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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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What is a hand job exactly?

well its kinda like this place where your hand goes to like work and then at the end of every other week it gets paid...pretty sweet huh? :)

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well i have school in a few weeks and i dont know what to ware i am like sporty and girly girl and a tom boy?

wear whatever makes you feel cofortable... whatever says.. this is me and if you dont like it oh well! i do!

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how come u answer some questions with really good answers and other u r a shithead!!...u say in ur column that u answer stupid questions with stupid answers but some of the questions r not stupid at all stupid and u give dumbass answers....some pple r really lost and hurting when they come here and it doesnt make them feel any better when u give them those shitty answers...i would understand if they said "omg im so stupid can u help me" but not if they really need help....if there question is funny and funny answer would be fine but not a really serious question!!...so please stop doin it!!!

well i'm sorry if i affended you... what was yuor question? maybe i can answer it better, drop your question off in my inbox again

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Where to begin? I was seeing this girl off and on for 9 months. She was "using" this 55 yr old arab guy for rides and stuff. I didnt condone of the usery but I didnt feel like it was my place to tell her how to live. After about 5 month into the relationship I moved to miami( we are in VA). She came to visit for a week and it was like a honeymoon without the marrige. Everything was great. When she came back she told me she was pregnant. I sent money up there to her and had my friend drive her to the clinic. I sent her flowers everyday for a week afterwards. So I came back home and while we were spending time toghether through much over hearing the wrong conversations I suspected there was more to her and his relationship. I was right. In short the kid wasnt mine and I was being played the whole time. the break up was awful and I am emot. wrecked. I took her back only to find out she didnt give him up. Now my head is spinning and my heart in shattered. Any advice?

leave the bitch alone. she basically robbed you. she lied and disrespected the shit out you. you cant trust her anymore. let that old guy and his wrinckly flacid penis have her. you can do better.

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hi. im like bone popping skinny and im small boned. alot of ppl call me anerexic and stuff. some ppl look at me like im sick or something and then stare at me while im eating just to see if i actually eat, which i do. what should i do?
thankz *megan

tell them to stop fuckin lookin at you....what the fuck is wrong with them? you are not anorexic... let them know... tell them to get a fuckin life and watch what the fuck their fats asses are eating

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my friend has an eating disorder and i really want to help her in recovering. she has anorexia. she asked for me to find out "if you lost your periods cuz of anorexia can you get it back later in life?" and "later on when im pregnant will my baby be healthy if im not anorexic anymore?"

yeah she can get her periods back, butn it may take a while, like until she is fully healthy, birth control might help regulate them. and yes if she is healthy then her baby will be healthy... it might be hard for her to get pregnant though because her periods were so messed up which means her eggs might be too

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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?

no it is not... you were too young to be having sex at 11 and you are still too young now... you have to learn to say NO.. seriously

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Last year my going to be step mom was by polo and comitted cucide......and she has a daughter that left now all of her little friends come over and ask me how shes doing what should i do?...

tell them she is still coping with things and she isnt ready to see anyone

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ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)

just tell him you're sorry but its not working out, and if he wnats you can still be friends

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i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me?

well hes not cheating on you if you are not together... but if you want him back then tell him... if he says no then leave him alone, stop messsing around with him

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Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?

first you have to figure out what is depressing you then you can work form that

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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u

tell them to stop complimenting you so much because it makes you feel... like you appreciate what they are saying but they dont have to

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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?

IF YOUR NOT READY TELL HIM YOUR NOT AND IF HE REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU THEN HE WILL RESPECT THAT

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hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?

they are not ingrown hair... they are razor bumps... wait til they go away and the next time you shave uses plenty of shaving cream and put lotion on it after you are down

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whats the best thing to clean ur ears with BESIDES store solution?? hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol? let me no one of the 2 plz. thank u much!
Megan

peroxide... dont use alcohol that shit will dry it out

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my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this?

bite him back! 4real that shit works.

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

personally i think it is dumb... what are you gonna do give him a virtual blow job? email him some cootchie? 4real think about it?

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haha idk wats going on haha! but nvm!!

haha! i do! but nvm! haha!

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hey, im 14 (gunna be 15 in February) and i dont have my period...i know u can get it as late as 16 and not to worry but i have boobs and im pretty developed, could there be anyother reason thats harmful for not getting your period, like having a disease or something? pleas help...ill rate ya good!!! thx

you are fine... not everyone gets it at teh same time... be happy you dont have to deal with shit yet.. its a pain in the ass... and dont stress about it because stress makes it longer to come and nothing will happen to you because you dont have it

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Okay... now its not even saying how many times i've been rated or what my average rating is on my column... what do i do??

cheermms24

go to contact us on the left sdie bar and ask the administration what hell is wrong with my column

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