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its me again. i got a truth box, and someone told me they wrote in it. so i go to see what they wrote and NOTHING will load. its just an empty white page with an ad. no matter how many times i click it. what can i do :(
Sometimes, the truth box does this when it's down, or going through maintenance, so you'll have to wait it out.
Is this the first comment someone has wrote on it? If so, they may be lying and that's why no truths are loading.
Just give it a day or 2 and see if anything loads up. Mine takes a short while to fully load, so make sure you give it some time.
If nothing seems to work, it may be worth deleting that application and getting it again.
Good luck with it.
how do you pronounce disgusting" disGusting or disCusting?
i hear lotsa ppl say disCusting!?!
DisGusting.
my friend said she heard about someone that dry humps their bed.
i dont get it.
they hump their bed?!
that's kind of weird,but can they get pregnant by that or like have something wrong with their body if they keep doing that?
sorry for the awkward question,but i dont know anyone else i can ask
It's their way of masturbating.
You can't possibly get pregnant this way. A bed is not a penis. A bed does not produce semen.
Nothing bad can happen to their body - unless they injure themselves on the bed in some unfortunate way.
I have an interview at H&M on Sunday and I am undecided on what would be best to wear. Would it be more appropriate to wear smart clothes (e.g. black skirt, white blouse etc) or slightly 'edgier' more fashionable clothes considering it is a fashion chain? Would they be more impressed if I wore their own clothes?
Additionally, has anyone had an interview with them before? What kind of questions do they ask?
Any advice/tips would be appreciated.
I got an interview there, but I didn't actually turn up because I got a job a few days before it. Anyway!.. what you should wear is smart casual clothing. Don't be afraid to jazz it up a little, with fitted shirts/skirts/trousers, add a waistcoat. belt, heels - whatever you're comfortable in. Whatever you do, don't go for all dark colours. If you wear something bright (shirt/belt/etc), you will be remembered - and it's also been proven to put both you and the interviewer in a happier mood! Don't forget about your hair - don't have it all over your face.
They will ask you questions like why you want the job, what experience have you had with customer service/customers/retail/etc, what would you do if *insert problem here*... you may also be asked about the history of H&M. This has happened to me twice at clothing stores, so do a little research on their website beforehand.
Don't worry over the interview itself, as stores like this are generally laid back and the questions are quite basic.
I wish you the best of luck!
Is it bad to have sex everytime you're with your boyfriend? I'm 17 and he's 18. We've been dating for almost 1 year now and people say it's bad becuase they think that's all we do, But is it really so terrible?
If it's not the only thing you do when you're together, then I don't see a problem with it. Who cares what other people think? You definitely shouldn't!
If you and your boyfriend's feelings are still going strong and everything else about your relationship is healthy, then carry on doing what you're doing if it makes you both happy.
k sorry for all of these things about pregnancy but ifa girl isa virgin and has sex for the first time is it arder for her toi get pregnant or is that just a myth
Obvious myth.
i love my boyfriend alot, but everytime we argue, he gets mad and turns his phone off so i cant get ahold of him. he likes to make me feel like its always my fault...what do i do?
Let him be the one to contact you for a change. Next time you argue, don't provoke it etc and you won't even need to be the first one to apologize.
Let him run after you when he's cooled off and he will soon realize it's not very nice. Maybe the arguments will become less frequent, too.
What do you think of a girl who wears a tank top,neck tie and a short? cute or not?
I don't like the sound of it.
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hi there.my problem is that i need to break up with this girl . i have been going out with her for about 6 months but i do not feel the same feelings for her that i had before. this is the first time i have had a girlfriend so i am not sure how i should go about doing it. i realy have to do it soon as she realy likes me but i do not like her and i cannot let this continue, i want to do it in the easiest way. i do not want her to get hurt though i know that would be quite impossible. any help here please. thanks for any advice
However you do it, she will still be hurt. but it's better to be truthful and let her get over it, than be stuck in a relationship you don't even want.
