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Hey brittany bloggers here! I'm a part-time writer but a full-time listener! I'm 14 years old and that might sound too young to give advice but ive been through alot and I really hope you will give me a chance to help you. Im new to this site so if u ever want to talk i am here. Thanks for listening to me, now its your turn.
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Im 13 and I dont fit in anywhere I thought maybe im Emo but then I read alot about them and im definently not like that and 2 make it all worst i've never had a bf or anything like that I really need 2 fit in before I go insane
Im 14 and havent been in a serious relationship yet either, just alot of breakups. Just because you dont fit in dosent make you emo. You might feel a little out of the ordinary but if your trying to figure out were you stand, then it might not come to you, it will when your not even looking for it. But in the meantime just look for people you would normally get along with and trust me when i say that guys make everything harder. So instead of looking, wait for one to come to you. When you finally have him you'll relize that he was worth waiting for.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and we had a baby boy 2months ago... he really wants me to marry him and move in with him i really think im ready and i know i could handle it i jus dont know how to convince my mom that im mature enough
If you think your ready then hopefully your mother will see that you are to. Your mom most likely wants the best for you so yes it will be normal if she freaks at first, your relationship sounds VERY serious so if your ready to take it to the next level your mom will understand.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
So I just turned 16 yesterday.
and I've been dating my first boyfriend for a month now. I thought he was extremely cute when I first saw him, and now when we hangout I keep second guessing. And I shouldn't be, should I? We haven't kissed yet, and all of my friends insist he was trying to kiss me last night, and I think he was too. But I couldn't, and I don't think I wanted to. I don't know if I like the IDEA of having a boyfriend or if I actually LIKE him, and I'm so so confused! What do I do? And if I'm supposed to break up with him, how? (We work together. AND my sister works there too.)
Thankyou in advance!
First of all, Happy birthday! And second if you really want a boyfriend but your not sure about the one you have then most likely you like the idea of him...don't think you have to give in and kiss the guy if you want to. If your already a month into the relationship then it's not unusal if your unsure about the relationship. And third your right in many ways, you shouldnt second guess your relationship and only you know wether or not you really want to break up with this guy. Just because you work together dosen't mean things are going to be akward or anything just act normal around him and if you decide to breakup then hopefully you two can remain friends.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
I have a weird relationship with this guy,
See we were together for almost a year, and he broke up with me right before we hit our year anniversary.
The main fights between us was that he never had time to spend with me, although everything regardless of that was great. I love him a lot. And even after we broke up he still claims to love me.
After we broke up we had a weird week... it was weird because of the break up, but then after that it's like we never broke up, we still kiss and hold hands and have sex.. but everytime it comes up, or if someone asks, he says we're just friends.
He says that he's not ready to jump into the relationship again and he needs time.
He says he wants it to happen "naturally"
But the way I see it, we're pretty much already together since we still act the same way and do the same things we did when we were.
And it kills me when he says we're just friends, because he doesn't act as if we were.
He calls me and kisses me and tells me he loves me, and I love him a lot, so i don't see our relationship as just simply a friendship.
It makes me mad sometimes because i feel like he's ashamed to say i'm his girlfriend, and i want to tell him to screw off, but i can't. i love him too much.
any advice would be helpful
If he's not giving to the relationship but your willing to then maybe you should just talk to him and say how you feel. I know your probly like yea ive never heard that before but if he knows that when your pretty much in a relationship but not calling it that then maybe he will see your point. And if your wanting this to be a relationship it might not be best to have a connection like holding hands and kissing and most definitly having sex. Friends dont really do that, he might think of you as friends with benefits and you should tell him that thats not ok with you. If he acts weird about it then dont worry and just play it by ear and see if he's still expecting more. Maybe then he will see that what hes doing is hurting you and maybe he never saw it in your perspective.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
14/f.
So a week ago today I was at my friends house and it was 1 in the morning. We snuck out. We met two guys downtown. I knew both of them but one more than the other. Lets call him Joe. The other Bob. My friend, lets call her Sam, was going so she could hang out with bob and I was going to hang out with Joe. I kind of liked him but I didn't really know him. So when we got down there, this is going to sound horrible but, I had sex (my first time) with Joe. Joe already liked somebody but liked me as well.
