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what do i do wrong??
i love my boyfriend alot, but everytime we argue, he gets mad and turns his phone off so i cant get ahold of him. he likes to make me feel like its always my fault...what do i do?
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Let him be the one to contact you for a change. Next time you argue, don't provoke it etc and you won't even need to be the first one to apologize.
Let him run after you when he's cooled off and he will soon realize it's not very nice. Maybe the arguments will become less frequent, too.
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A lot of the time guys hate to sit down and talk about their relationships but you have to tell him how you feel! Dont let him bring you down! Stand on firm ground and let him know that your just trying to help make this relationship work and that it would be easier for you if you had open communication. And he shouldnt make you feel like your to blame, so talk to him and tell him that if your going to make this work then so is he!
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Well, for starters, you aren't doing anything wrong. You're actually doing the right thing by trying to get in touch with him. Now, you can't really blame him for turning off his phone, because sometimes, the BEST way to cool down(whether it be from an argument, or anything else to get a rage going) is to isolate yourself from what was bothering you. (In a HEALTHY way of course!!!) Maybe your boyfriend listens to music when his phone is off, or maybe he's drawing, or writing...What i'm trying to say is that maybe the thing that he does to calm down, is something you don't know he can do. A lot of the time, men are embarrassed about their hidden talents, and refuse to tell anyone. That could be why he doesn't answer your calls. What you should do, is sit down and talk to him- when you AREN'T fighting. Tell him how it makes you feel when he makes it hard to communicate. Like, REALLY make him understand. I'm sure once he gets the point, if he truly cares, he'll realize that he is wrong in that situation. And also that he should take more time to consider your feelings after a fight, as well as his.
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break up with him, he's not worth it. if he cares about you, he wouldnt try to make you upset, instead, he should be trying to make you happy, i hope i helped:)
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