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ok, well, I know that it's normal for everyone to go through the "emptiness", hoplessness, sadness etc. That's perfectly normal. EVERYONE goes through it. Not just thirteen year olds, or just girls, or just a certain race of people. Everyone. But, you notice, that some people don't act or look that way. There are two kinds of people like this.
1) morons who wear masks and then cry it out in secret later. All preppy and happy and bubbly in public, then total jerks and totally depressed in private.
2) Christians who rely on Christ to help them through times of trouble.
Ok, I am a Christian, and I do try and rely on Christ for everything. Believe me, it's not totally easy. In fact, it can be really hard at times! But in times of trouble, I know that I can fall on Jesus and he will help me. That's the beauty of Christ.
Because I have everlasting love and life from Christ, I don't have suicidal thoughts. (it could be partially my personality, but it's also Christ. I know that for a solid fact) Fall on Jesus, and he will help you.
As for chronic pain etc, that needs a doctor. I don't think that is normal. Headaches that wont go away, even with meds, that sounds like a migrane, and that can be dangerous. But I am no doctor.. and I am suggesting that you see one for that.
-FunnyCide
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I am best friends with this boy called Tom. Things were fine until I introduced him to another friend who lives really far away from us, Hannah. Now all he does is talk online to her and I'm so jealous. I don't know why, he's just a friend but I get so jealous when they talk. I have a boyfriend, I don't like Tom in that way so I don't understand it. Tom and I used to like eachother and we dated once but I don't feel that way about him anymore. How do I stop feeling this way? (link)
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Ok, I know this situation back and forth, inside and out. I think I know why you're jealous of Tom talking to your friend. It's not because you like him, it's because you don't want to lose him! I know how that is... anyway. It wont help to be upset, or angry, or jealous. Talk to your friend who you introduced to Tom, and talk to Tom about how you feel. Tell them that you're jealous and that you want to keep their friendships, but you don't want to lose them.. like if they ever were to date, you wouldn't want to stop talking to them. If they are understanding of you, then they should have some advice or something to say about this. If they think that you're a total freak and a big baby, you should get some new friends. True friends will listen to what you have to say, comprehend it as well as possible, and help you through this. Tom may like this girl, and he may not. This girl may like Tom, and she may not. You have to ask to know for sure. Jealosy will kill you from the inside out.. talk about it with your friends.
-FunnyCide
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okay tomorrow i have to watch my aunt and uncles puppy rottie.my grampa is going but i dont think he will be a big help.anyway does any one got an idea to keep him calm or any other tips??
ples help i rate reeeeel high:) (link)
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Ok, he's a puppy. Puppys like toys. Try tennis balls or his favorite toy. Get your aunt to bring his fave toys or show you them. Tennis balls and hardwood work great together. It's quite funny, and the puppy will be entertained because it's harder for him to catch the tennis ball. Let the puppy outside alot, 'cause, being a puppy, he's probably not house trained. If you're allowed to play with him outside, let him chase you while you run, throw a ball for him to catch, or a rope to play tug-of-war with. Chew toys are good for puppys, 'cause they are still getting teeth in, and need to chew on something to help. Rawhide bones are good, but if you visit any pet supply shop, dollar tree store, wal-mart, and many other places, you can find cheap good doggie toys, and at a pet supply place, the clerks will have good ideas too. A really good place to go is your aunt and uncle. They will know what toy the puppy likes best, what games he likes to play, and advice for you on how to keep him happy.
-FunnyCide
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i like my best friends ...i can talk to him about anything and sometimes if i'm not in a good mood ....everytime .i go to my class ..he there .and like i'm not in a bad mood anymore..like i can't be mad anymore ..er wat should i do (link)
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umm.. it sounds like you are (excuse the old school lingo) head over heels in love with this guy. ok... that's not a bad thing. You can be friends and still like him, but you should have a serious conversation with him about how you feel, and if he feels the same way. I know it's cheesy to use AIM for this kind of stuff, but it works! If you are more comfertable talking to him face-to-face about stuff like this, than do it that way. But, if you are shy, like me, you can do it with AIM. Or on the phone, or a letter in the mail, or an e-mail. Just tell the guy that you like him as more than a friend. Ask him how he feels about you, but mention that you don't want to lose his friendship, but you wanted to be honest with him.
