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tallness
Ok, so i like this guy whom i think likes me too. but, the only problem is, i'm taller than him! and i think that is really getting to him and he's not acting himself b/c whenever we walk down the hallway he always has to look up to see me and i can tell he really doesn't like it. but it's not a big height difference, i'm 5'2 and he's like 5 foot. what should i do?
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Your right, 2 inches isn't a big height difference. Also, I think alot of girls would be taller than him. You can talk to him, and ask him if the height difference bothers him. [btw, a "secure" guy wouldn't let this get to him :)] tell him that it doesn't make him any less "manly", and that if it doesn't bother you, it shouldnt bother him. if others make fun of him, its just because they are jealous &/or insecure about themselvse!!
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I would deffinitly tell him that you don't mind the height difference. 2 inches is truly not a big height difference. Let him know that you dont care about height difference, you care about the person. Hopefully he'll be understandable. He probably thinks you wouldnt want to go out with him because he's short. But, deffinitly talk to him, and dont be afraid either. Because, if you two like each other it shouldnt matter if theres a small height difference. Good Luck, hope I helped!
-Brina
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It might help if we knew how old you are, because guys don't normally start hitting their growth spurt until their mid-high school years. He has plenty of time to grow! If you like him, grab him while you still can because you might not have a chance later.
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I think that it doesnt really matter on your height difference. I think that if you guys have a good relationship together then you should put your differences behind you, as for the saying dont judge a book by its cover. You should ask him personally if it bothers him and if it does then just tell him that you cant help it, and thats just how he has to accept it. Just remember dont let some difference like this ruin a good love life.
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hey. i think that this shouldnt be a problem. if you like him and you have a good time with him then you shouldnt worry about the height difference. two inches isnt that big of a difference. i think that the best thing to do would to talk to him and see how he feels about this. say that you really like him and make sure he likes you. you guys should talk about the height difference. you could say... "yeah i really would like to go out with you, although there is a slight height difference, i think that we could make this work. i mean, if you are okay with it." dont be shy. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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Height differece can make a person uncomfortable. It's especially commen when the female is taller then the male in a realtionship. If he really cared about you then he'd get over your height and look into your heart to see where his and your feelings lie
-BlackBatman-
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well if he really liked you , then he shouldnt care whut people think of you guys.. i have some friends that go out with guys shorter then them, who cares ? as long as you two are happy with eachother thats all that counts.. just talk to him.. tell him how you feel about you two and so and so
hope i helped =]
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People will tell you that if you like him then height shouldn't be an issue, but of course it is really. When I was younger I went out with a guy for a while who was a couple of inches shorter than me and it was really annoying and it was probably quite degrading for him.
If you're prepared to deal with the height difference and go out with him then great, don't mention the height issue to him and he'll feel more comfortable with it. If you really think that it would be a problem then you'll just have to move on and find a taller guy.
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