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If she's bisexual...
Hi, I'm 15/m. There's this girl that I like a lot, but she says shes bisexual, but leans more towards girls. We're really good friends, and we like a lot of the same stuff. I've tried asking her out before but she said no because she wants to be truthful to herself and not hurt any guys, but that we could still be friends. The bad thing is that I'm afraid to be her friend, because I'll always want more. Every time I look at her and think about her I want to be able to hold her... kiss her... be there for her as a boyfriend but I know I can't because... she's more lesbian than straight. She seems to really like me a lot and we seem to flirt a lot but I don't know. I still want to be with her though... She's like the sunshine in my rainstorm, and at school, she's the only person I'm looking forward to seeing. So, the question is, I really want to be with her, but I'm afraid to be her friend. What should I do?
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Tell her how you feel about her. Like you told us in your question. If she feels this way about you, she will agree and go out with you. If she doesnt feel this way however, dont keep pushing it and keep asking her because it will only get her annoyed and it would ruin a great friendship. Just say, Oh ok thats cool then. Thanks anyways. " And your done. Remember if it was ment to be it would be and there are always other fish in the sea.
Good Luck :]]
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... this is word for word, one of the worst moments in my life...except when i asked, and went out with her... thats another story.
go for it man.. if she says no, meh worse thinsg can happen. thast a remarkble thing about life. when we hit rock bottom, we can still get lower...
Solemnstra
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This is a really hard situation and I do know how you feel, it's horrible when someone just wants to be friends but you want more.
You need to ask her straight out what she wants to happen between you. If she says she wants a relationship or something then fine. But if she says she just wants to be friends then you need to accept that. If that happens then I suggest you tell her you want to stay away from her for a while until you've got over her. That way you can be friends with her without the complications afterwards.
I know it's hard, I've been there and I know getting over someone is difficult but you can do it.
Good luck.
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