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what is a good type of bronzer and a good brush to apply it? (link)
If you don't want an expensive one, go to like giant or target and go the make up section. its not like the top make-up but its cheap and it works. Neutrogena and Maybelline are good products. Try searching in those area's. Good luck : )


My maltese (about 2 and a half years old) has been acting a bit strange lately: not eating as much or going 'doing his business'. I also noticed that his nose has changed color, from black to a brownish pink. Is that normal? Should I take it to the vet or will it be ok after some time? Any help is appreciated, thanks. (link)
I've had this happen to my dog before. I always take them to the vet. You should always take your dog to the vet if they are not eating or not "doing its business". If he remains to not do his normal stuff in the next 24 hours, take him to the vet so he can get better. Hope this helps : )


there's this guy i liked since the fourth semester and i decided to tell him how i feel. problem is, i dunno what to say to him exactly..any suggestions????? 13/f
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You should get one of your friends to do it, it would be alot easier. But if you are the kind of girl that is not shy & likes to confront her feelings..then go with something like this: Hey.. I've liked you for a while, and I wanted to know if you liked me back/wanted to go out with me?


well ive been a christian since i was 7 but for the past year ive barely even prayed and i dont feel a connection with God..everytime i do pray i just ask for him to forgive my sins because im afraid if i died right now i'd go to hell..no matter what i do i cant seem to get it right and so lately ive just been putting it off but thats not right. how do i start to feel a connection to God again and stop feeling so empty spirutually? (link)
Church camp REALLY helped me. When we were singing the songs and I just really got into it. There's this thing in the EXTREME TEEN BIBLE called "30 Days With Jesus" Look it up or buy the bible, and do it. You read the verse it tells you to each day. And it helps ALOT. Just get really involved in church, and ask if you could lead one day.


Okay. If I eat one meal a day for 2 weeks, Will I lose that stupid "pouch" of fat under my belly button and on my hips? I need to know soon!

Please don't lecture me about that not being healthy. (link)
Eat your regular meals, but when you feel the slightest edge of being full, STOP. Eat slow, so your body has time to know when it is full. Also, do CRUNCHES. To know how to do them/ see pictures, go to this website: http://www.fitstep.com/Library/Exercises/Crunches.htm


okay i have a virus on my computer & it's called 'downloader' & it's a trojan horse virus. i have norton & i scanned it many times & it detects that i have a virus (there's also a popup that never leaves unless i turn norton off) & it lets me quarrentine(sorry, sp) & delete it. after i do that, it says "there is still 1 infected file". why does it do that!! it lets me delete it but then its still there. i went to norton's site & it says how i could get rid of it myself, & you have to start it up in 'safemode' but that doesn't even work because i don't get a task bar in safemode for some reason. is there anyway i can delete this or do i have to dump my computer??

thanks!! (link)
Norton..ehh...you should download AVG.. or spyware blaster. but deff AVG.


I am 18 and my girlfreind is 13 but will be 14 in 2 weeks. We have tried to have sex on a nuber of times but my problem is after pettin and stuff as son as she touches my penis i cum. We have been unable to even try to get to putting it in becsue it cums right away how can i stop this from happening (link)
Uh, don't do it..? She's a 14 year old girl for God's sake. Sex is to have KIDS and I'm pretty sure ya'll don't want kids. Just don't.


i have an amazing boyfriend that i really love. but my best friends think he is a pot-smoking jerk even though hes only smoked pot once! and just because we got in a fight a while ago they are convinced hes out to hurt me and just wants to make-out..but the thing is i LOVE making out with him..today my best friend said he was ugly and she often compares huge losers to my bf and she makes me cry..no matter what i say she doesnt believe that he is a great guy even though he is..how do i show her that hes not like she thinks and also get her to stop insulting him?? ive tried telling her it hurts my feelings but she keeps doing it. (link)
Dear Friend,

It's always a hard situation to be in when your friends and boyfriend don't get along.

Listen to your friends, but don't side with them when it comes to something you need to have the final say in. Stay calm and rational even when they upset you, so they won't be given the upper hand in any arguments you might have.

I think a very serious chat is in order with your best friend. You and your boyfriend love each other, and if she can't be supportive of you and civil to him, she's not holding up her end of the friendship. Tell your friend that you'd react the same way if your boyfriend was making similar remarks about her, and that she upsets you more than he could.

Hope you sort it out.

Love,

Ainsley.


so a guy from work (we are just friends) asked me to the movies tonight and i talked to my stepmom and she automatically said no because hes too old for me and she doesnt know anything about him, and i told her she could meet him and everything
im going to be 17 in september hes turning 19 tomaro...whats wrong with that?
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Dear Friend,

I agree with you. A two-year age gap shouldn't be a problem, especially when girls mature faster than boys.

Obviously your stepmom is a little overprotective - maybe you should have a chat to her about that. If you handle the situation in a calm, grown-up way, it'll be a lot harder for her to treat you like anything less.

