be so but by the sound of things, you're just a confused teenager who isn't quite sure of herself and her emotions.

You're probably thinking 'who's this bitch who thinks she knows me?' Okay, so I don't know you personally, I could have got this all wrong and you and Joe or that other guy you're lusting after might end up living happily ever after, but the chances are that I'm right. I've been confused over guys before, I've been all upset and thought my life was over because of some guy and it's taught me that I take things far too seriously.

I know that right now, the fact that you have feelings for your ex when you 'love' your boyfriend seems like the end of the world, but I assure you that it's not.

At the end of the day, it's down to you whether or not you carry on dating your boyfriend. It might turn out that you've just got a crush on this other guy but if you really do like him then it's probably best for you to end things with Joe and move on from both of them.

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Ok, if you don't use any means of birth control, and the guy comes in you after intercourse, does the cum stay in you, or come out?

Well if you're not using any type of birth control then all the sperm swim towards the egg to try and fertilise you. Some bits of semen might come out but the general idea is that the sperm gets to your eggs.

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I am not very good at putting makeup on. Also, i am almost all irish...so i dont tan very well so i'm kind of pale. What is a good way to (and a good kind) of makeup to use to make mayself look tanner AND OLDER i look kind of younger than i acutally am.

I have the same problem as you. I am very pale and I look younger than I am. But I happen to be very good with make up.

First off, you need to experiment with lots of different colours to see what looks good on you. I like to use lots of greens and blues and they look pretty good with my dark hair and pale skin, so they might suit you too. The key is not to stick to certain colours just because magazines tell you they'll look good. Try out all sorts of different stuff and eventually you'll find shades that look amazing on you.

Also, don't be afraid to mix colours. I usually wear at least three different shades of eyeshadow at the same time, because it looks a lot better than just one block colour. If you're not too confident then start out with using two similar shades then start to build up to more shades or different colours. If you do use more than colour, always remember to blend. Make up looks bad if you have harsh lines everywhere.

As for making yourself look more tanned...
I swear by bronzing powder. Buy a light bronzing powder {all make up brands will make them, you can get cheap or more expensive ones} and use a large fluffy brush to sweep it over your cheeks, forhead, chin and nose. Make sure you only apply it to areas that naturally tan. Each day, gradually build it up so that it looks like a natural tan.

If you're more confident then you could use something like Johnson's Holiday Skin. It's a moisturiser that contains self tan and it builds up a light and even tan that looks really natural. You can get it for your face and as a body lotion. I use it and I think it's really good.

The right application and the right shades of make up can make you look much older, it's all about experimentation and practice.

Good luck :]

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Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out.

Whether or not girls shave their pubic area is up to them. Some girls shave it all, some keep it and most just trim it. If you want to shave then go ahead, but if your boyfriend doesn't mind and you'd rather keep your pubic hairs then don't bother. It really is up to you. But remember, don't shave just because a guy wants you to - it should be your choice.

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Ok i have a frend that is afraid that after her and her bf had sex the condom got stuck inside her. I told her this isnt possible but is it??? She says she looked every where else for it but it just wasnt around but she also says she cant feel it even if she tries. I just wanna kno if this is possible and if so...what do i tell her to do?????!!!

It is possible for a condom to get stuck. It may or may not come out by itself, but if it's been a few days and she still can't get it out using her fingers then I suggest she sees a gynecologist or doctor to get it removed properly.

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Okay if i reinstall itunes will i lose all my songs that i have in my library and all the songs that i bought from itunes??

Thanks

No, you shouldn't lose them. They should all still be on iTunes without you having to import them or anything. However, if you do lose them then you can just import them from your iTunes library because it's a separate file.

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I`m just in a music mood. Know any good songs or bands or artists for me to give a try? Thanks a bunch. :)

Arctic Monkeys, The Kooks, Maximo Park, The Feeling, Razorlight, The Rakes, The Libertines, Dirty Pretty Things, Babyshambles, The Zutons, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The White Stripes, We Are Scientists, David Bowie, Coldplay, Bob Marley, Caesars, Gnarls Barkley, Jack Johnson, Harvey Danger, Third Eye Blind, Jet, Hellogoodbye, Muse, Nirvana, Nizlopi, Oasis, OK Go, The Raconteurs, Orson, Rancid, Sheryl Crowe, The Subways, Test Icicles.

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everytime I turn on my computer (a dell pc) msn signs me in. I don't want it to sign in automatically and I can't figure out how to make it stop. Does anyone know how to fix it?

Sign on to MSN and go to 'tools' then 'options' and 'general'. Then uncheck the boxes that say 'automatically run MSN when I sign onto Windows' and 'Automatically sign me in when connected to the internet'.

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Hello I realy need help We had sex wit my girl like in 1 week we did it like more than 11 times and I just let it exploded inside of her and like 2days or 3 after she got her period? is this mean shes not pregnant? if Im wrong is there a possibility she can get pregnant? ty in advance

Sometimes girls can get their periods even if they are pegnant, so I suggest she takes a test to make sure.

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hey, can you swim with tampons in? cait♥

Yes you can, but always make sure to put a fresh one in afterwards and never swim wearing a sanitary towel.

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hey, when you put in a tampon can it get stuck in you? cait♥

It's pretty impossible for the tampon to get stuck. After all, it has nowhere to go. The vagina isn't a never ending cave. Usually you can just pull it out using the attached string. If the string somehow gets stuck inside you then just gently remove the tampon with clean fingers.