What you need to do is just tell the truth. Tell her you don't feel the same any more and you don't want the relationship to continue. Don't feed her the "it's not you, it's me" crap and don't do anything to piss her off. You owe it to her to do a respectable break up. It's the least you can do.
wat are the danger if you loose tampax n vagina
You will need to get it out. If you don't, you risk getting TSS (toxic shock syndrome) and it can be fatal.
If you think you've got a tampon inside you, relax and try to get it out. There's nowhere else for it to go, so it is never "lost". If you can't get to it, go to the emergency room. Don't think it's embarrassing, because it's better to be safe than sorry.
this is a bit awkward but im a girl and a virgin but i sometimes masturbate (not often). so the first few times i was bleeding while doing it. is this bad?
It depends. What were you using? Do you know why you were bleeding? Did you just go a little bit too far? Or break your hymen?
It's quite easy to scratch inside if your hymen is already broken, so don't use anything that isn't smooth.. and make sure your nails aren't long.
Give yourself a rest and time to heal. Next time, be a little bit more careful.
When your a veggietarian you arn't allowed to eat meat, but what about fish???
The correct term for a "vegetarian that eats fish" is called a pescetarian.
A true vegetarian does not eat fish.
My birthday was a couple days ago and i decided to spend it with a guy i really liked. Things got a little carried away and we ended up having unprotected sex two days after my period stopped. This isn't the first guy i've been with. but now i have yellow, smelly discharge on my underware. There's no burning, reddness, or itchness so i don't think it's an infection. Is this a sign of pregnancy? Or is it normal?
Thankyou for your question.
Whilst discharge can vary from a clear/white to a slightly yellow colour, it's not normal for it to smell. Just because you don't have any other symptoms as of yet doesn't mean it's not an infection.
Keep a close eye on it and if you're not seeing any improvements within a few days, consult your doctor to pinpoint what is wrong, as there are many reasons. Personally, I just think it's a change in your cycle, because discharge constantly varies, but if your symptoms get worse, don't leave it untreated.
Although you've had unprotected sex, it will be way too soon to notice any pregnancy symptoms and a yellow smelly discharge isn't a symptom of pregnancy anyway, so you'll just have to wait for your next period to see if you're pregnant I'm afraid.
To conclude:
*Give it a few days to see if it goes back to normal. If not, ask your doc. If you get more symptoms, it's most probably an infection that needs treatment.
*You won't be able to tell if you are pregnant yet, so wait to see if you skip your next period.
pretty much what it says, i've heard if you gargle hydrogen peroxide everyday it'll whiten your teeth.
does anyone know if this is true or has anyone tried it or know anyone who has?
If you went to the dentist to get your teeth whitened, one of the ingredients used would be Hydrogen Peroxide.
Hydrogen Peroxide is abrasive and can cause damage to your teeth and gums. So toying around with it when you have no idea what you are doing because you aren't a dentist isn't the smartest idea.
So in answer to your question, yes, it whitens teeth, but you need the right concentrate and the aid of a professional to do it correctly.
Every time I smoke a cigarette I gag.
Not every drag, but a couple times per cigarette.
What does this mean?
Is something wrong with me?
It sounds like your body's defense mechanism. It doesn't want smoke being inhaled into your lungs, so your natural reaction is to gag, or cough.
Now what really makes me wonder, is if you gag when smoking, why do you still do it?
my hair is naturally wavey.
does dangerously straight actually work?
No.
No shampoo or conditioner can work on their own to straighten hair.
Only chemicals and heat appliances truly work.
Shampoos and other hair products just help a little along the way if you use heat appliances alongside them, by making your hair smoother and straighter a little bit longer.
Trust. I have curly hair and fed up of these useless products claiming to work miracles.
so for the past few months (maybe not wise i know but i'm just emberressed to talk to my doctor about it) ive been having like this whitish yellowish colored stuff coming out of my vagina.. no iching or anything just like alot of it.. like my underwear gets totally soaked in like a few hours.. i mean it dries eventually but yeah its annoying... and it smells kinda weird too... like not my normal smell... i know that you're probably say go to the doctor... and i think i will but also what do you think this could be?
It's just discharge.
A natural lubricant and a cleaning process.