-FunnyCide
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I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
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Ok, first of all, it's ok. We have ALL failed in some area of our lives. Ok? Because the Bible says "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" - Romans 3:23. Does that mean that we should all commit suicide because we have sinned and fall short of God's glory? No! God has given us hope! "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only begotton Son, that whosover believes in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life." - John 3:16. Ok, I am sure that you've heard this so many times! Believe me, I had it memorized by the time I was 6! But I never took it into context, I always just took it as another verse in the Bible that was very nice. But back in the summer, I had a fairly bad riding acident. (horse riding) I was on a mare that didn't care to jump, and I was taking her over 2.5ft jumps. (this is not particuarally large, just not a good idea on a horse that doesn't like to jump) Well, the horse got very mad that I wasn't going to let her run out (that means go away from the jump) and started to gallop. Not quite as fast as the racehorses do, but it was way to fast for a small jumping course. She tried to buck sevral times, but I was able to keep her head up. That didn't make her slow down though! We went over the last two jumps at a really fast pace, and she wouldn't listen to me. She ran into the arena fence after jumping the last jump. I *ALMOST* fell off. If I had fallen off, I would've landed on my head on solid rock. I know that it had to be God keeping me from falling off; the dynamics of the speed that we were going, and how fast we stopped should've thrown me over 10 feet! But I stayed on. I did pull the hamstring and all the ligaments, tendons, and nerves attatched to it in my right knee. I also bruised my ankle bone. To this day my knee still bothers me, sometimes as bad as it hurt when I first injured it. But I am alive. It was during the recovery period of this injury that I learned the real meaning of John 3:16. What I learned was this: God didn't have to save me. I am nothing! Compared to eternity, what have I done that will effect it? What can I do that will change forever? In total honesty, there is nothing! I can do nothing that is big enough and good enough to be signifigant enough to save... so why did God choose to save me? Because of John 3:16. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perosh, but have ever lasting life. God didn't have to send Jesus to save us, in fact, he shouldn't have! We don't deserve it! We (as humans, not any specific person) are awful! We steal, murder, rape, blaspheme, curse the name of God, and more! God's perfect and only Son didn't deserve to die a horrible death! He experienced more pain than any other person will ever experience. He had all of our sins on his back! ALL OF THEM! That were ever commited, ever will be commited. Christ never sinned. So why did he get mocked, spat upon, whipped and hung naked? Because of His amazing love for you and me! It still baffles me as to why this holy and perfect God should love me enough to die for me! I have sinned every bit as much as you have. But I have learned that I should be grateful for what He's done for me and not to wonder why.
It might seem weird that someone should die for you... I mean, be honest. Would you really say that you would want to die for some lowly, awful sinner? Say someone that was a serial killer/rapist, and you were told that this man could live, if you would die in his place. Wouldn't you have a hard time giving up your life for his? I am sure that something like this would go through your head, "What?! That guy killed people, munipulated innocent women, and you're asking me to die for him!?!?!" But thats what Jesus did. You may say, "I've never killed anyone!!" But you did. Because you sinned, you had a part in killing Jesus. You didn't actually nail him to the cross, or whip him, but your sins killed him. It's very sobering. But Jesus didn't stay dead! He rose again, he conqured death and sins. All of your transgressions (mine too) are forgiven! All God asks is that you ask Him for forgiveness. Maybe there's something that's really bothering you.. you could bring that specifically before God.
About being addicted to pornography.. never trust yourself with uncensored internet service if you think that you'll fall into temptation. The devil is tempting you, he wants you to sin. He wants you to be unperfect. He knows that you aren't perfect and wants to smear it in your face. (trust me! He's really good at that!!) But don't fall into temptation! You can say (in your head, or out loud - whichever is better for you) "Get thee behind me, Satan!!" Pray about it, ask God to forgive you for your sins, and to help you not to to that sin again. It will be hard, because it is a hard thing to quit when you're addicted to something. Take it like smoking - it's addicting. We all know that the nicotine in cigerettes will make you want to smoke again. Even if you only try one, you will be hooked. I can't help you really on this, other than to pray about it. Find a close friend and talk about this. Be totally honest with them, and this friend can help you through this. It's an accountability partner. They ask you each day if you've done the thing that you wern't supposed to do, and/or supposed to do. It's hard to be honest about stuff like this I can imagine, but it's very important. I will pray for you.