Since then Joe and I hang out all the time and talk all the time. But two days after I had sex with him I got drunk, don't ask why, and had sex with one of my brothers friends. I told Joe about it and he was upset but didn't really care.
Joe really likes somebody but he says she is really prude and it turns him off, which has drawn him closer to me. Today there were fireworks in town. He ended up bring the other girl he liked.
I liked somebody else as well but didn't really know him. When I told him everything that had happened he stopped talking to me. So now that he is out of the picture I feel like I like Joe more and more everyday. But he says he really wants to date me but it's not fair to the other girl so he can't.
We both REALLY like each other, but he says it wouldn't be fair to the other girl if we started dating.
Any advice? I'm so confused and really don't know what to do.
Well i know this might be harsh but i wouldnt do anything with this "joe" that you have done already because it sounds to me like he really cares about this other girl. Your friend "sam" maybe be able to help you out with this one, so you could turn to her as well. As for this "joe" sex really is not the answer it might sound like everything is ok after that but it really isnt. This guy sounds confused talk to him a little bit more openly and see his side of the story
after having sex, the next day if your stomach hurts and you feel fatter and bloated what does that mean? because i have been feel this way for about 5 days. i dont remember anything when i was having sex because i was drunk and someone took advatage over me. and it was my first time. im really scared about this.
Your proably very sore, for the first time you usakky aren't expecting sex to be like this. Your body is recovering from it. Give it about another week and if it's not going away you might want to get tested for any stds if you werent protected.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
well im 18 female. and i had unprotected sex a month ago with my bf and a week later i ended up with a sore throat the was hurting soo bad that i finally went to the doctor for them to look at it.. the doctor thought it was strept throat butt they took a swab of it and it wasnt strept troat. it was either mono or gonoreaha. but they culdnt tell me for sure. so they gave me a shot and 4 pills to take and so after 4 days it went a away.. but a couple of days later i started to get my period but it was 4 days late.. and i took a pregnany test it came out clearly negative.. but after that i started feeling nausas and sick and i got heartburn and i had loss of appeitie cause i couldnt eat and i lost weight.. i went to the doctor and got tested for hiv an stds. they all came back negative. but after that i still felt symptoms of pregnacy..im feeling more tired then usual and my body kinda aches and i just dont wanna move at all. and my head hurts so bad sometimes. so since it has been a month now and i feeling all theses symptoms. could i be pregnant? cause im not getting any better
Dont freak out yet! There are still other things it could be, if your losing weight i doubt your prego but just to be sure wait it out a little and see if your taking any shape to pregnancy. If you notice any change you might want to get tested for pregnancy and hopefully they will be able to tell you if your expecting.
Hope eveything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
Okay, over the summer me and this guy named jared "talked" for a week but then he had to get a job so he couldn't talk anymore but we still texted as friends but nothing flirty. We still text, but again, nothing flirty. Well today in class one of my friends caysy sat in the same seat as him and was helping him with a worksheet and every couple of seconds i would see them wispering to eachother. I always see them flirting together. So i was standing right behind them and she still wouldn't stop. Then, they both volenteered to run an errand for the teacher and they were gone forever and i bet the whole time, they were flirting. Then, in the next class she was like "Omg, jared tried on my ring (i guess just to be funny) and he streched it out." I gave her kind of a weird look and she said "Me and jared are just friends so you don't have to worry." Then i was like "Does he know that i like him?" and she said that he had known for two days and he said he dosen't know if he likes me. I don't know if she was telling the truth but i think she was. She said that i should wait until he decides if he likes me. Ever since he knew that i liked him he hasn't hugged me or said hi to me every morning like he used to or talk to me any. I don't think he likes me anymore but i'm not sure. I don't really want to ask him. I don't know how to act around caysy now. If i call her out on it, she might go back to him and say that i keep bugging her about him or she might say to him, "she thinks that we are flirting." I don't want him to think i'm jealous. But if i don't do anything, she might keep flirting and just keep doing it and she might think it dosen't bother me. I have never liked a guy this much and now she does this. I don't know how to act around her anymore. What should i do and how should i act around her. Now, every time i talk to him, he is probably thinking that i am flirting. I don't like guys knowing that i am flirting unless that guy likes me to. But like i said, he talks to her a lot more than me but he just has that flirty personality so i'm not sure if he actually likes her or if he is just flirting just for the heck of it. Please help! Thanks!!