It's nothing to worry about, all girls/ladies get it. :)
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/discharge.htm
Every now and then I get drunk.
A few times if my parents are out for the night, and I mean for a long time, so by the time they get back, I can be in bed I'll open up a bottle of wine.
I'll drink the whole bottle on my own, whilst on my laptop or watching tv. When I finish the bottle, I'll put it in this huge box full of glass bottles and jars we have which we afterwards take to the glass containers.
Since my parents have an endless supply of wine in the house and in the glass box there's always wine bottles, it's really unlikely that they will see the bottle that I drank.
Anyway, does it seem weird if a person is home on their own, and they just drink a bottle of wine, then go to sleep.
Luckily I have never had a hangover from drinking a bottle on my own :D
So yeah, is it weird? If so, why?
Thanks :D
"Everyone knows the health risks facing young binge-drinkers staggering around bars on a Saturday night, but there is another group of regular drinkers who may also be quietly boozing their way to oblivion."
Are you of legal drinking age?
If the answer is no, straight away, there is definitely a problem.
To randomly drink a whole bottle of wine on your own may also indicate a problem, even if you are of legal drinking age.
Why do you feel the need to crack open a bottle and drink it ALL? A glass or 2 is okay in moderation, but the fact you are literally binge drinking whenever you want is wrong, because it's damaging your health, especially since there is no real need for you to do it, right?
The fact you do this "every now and then" is quite worrying, because you'll start getting into the habit of drinking and do it more often, maybe even cracking open another bottle after your first.
You see where I'm getting at?
A glass or 2 can be beneficial, but any more is just asking for it.
Be smart about it and have control over yourself. If you MUST drink, just stop after 1 or 2, or you will find yourself having quite a few problems as you get older.
about 5 months ago, i started dating this guy. we fell madly in love in no time at all. after 3 months, he told me he needed a break off of the relationship. so i let him.
after a week, he asked me back out. we had been going out for about 1 week or so when we decided to have sex. a week after that, we did it again. we were going out for a little over a month, and he admitted that he had jumped back into the relationship too quickly and that he still wasnt ready.
i was sick and tired of being hurt by him, so my friend and i walked 3 and a half hours, (20 minutes by car) to get to his house so i could talk to him. he said he still loves me and wants to go back out, but not right now. maybe in about a month or so. but i asked him what was wrong with him and why he kept doing this, and he told me that the fact that he "took my virginity" has been "haunting" him.
now, to me it sounded like he regretted it. i tried my hardest to reassure him that it was okay and that i wanted him to be my first, but he said it still bothers him.
and even thought it did physically hurts to have sex with him, i enjoy every minute of it. you cant get any closer than you do in bed. and i just dont think he sees it like i do, and that really hurts me!
well i had walked to his house yesterday and talked about this, and we're still broken up. he cant ever get on the phone because his brother always hogs it. (their whole family shares a cell phone) and so he cant call me, and im not aloud to do aim anymore. (it gave my computer a trojan virus.) so i cant talk to him on there, either.
how can i let him know that its okay that he took my virginity? or how can i make him stop worrying about it? how can i make him see sex like i do?
In the nicest way I can put it, he is simply a dick and making up excuses as to why he can't contact you. So what if you can't use AIM and he can't get to the phone. Why doesn't HE walk the 3 hours just to see you, or even email etc.
If he seriously wanted to see you, there's is no doubt about it - he would. but he's making no attempt to.
The only thing he is feeling is guilt for taking your virginity, when he knew he shouldn't have.
If I were you, I wouldn't even bother explaining to him it's "okay" he took your virginity - because it actually isn't. You need to open your eyes and see he's not worth it.
Why doesn't he see sex like you? Because as I've said, 1 - he's a dick, 2 - he's not worth it.
You'll find someone who does see sex like you do and that person won't mess you around like him.
It's going to be hard, but you should move on.
expensive "high quality" straighteners = Is that why those are so much more expensive, b/c they get hotter?
It can be one of the reasons.
Another reason refers to the plates on the straightener. You should go for solid ceramic plates, because they make less damage to your hair, than say, metal plates.