Don't give up. We've all almost failed a class before. It's ok. Just ask for help from a parent with your school, or ask for a tutor if you feel that you need one.
Hun, no one deserves God! I don't! I know that I don't! Ask any Bible-believing Christian if they deserve God, or if they deserve to go to heaven. If they're not flat-out lying, they will say no. Because NO one deserves to go to heaven, to have a heavenly God die for them. But it was a free gift! I took the gift, and by doing so, I set myself up for humiliation and ridicule. It says in the Bible (I wish that I knew the exact verse but..) "The world will hate you because they hated me first" It's just.... obvious. We don't deserve it, but we got this free gift. Don't give up, take this gift and run with it!! God loves you, deserving or not. Please don't "end it all" even if you want to. If you mean committing suicide when you say "end it all", that is just crazy. Jesus loves you way too much for you kill yourself. Right now, you need a really really good friend to comfort you. Believe me, I know. I need a really close friend too... all the time. But my situation is totally different, and we wont even get into it. But because I have Christ in my life, I am normally pretty happy and pleased with my life, but a person that didn't have Christ probably wouldn't be able to handle this. Might break down. Not that I don't. At times, I feel the same way that you sound like you feel. Very depressed, and feel very unworthy. But that's why I have a few very close friends and a SUPER FANTASTIC BEST FRIEND!!! I love that girl... she helps me. Christ has provided me with such a wonderful friend, I am very lucky that God gave me such a wonderful friend, I don't deserve her.. just like you say that you don't deserve God. She's soooo nice! But, I don't know what you want me to tell you... but I've tried. If you want to talk more, I will give you someway to contact me other than Advicenators. All you have to do is ask!! I am praying for you, remember that you have friends in unexpected places. God bless!
-FunnyCide
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Can anybody help me get a pic on my column please?! if you can please leave your sn!! (link)
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ok, find a picture that you like, right-click it and click "save". then go to "profile settings" and you can browse your computer for the picture you saved. if you want a picture of yourself, you upload a picture taken of yourself out of a digital camera into your computer. follow the same proccess as before where you browse the computer and choose your pic. you can also use something like PhotoBucket to have multiple pics.
if you have anymore questions, ask!
-FunnyCide
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how do you get music and a cursor and new background on your column? (link)
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ok, you can get some cool backgrounds from here:http://www.google.com/search?q=backgrounds or you can choose from some of these: http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php you can get some cursors from here: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=free+cursors+for+your+web+page
i wouldn't put music on my page 'cause you can get banned for that. the mods tend to think that it's loud, annoying, and it sortof slows the pages down.
-FunnyCide
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I have a crush on my good friend. i dont know what 2 do. he likes 1 of my other friend. im supposed to help him with her right? :/ i am confused... (link)
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tell your friend that your friend likes that you like your guy friend. ok?(confusing sentance structure) then you might want to tell the guy you like that you like him, but will suport him with the girl he likes. It might hurt, to see the boy you like go out with a friend. But don't harm your relationships for a guy. It's not worth it. I promise.
-FunnyCide
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ok well i have sweaty armpit and i want it to go away i want to tell my mom but i dont now how to strike up a conversation..like hi mom i need to go to the doctor for my arm pits...what should i say??help please (link)
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Ok, i am assuming that you already use deoderant and or antipersperant. both are good. actually, you might only need to dress down some (like, instead of wearing long sleeves, wear short sleeves) and use a stronger antipersperant deoderant. If this isn't working, simply say, "hey, mom, i've been sweating a lot lately, and my deoderant isn't working well enough. Do you know what it might be? Is there something that we should do? Should i maybe see a doctor?" like that.. and she shoudld pretty much get the idea that you need some guidence in this area. if you want to go to a doctor, simply imphasize that idea a little more than i did. or maybe just say, after something like above, "I think I would like to see a profesional on this one, mom". be gentle about it.. nice, and if she has ideas, listen to her. Moms are smarter than they look.