Tell her a bit about your friend, and introduce them before you two go out.

Love,

Ainsely.


hi, well when it says (1) next to the "your questions" section, i click it, and sometimes ther isnt an answer. just a bunch of adds and my question. why is this? (link)
Refresh it.. or it might just be something from your last question that didn't go away.


okay i think i started my period,
but im not sure
when i wipe my self i have small dots of blood
very light dots ive been having them for 3 days now
what is it?
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Yes.. you started. It's light now but later it will be heavy. (est. 3 days)


can sum1 help me with adding a picture to my advice column its not workin!! (link)
If it isn't working.. you most likely need to resize it. Go to PHOTOBUCKET.COM, upload your picture, then click "edit". Then resize it and upload to your column!


Does anyone know where I can find a list of flowers and what they mean? Like roses represent love, daisies represent innocence, etc.? (link)
Perfect site: http://painting.about.com/cs/inspiration/a/symbolsflowers.htm


Okay my friend is 14, soon to be 10th grader and her boyfriend is a senior. So she's having sex. Her parents don't know.. but she has NO problem flaunting it around everywhere.
She's doing it because she thinks she's in love and she doesn't want to be alone. Being alone is her biggest fear so she latches onto any good guy, you know? I've known her for 5 years and I've seen it over and over.
And a couple of people think her boyfriend is only in on the sex.
They have only been going out for about 6 months.

Should I try to talk to her? Or talk to her parents?
Because she keeps hurting herself.
And I've seen her cry in her sleep and it bothers me..
She's going way too far and I don't want her to get hurt. (link)
Yess, tell somebody. Probably not her, because she doesn't realize what she is doing..obviously. If your parents & her parents are friends, tell your Mom and get her to talk to her Mom.


sorry idk what catagory to put this under but whatever.

every night i take a shower but every other night i use a shower cap and dont wash my hair. a few people at school said that its bad to wash your hair everyday. i know it strips the oils out but should i not wash it every night? should i not wash it 2 days in a row? my hair is really thick and after taking a shower, my hair gets frizzy. what are some ways i can prevent friz after taking a shower? also i straighten my hair every morning but i dont like burning it so much, i just hate having it so frizzy when i wake up. so, what are some ways i can keep the friz down after taking my shower (and the results will last long through the day).

it would be amazing if you can answer all the questions i had in that paragraph. thanks, ill rate high for anything you give me (link)
Only if after the 2nd day it feels oily & stuff. Other wise you probably should wash it every day.


my hair is fryed. it has a lot of breakage and some split ends. how can i get it healthy? (link)
NEXXUS THERAPPE Luxury Moisturizing Shampoo and HUMECTRESS (conditioner). Hah, basically Nexxus.

You can order the samples for FREE here:
http://www.startsampling.com/sm/19521/product.iphtml?item=19521&source=
Trust me, I did it, it's not scam. It really works.

Also- you can get samples of different DOVE shampoo's & conditioner's at walmart.com. Here they are:

1) http://walmart.triaddigital.com/Brands/un_doveadvancedcolor.aspx
2) http://walmart.triaddigital.com/Brands/un_doveadvancedstyle.aspx



My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's (link)
NEXXUS THERAPPE Luxury Moisturizing Shampoo and HUMECTRESS (conditioner). Hah, basically Nexxus.

You can order the samples for FREE here: http://www.startsampling.com/sm/19521/product.iphtml?item=19521&source= Trust me, I did it, it's not scam. It really works.

Also- you can get samples of different DOVE shampoo's & conditioner's at walmart.com. Here they are:

1) http://walmart.triaddigital.com/Brands/un_doveadvancedcolor.aspx
2)
http://walmart.triaddigital.com/Brands/un_doveadvancedstyle.aspx


Hope I Helped!


im 14 and i wear a some makeup. just like a thin line of black eyeliner, soft eyeshadow colors, and black mascara. yeah, nothing out-of-this-world. anyway, i was wondering what you guys think is a good eyeshadow to match light blue eyes and light brown/long hair. oh yeah and a lot of freckles on the cheeks.

i usually do like a light brown or a light gray and i really like those. still, i wanted to try something new but i didnt want it to be like 'whoa, too much'

pink usually doesnt work for me. idk it just doesnt work with likee, the texture of my eyes.

ok thanks. (link)
Hmm..with blue eyes, I tried this on my friend: Put a LITTLE bit of black like right near the eye (on the eyelid) and kind of smear it in. Then put any other color above it!


What are the temp settings for on a hair dryer?
like warm cold and hot?
its it like better for your hair to dry it cold?
or warm?
or hot?

or does it matter??

thanks:) (link)
On mine, I dry it with warm, then blow a shot of cold to make it stay.


Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn? (link)
I use soap and it works perfect. I mostly use dove.




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