It sounds like this caysy is not the friend you think she is, and it sucks when that happens but thats when you back down and find friends that are goin to treat you better. And jared, he's probly taken by suprise and he's probly wondering how to act around you too! If you two were friends then you still can be no matter what. It might be a little hard to start back into the friendship but when you do he'll have the idea of you and him in his head. Let him see how great you are. Dont stay away and hidden or he might think your relationship would be akward. The next time you see this jared you give him a hug despite of what he does and tell him that you missed your friend. Then he will know you will always be friends and that you also want more. It will give him more to think about you and to think about why your bestfriend would do this to you, and who knows? He might just realize that you aren't like caysy at all and things might get better for you and jared. Just dont be afraid to put yourself out there.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
so im a new student and it really sucks.
people here dont eat lunch. there are four groups of people and one of the groups are really stand-offish i tried talking to them, most are nice but it seems liek they dont want me in their group, they're also connected to the second group, and they're standoffish too. i have to ask people if i can sit with them for lunch, and they say okay, hesitantly. i cried today during lunch in the bathroom, i cried myeslf to sleep last night. everything here sucks and i hate it. i need help, what to do? i seriosuly count the hours till i go home. what should i do? do you think its because its only the second day and im a new kid?! PLEASE HELP ME. i cry all the time thinkin gabout thi.s
I have moved at least twice a year and me being in highschool, well i know what you mean when you say it's not fun being the new kid. Most of the time your scared that people are staring at you or you think you wont make any friends, aand i was VERY shy. But if you put yourself out there no ones gonna step on you. If you just introduce yourself to people then your bound to make some new friends. So what if people are hesitant to meet you? You make them realize that their lucky to have you at their table. And if these people are the standoffish kid of people you wouldnt want them for friends anyway! It proably dosen't help you very much if you spend time in the bathroom at lunch when you could be out making friends! And i might sound a little strange but try just for one day to meet at least 5 people ypou havent met yet, and if you see one at lunch start talking to them and sit down beside them. And for just that day don't look once at the clock and when the final bell rings i bet you never would have guessed that school was already out. As for being a new student, give it a little while and people will get to know you better.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
my mom has a boyfriend and he is stealing her away from me.wat do i do? by the way im a girl and im 13
signed confused daughter
My stepfather did the same thing when i was your age. You have to let her that you are here and that your not going to go un-noticed. You will come before any boyfriend of hers, and if he's the one stealing her away then i would suggest talking to him and explaining that you know whats best for you mom more than anyone does, and if he wants to remain her life then he needs to be in yours as well. And if that dosen't get his attention then you talk to your mother about it. Tell her that if this relationship gets serious that you are going to be a part of it!
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
How do i Win back my ex-girlfriend?
we broke up last week and i really miss her..she told me she wants to be single and do what ever she wants with nothing holding her back or hurting anyone..but i've been hurting everyday since we broke up..i really want her back..yesterday i read of her blog that she has a crush on someone that's like 1 or 2 years younger than her..i just felt lied to because she said she wants to be single..why is she liking some other guys...and also i'm like the only guy that she ever gone out with that actually lasted more than a month..we lasted almost a year and 7 months..i loved her through thick and thin..she hurt me alot in the past..like flirting with other guys.. and stuff but i still love her..when ever i try to get her back now she just tells me that we're over ..i just cant accept the fact that i will never be with her again...because shes the only girl that i fell hardest for and we been through so much..and im so surprised that after all that shes still not taking me back..i have done nothing wrong i never flirted or barely talk to any other girl besides her i've stayed true and kept all my promises i made to her such as no cheating and staying with her no matter what and such....the main question is i really want her back and i want her to love me again what can i do? ...sorry that my detail is all over the place... oh and also im 17 year of age and shes almost 17 too in december..if its neccessary ...please dont say we too young to really love because its not true ..im very much in love with her
Well for starters you sound very sweet and if this girl has heard you out through everything that youve explained then maybe she just needs some space. But if you havent told her EXACTLY how you feel then maybe thats best. Speaking for most of the girls i know all we really want is for someone to want us just as much as we want them. And trust me many adults will say that we are too young to love but we cant help how we feel now can we? If she wants space then remain friends with her and hopefully you wont hurt as much and she will relize what she is missing. Hope everything works out for the best.