-FunnyCide
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hello im a 15/m....theres this girl at my school that is a year younger than i am but i am really atracted to her and her to me, but the last bf she had ended up losing all of his friends because of her. but it really wasnt her fault. but i have alot of the same freinds as he had so im worried i might lose most of my friends over her. thanx for the advice- i rate high. (link)
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i don't think that you will lose all your friends just 'cause you go out with a girl that's a little younger than you. that shouldn't be a big deal... unless your friend likes her too. but that's not mentioned, so it's probably not likely. i don't think that you will lose your friends, if, like you said, "it really wasnt her fault". it was probably just some stupid stuff said on both sides, yada yada... and everyones mad. so, nah. ask her out, go out with her. if you're worried, ask your friends if they would be mad at you if you went out with her.
-FunnyCide
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Ok you see I like this guy a LOT!! I mean a lot and he is shy and gentle and very sweet. I have the feeling that he likes me too because we flirt a lot during one of the classes I have with him but for some reason he won't ask me out. You see, I have never been on a date before and I really want my first date with him. I don't want to ask him out because when I'm older I want to remember that on my first date a boy I like asked me out instead of me asking him out!!I know it may sound weird but PLEASE, I really do love him and I really do want to go out with him!! Today I saw his face for the first time in almost 4 weeks because of winter breaks and he got sick so had to miss a week and he was absolutely gorgeous!! But I don't love him for his looks I love him by being himself and a lot more other reasons I cannot explain in words!! The problem is how do I get him to ask me out!! OH, NO what if he doesn't like me, I mean I think he likes me because he flirts with me but not with other girls and he always smiles!! By the way I'm 13 years old and a girl. (link)
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I love it that you don't want to ask a guy out. Doing that kinda ruins it and it makes the guy think things. Ok, you said that "...he is shy and gentle and very sweet..." ok, I don't doubt that he's shy and gently and very sweet. That's probably why he hasn't asked you out! He's probably too shy. It's probably in his head, but he thinks, "What if she says no? What if she doesn't like me? What if..." and it goes on and on. He probably likes you, but is just to shy to show it. I wouldn't ask him if he likes you, or even get a friend to ask. He might withdraw and get even quieter and more shy around you knowing that you like him. He probably has an aim s-n or an e-mail address or both. So why don't you ask for those, and talk to him online? That's a great way to build relationships, and you can talk to him and subtly let him know how you feel. I am very pleased to hear that I'm not the only one here who doens't like the thought of asking a guy out. ***** (five stars lol) very good! Smile alot. A smile will go a long way. Talk to him, ask him questions about him and stuff... find common intrests (a band, a hobby, a sport... etc.) And then hit the ground and run with it. I think that it's good that he's shy and nice and stuff 'cause that is a better chance of having a more serious relationship with him and not having to worry about him cheating on you. I think that it sounds like he has a "thing" for you! Just hang out with him, talk to him online and stuff.. talk to him at school. Maybe sit with him at lunch or whatever... good luck!!
-FunnyCide
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I am in the seventh grade (13/F) and my best friend Allie and her friend Jennifer want to hook me up with this guy I like. He's one of those annoying twit types that never lets you forget it if you get embarrassed.. but once you get to know him he's a really great person. I talk to him really easily and he flirts with me A LOT (plays with my hair during language arts, annoys me a lot, calls me names, talks to me during lunch, and an assortment of other things), and all my friends say he likes me.. but if they're wrong then I'd never hear the end of it. Everybody in the grade would be saying how a goodie-goodie smart girl likes someone and that it's "cute" and all of that kind of stuff. And imagine the RUMORS!! Should I really let Jennifer and Allie hook me and this guy up or should I leave this crush thing alone? (link)
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ok, look. if you like this guy, and he likes you, don't worry about what the freaks say about you! you wont even care if you're happy with this boy!! let the rumors fly... if there're not true, they're not true. i mean, come on! someone might say that you are dating this kid 'cause you want to cheat off of him, but secretly you're older than you say you are and you failed once before. WHO CARES?! if it's not true, just counter it and say that they are lyiers! I think that if you're happy with him, you should go for it. Let your friends hint that you might like him.. and see how he responds. or you could just let them ask him out too... it just depends on what you want to do. or you could always get his aim s-n and e-mail address (if he has one) and talk to him online. that's a good way to build relationships, you know. you could hint tha you like him, but you shouldn't ask him out. girls shouldn't ask guys out. that gives the guy the wrong idea sometimes... anyway. good luck!!