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Ok, so i like this guy whom i think likes me too. but, the only problem is, i'm taller than him! and i think that is really getting to him and he's not acting himself b/c whenever we walk down the hallway he always has to look up to see me and i can tell he really doesn't like it. but it's not a big height difference, i'm 5'2 and he's like 5 foot. what should i do?

People will tell you that if you like him then height shouldn't be an issue, but of course it is really. When I was younger I went out with a guy for a while who was a couple of inches shorter than me and it was really annoying and it was probably quite degrading for him.

If you're prepared to deal with the height difference and go out with him then great, don't mention the height issue to him and he'll feel more comfortable with it. If you really think that it would be a problem then you'll just have to move on and find a taller guy.

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im not sure...but how many meters is your bust supposed to be to fit into a 32 A bra?

Meters? It shouldn't be any meters. It should be 32 inches all the way round and that should be measured using a tape measure underneath your breasts.

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Does anyone know if there's such a thing as a bra that makes your boobs look smaller? If so, do you know if it's possible for me to buy it in the NYC area, and also the price range that they cost? Thanks in advance..xox

You can buy minimizing bras at most stores that sell bras. They vary in prices but they're very effective.

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Okay, My sister Amanda gets really mean....and won't let me shop at "Abercombie" "Hollister" "Pac Sun" or "Zummies",and the only reson is because she shops at hot topic!!
also she won't let me listen to what music i like,
WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????


love,
sophie skilling

I'm exactly like that with my little sister. We have completely different tastes in clothing and I hate it when she plays her music because it's really not my thing.

However, it's not really fair and you need to let her know that. Tell her that she's entitled to dress how she wants and listen to the music she likes but that you're entitled to do the same.

If she still 'doesn't let you' then I suggest you talk to your parents or guardians. Your sister can't control what you like and your parents will be able to stop her from trying.

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Hey. Well, I'm like 5'6 to 5'7, and I'm 14/f African American (if that helps) and about to enter the 9th grade as a freshman in August. Anyways, I was just wondering if you guys thought that I was tall for my age, average height, etc. Also, can you guys tell me if long legs look good in mini skirts. Thanks.

P.S.-I have like a couple scabs on my legs and I'm brown skin and the scabs are like a dark brownish color, so I was wondering if that would look good in a mini skirt as well, and also whatI can do to clear it up quickly. Thanks again, and sorry for all the questions.

I'm 14/f and considered short for my age at 5"0'.
Most of my female friends are around 5"2 - 5"4 and they're pretty average.
So yes, you're quite tall for your age.

Mini skirts look great on long legs, although make sure you're not wearing a really, really mini skirt. A skirt around upper - mid thigh length would look great but make sure you're not wearing it with heels or a low cut top unless you're going to a party or something.

Moisturising your legs with lotion about three times a day will clear up your scabs and make your legs smoother although they probably won't look too bad in a mini skirt as they won't show up much.

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Hi, I'm 15/m. There's this girl that I like a lot, but she says shes bisexual, but leans more towards girls. We're really good friends, and we like a lot of the same stuff. I've tried asking her out before but she said no because she wants to be truthful to herself and not hurt any guys, but that we could still be friends. The bad thing is that I'm afraid to be her friend, because I'll always want more. Every time I look at her and think about her I want to be able to hold her... kiss her... be there for her as a boyfriend but I know I can't because... she's more lesbian than straight. She seems to really like me a lot and we seem to flirt a lot but I don't know. I still want to be with her though... She's like the sunshine in my rainstorm, and at school, she's the only person I'm looking forward to seeing. So, the question is, I really want to be with her, but I'm afraid to be her friend. What should I do?

This is a really hard situation and I do know how you feel, it's horrible when someone just wants to be friends but you want more.

You need to ask her straight out what she wants to happen between you. If she says she wants a relationship or something then fine. But if she says she just wants to be friends then you need to accept that. If that happens then I suggest you tell her you want to stay away from her for a while until you've got over her. That way you can be friends with her without the complications afterwards.

I know it's hard, I've been there and I know getting over someone is difficult but you can do it.

Good luck.

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There's this girl in my class who I like and she knows it, and she avoids me all the time. I think it might be because a while ago I told her I was gonna kill myself for her and sent her a picture of me cutting my wrists in front of her picture, and then told her it was a joke. But lately I've been acting pretty normal around her and she still won't even look at me. Do I just suck?

If a guy sent me a picture like that, and told me he was going to kill himself because of me then to be honest I would avoid him. It doesn't matter how normal he'd been acting after, it would really freak me out.

It's very unlikely that she's going to want to be with you considering the way you've acted, because let's face it, who wants to date someone because they're scared they might kill themselves otherwise?

I suggest you IM or her something apologising, and saying it was a sick joke and that you should have known better. Ask her if you can be friends.

If she carries on avoiding you, then you're going to have to move on and find a girl who likes you back. And I suggest that you don't do the whole picture thing next time.

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1 - how do you make your myspace private (or friends only)? I can't figure it out.

2 - what are some sites where I can get good premade layouts for my myspace?

Thank you!

To make your myspace profile friends only, you need to set your age to below 16.

I get all my layouts from http://www.mygen.co.uk.

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