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thanx but no thanx
A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
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you know what, sto being like me, although i know how you feel and i do it as well. so i would say just iggy them, don't act like you heard them... id unno...
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being pretty is nothing to be uncoffertubal about. lol. not to sound conceded but sometimes that happens to me. just let it fly right by u. or say something like i wish i hade your body ya now so that people dont think your conceded srry for miss spell lol
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Simply say thank you and take it as a compliment-- if you feel uncomfortable change the topic and compliment your friends about their good qualities..
hope i helped...
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You shouldn't feel uncomfortable. Compliments are supposed to make you feel good lol. Heck, there are lots of people that WANT compliments. You're probably a nice and gorgeous person, so that's why you're getting those nice compliments. Just be sure to give out compliments to others as well. That way you probably won't feel as guilty as opposed to not giving any compliments at all. I think you'll get used to the compliments eventually. If not, you can just say thank you and then explain you'd rather not be complimented because it makes you feel uncomfortable. They'll understand.
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compliment your friends back but still accept their compliments (because if you don't they might think you're fishing for compliments and that you're conceited) ~ everybody has things about them that make them stand out and apparently you were given good looks so be proud of them - heck, maybe you even have a future in modeling!
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just tell them that ur flattered but say it makes u feel uncomfortable and ask them nicely to stop.. just tell the truth they r ur friends and they will understand
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Thats like when grown ups come up to you and are like awwwwwww. she is soo pretty!!!!!...its sick....just tell them its like that and not be big headed but thanks alot but please stop its making me feel unconterable!%!%!%!%!%!
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You should just say that God made you the way you are and you can't change that. So just say thanx and tell the other person that they're gorgeous also and say that you don't wanna get into that discussion.
- J. Fitz
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Well you really shouldnt feel uncomfortable or guilty.. But if its bothering you tell them about it!! Im sure they'd understand!! <3<3
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be like..thanks thats realli sweet, but i wish i looked like YOU. and turn it around and make them feel flattered as well. i hate it when i give some1 a compliment, especially like omg ur gorgeous. and all they do is say, thanks. lol i dunno i juss cant stand it. hope i helped!!
~kristin
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tell them to stop complimenting you so much because it makes you feel... like you appreciate what they are saying but they dont have to
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Theres really not a good answer for that. you could take it as a compliment. There really just admiring you. But i understand. You could tell them it makes you feel uncomfortable. Or compliment them back. I understand it could embaress you when they say those things in public but trust me it is a gift. Admit it. Ur obviously a babe ;)
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There's no reason to feel guilty about being complimented .. just be glad they think that!
I guess if it's *really* getting to you, you can say something to them about it.
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if you feel unconfrotable ask them not to say it, or say it back to them, tell them there prety, but all and all you should feel unconfrotable its a complement
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itz a complimint! and dont feel bad! juzt be happy that u r really pretty! and if it realli botherz u then tell them u appreciate tha compliments on ur lookz but it make u feel sorta uncomfortable. and hopefully it'll stop. but seriously stop feeling bad, itz a good thing!!
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
nicole
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that happened to me toyou can tell them that you dont wont them to keep telling you that and that it bothers you hopefully they will understand and stop
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