-FunnyCide
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ok so theres this guy, and he's on the swim team with my brothers, and he is their friend. recently i've been talking to him online, staing up really late, and of corse it doesnt matter bcuz its winter break. but one night we stayed up until 4:20 talking....and he's even giving me a nickname. my friends say that we've been flirting, and sparks a flying, but im not sure. i get a flushed, fluttery, and i start blushing sometimes when i talk to him online. i think i might like him, but does he like me? my friends also say that we would make a cute couple, but they can never give me a straight answer of why. the come up with, you are both tall and have brown hair.
please help!
oh yea, im also a year younger than him (link)
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well, this is kindof hard for us Advicenators to answer 'cause we don't know the whole situation. you talking to him alot online and maybe seeing him when you go to your brothers swim team practices and stuff is good. it (to me) sounds like he has a "thing" for you. get a friend to ask him how he feels about you if you're afraid to. if you aren't afraid to, then ask him how he feels about you. and about you and him TOGETHER maybe. i know kindof what you're saying when you say that you think you might like him... it's like you think you want to like him, but you don't want to get your feelings hurt or your heart broken. i know how that is. i don't really think that it matters that you are a year younger than him. sometimes guys actually go for younger girls... but it kindof really depends on your situation and stuff.. the only way to know for sure if he likes you is to ask him, get a friend to ask him, or if you are close to a brother, get a brother to ask him. :)
-FunnyCide
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Sorry this isn't really a question, but I stumbled across your site and you seem like a really cool person. I LOVE relient K and I was listenting to their CD when I read that you love them too. Are you a christian? I am too, if you are. Well anyways you give great advice keep it up :) (link)
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Hey, thats cool about it not being a "question". Yeah, I am a Christian, and I love Relient k. That's so awesome that you're a Christian too! Thanks about the advice thing, I love MMHMM!! :) God bless!
-FunnyCide
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I dont get it, i have friends at school but on friday nights im always home or at a cheering game, my life is so boring and now that its 2005 I want to make it exciting. Everytime im on aim all of my friends away messages are up saying that they are at one anothers house. Should i maybe invite them somewhere so that I can start hanging out too? What if they already have plans, then what do I do? I need to get out more and spend time with teh people I want to spend time with. Im always hanging with guys or talking to them, im not a slut or anything just siometimes they are more fun to talk to. (link)
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thats ok. just invite a mixed group (that means guys and girls) over to your house for a game night, to hang out or whatever. get a group together to go to a theme park, movie, swimming, or whatever you like to do. if they already have plans, try asking them to come over a different night. i know how you feel though. and guys are sometimes more fun to talk to. with guys you just have the nutty-wild-crazy thing. with girls you have the backstabbing-gossiping-drama queen thing. i prefer the nutty-wild-crazy thing to drama queens!! but my closest friend isn't like that (and yes, she's a girl) it's hard to put yourself out there and invite people over like that, especially if you know that they might not want to come over or have other plans. you might want to have a party or something for no reason at all. just say that it is a "new years party" or a "winter party" ... you get the idea. just invite people over to chill.
-FunnyCide
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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant? (link)
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well, if her stomach gets rounder and drops some that is a fair sign that she's gonna be a mommy. check her teats for swelling and stuff. if she keeps getting bigger and bigger, she might be pregnant. but you can take her to the vet and know for sure. you said that your kitten wasn't neutered, but is your cat spayed? if she's spayed she can't get pregnant, even if the kitten isn't neutered. you can feel her stomach for tenderness and moving. if she gets really grouchy and angry acting when you try and pet her stomach, thats a good sign that she's pregnant too. (unless, of course, she's always like that) the only way to know for sure is to take her to the vet or wait 6-9 weeks. :) if you take her to the vet and she IS gonna have kittens, get her a box laid on it's side in a dark room with easy access. put either newspaper or old towels in the box. make sure that the box is large enough for a mother cat and 4-8 kittens. hope it all goes well! kittens are so much fun!! =D
-FunnyCide
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okay to get straight to it i have a dad who has gotten our family to sit together and tell us that he wants to leave our family. He is always fighting with my mom and tell her what to do he bosses her around and she does what ever he says.. and he has just walked out on us before for no reason but then calls us and tell us he is coming home and even tho he tries to be nice sometimes and i dont no how to for give him for doing this to our family... PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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ok, well i don't want to push my limit on what to say because i don't know the full situation and background for this. but, it almost sounds like your parents weren't meant to be together. maybe they were meant to be together, and are just having problems. you could suggest (or plead) that your parents seek counseling from a Christian guidence or marrige counselor. if they don't want to do that, then just talk to your dad about it. he needs to know how you feel about it, and you need to know why he's decided to leace you and your family. he might seriously think that it will be better for your family if he's not with you guys. but you should tell him how you feel. you just need to sit down and pray and think about it really hard. you might want to see a counselor too. it might help you get your thoughts and feelings out. you will have to forgive him, you will be miserable all your life if you don't forgive him. you might recieve a card on your birthday, and you would be absoloutly miserable because you got something that reminded you of him, and the mistakes and choices he made. if you accept what he's done (right or wrong) then you will be much happier and better off. it might take a while for you to forgive him, but trust me. it will be worth it. still, talk to him - even if it's hard.
