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is this bad?
Is it bad to have sex everytime you're with your boyfriend? I'm 17 and he's 18. We've been dating for almost 1 year now and people say it's bad becuase they think that's all we do, But is it really so terrible?
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Well, think of it this way; my girlfriend and i have sex almost everytime we're together...BUT, this is because we don't get to see each other a whole lot due to various reasons. We've been dating for what will be 10 months in about 2 weeks. Here's why it's okay- The reason we do it is because we love each other, and that's one way of many that we show it. The most important factor is that our relationship is NOT based on SEX or LUST. It is based on trust, honesty, and happiness. Now, you and your boyfriend have been together for quite some time...And to really answer this question, you have to know what your relationship is all about. Do you both care about each other enough that you can do this sort of thing AS WELL as other things that couples do? Like, say...Watch movies together, or just plain hang out? Or is it the type where you only get together when you want to have sex? Because, if you base everything on sex, you'll have a problem. It's something to think about, but i hope you make the right decision.
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well in my relationship, we have sex everytime were together, and honestly i dont think its bad. I love it because it feels nice and it lets me express emotions and it brings us closer
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That answer has too many variables for us to give you an answer from a two line question.
Yeah, it could be bad. You could be a relationship based on sex, he could not care about you and just want to get laid, etc etc.
It could be harmless. He could love you very much and everything could be fine.
But if you want a better answer than that from anyone (that isnt complete bullshit) you're going to have to write a question thats about 15-20x longer than this with alot more detail about your relationship.
Even then, accuracy goes up from shot in the dark to maybe 1 in 50 of actually being correct.
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I can see where its coming from.
If you just have sex every single time, it looks like thats all your relationship is about. Do you go on dates and actually TALK, or is that part of the relationship unsparked, and now its only about sex.
Nothing wrong with having sex, but you should just make sure your relationship is meaningful and thats not its all about.
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If it's not the only thing you do when you're together, then I don't see a problem with it. Who cares what other people think? You definitely shouldn't!
If you and your boyfriend's feelings are still going strong and everything else about your relationship is healthy, then carry on doing what you're doing if it makes you both happy.
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Its no one elses business what you do when your with your boyfriend. Everyone has different opinions about sex, if thats what you guys do then its your choice. Keep your sexual relationship to yourself and nobody will judge it.
<3Jess
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I have to disagree... I've gone to school with a couple that have been dating exactly the same amount of time my boyfriend and I have been dating. Our difference- they have sex, lots of it, like you obviously do, and we don't. We have been together three years and a few months.
The sex has become all their relationship is about. It came to a point where they did it so much that it's what they expected each time they saw each other, and it got old. Now they fight all the time and never spend time with any of their other friends because of the fighting and all that junk.
It's fine to have sex a few times a week, but not everytime you see each other. Get out and do something fun.
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No. And I don't see why it's any else's business but you are your boyfriend.
Unless you guys think you are having too much sex, you aren't. You are in a loving relationship and like to express yourselves. There is nothing wrong with that.
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I don't get why other people are so nosy, it is your business and no, it isn't bad, unless you are hurting yourselves. If you guys love each other where you want to express it sexually, then, only the 2 of you know how you feel, other don't, so they should mind their business. Plus it is private, and whether you talk or have sex only is really not their problem.
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no its not because it shows that you have more then a relationship you have a physical relationship which is good because it truly shows you and others that you really care/love eachother.
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