-FunnyCide
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i wrote this question befor but i left out somethings. I'm like a tomboy and boys think of me as one of the guys. One of my best friends is the guy i like. People say he likes me. My friends that are girls say he likes. they say they can tell. i cant they say im not girly anough to like a boy. People pick on me about it and some are my crushes good friends. im cunfused can anyone help me. (link)
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don't listen to the people who pick on you. don't worry. i am a tomboy too *WE ROCK!!* anyway, i get picked on too. i think that its normal for people who see someone that is different to tease the other person. it's not cool, or fun, but you can know that you're not the only one who has that issue its ok. tell a close friend (girl or guy, it doesn't matter, take your pick) about the guy that you like. in fact, you can tell all of your friends (except maybe the guy that you like) about your crush. it will help you feel better about it when more people know about it. you might feel better about it if you only tell your closest friend. thats ok too. i think that "confused" is the most awesome emotion lol seriously though, its ok. yeah, i know people (girls) who say that they can tell if a guy likes a girl, but i think that the best way to know is to ask. then you know for sure. get a close friend to ask for you. or ask yourself, it depends on what is more comferatable for you. or, if you are cool with just not knowing, then don't ask. if the guy likes you, he'll make himself known and maybe ask you out. i don't know how to "tell" if a guy likes someone. i don't want to know, 'cause that would only cause problems in the long run. just ask. and it's ok to feel confused, i guess it's normal when you like someone... or (like me sometimes) the only emotion you have is confused lol for no reason at all... i think that the best way to get over it is to tell his best friend how you feel and tell your best friend in the whole world how you feel. or, tell everyone in the world!! hope you get "un-confused" soon, and hope it helps and it all works out!!
-FunnyCide
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My friend told my other friends that this kid likes me, but i don't like him. I like someone else. I don't want to hurt his feelings because i know how it feels. What should i do? (link)
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ok, so you don't like the guy who likes you. don't act like you sorta like him, that will cause problems. be straight up with him (gently now, gently) and just say "right now i don't like you the way that you like me. i think that it is very sweet and flattering that you like me, but right now, i am not interested in having a relationship. i'm sorry. maybe we could hang out and be better friends though..." that way you let him know that you don't want to go out, but you could still be friends. you could also get a friend to tell him, but thats kindof cowardly. you could always ignore him, he might get the point eventually, but thats really rude. you said that you "...don't want to hurt his feelings because i know how it feels..." ok, well it would probably hurt him MORE if you just ignored him than it would if you were HONEST with him. it's your decision in the end, but i would be honest with the guy, even though it would be hard.
-FunnyCide
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omg i dont have that much of bad acne but like its get worst and incressing the party i go to tonight i am just wearing like make up and stuff but when the make ups off whats the best way t o treat it???
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use a basic astringent. if you have really dry skin you will need to use a moisturiser too 'cause the astringent will strip your face of dirt and oil. even oils that might be helpful to your skin. but it will drastically reduce acne. you should also use a cleanser like Clearsil or something like that. use the astringent first then the cleanser. use it twice a day. you can also buy stuff for the acne (like medicine) that you put on open sores. you can get stuff like that at wal-mart or target. of course, there are never-ending lists of perscription things, but i think that this will help. remember to wash your face in the morning and at night. that will help alot!!
-FunnyCide
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