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
When my mom was petting a rabbit she broke out in hives like 5 minutes after we left the bunny. She said she was itchy and he nose was running. So is she allergic to rabbits? And is there such thing as being allergic to them.
Most likely she is allergic to rabbits, however my mother is the same way and you might want to look into if shes allergic to dander. Almodt all animals with fur have dander and just to be safe i would check on that.
okay so I have a boyfriend who's 16 and he's my prince charming and all that=). but there's a problem! my ex boyfriend still wants me back but I don't want him. one time I went to chill with my friends and their boyfriends at the movies and my ex is over here trying to show off and he keeps trying to get by attention. it's annoying as hell! and I'm not a very sexual person. when we were going out, he kept trying to have sex with me but I cursed him out. I don't know how to get this guy out of my life. what should I do?I have a boyfriend and Iove him too. what do I do with my ex?
The best thing to do is tell him straight up that your not intrested. That he is coming on WAY too strong and that you have some one else. It wouldnt hurt to tell your boyfriend about him either, if worse comes to worse he could really help you out. As for sexually, do not give in! Peer pressure cn be hard but this guy abviously is atrracted to you. Tell him how you feel and if it gets out of hand you always have your boyfriend to help you out.
Ok,
So hi its sayah again,
uhm, so i am not pregnant
but i kinda want a baby now.
I am sad and disapointed
evern though im only 14
but still, i was thinking
and should i try and prego again ?
That is a very big decison to make alone. I agree that a baby is a great part of you in life but its alot to take on. You would have to get a job and raise this baby. Does the father know? It's very important to include him not only because this baby would be raised not knowing who it is but also because it would help you out major. Your only 14 and thats not even old enough to have a job and if you have a baby your going to need the money. I would ask myself if i wanted a baby or if i wanted to live my childhood until i was sure of this answer. You would be responsible for a whole other life! Are you sure your ready to be a parent?
16/m
hi there.my problem is that i need to break up with this girl . i have been going out with her for about 6 months but i do not feel the same feelings for her that i had before. this is the first time i have had a girlfriend so i am not sure how i should go about doing it. i realy have to do it soon as she realy likes me but i do not like her and i cannot let this continue, i want to do it in the easiest way. i do not want her to get hurt though i know that would be quite impossible. any help here please. thanks for any advice
The best way to breakup with her would be to let her own gently, and that you can or would like to remain friends. That way she knows that you still care about her and that you dont want to hurt her. Of course she will be hurt but she will be grateful that you care enough to worry about how she will take it.
i'm playing a cello solo and my lesson teacher instructed me to look up the words for the song but i cannot find them anywhere on the internet. can anyone tell me the lyrics/words to Nina (Canonetta) by pergolesi. in english, please.
thanks
I found a website that seems to know the lyrics but im no cello player. Here's the site, http://www.el-atril.com/midis/pergolesi.html
Goodluck with your class!
Im 17 and Ive been with my boyfriend now for about a year. He's a really nice guy and he lost his virginity to me, but he cheated on me 2months ago...he slept with his ex!! he said it was because he was curious and it was a stupid mistake and that he loves me so much and im the only one for him. He swears he would never do it again, Should i believe him?? or leave him???
In a relationship things always get messy. And exspecially for long term relationships because you have built so much trust into the relationship that when a guy breaks your heart like that it can be very hard to recover. If he's serious and knows he was wrong then slowly work your way back into his heart but dont go too fast!! You dont want him to think he's possesive of you! If he's not serious however, then you know you can get someone better, someone how will treat you kinder. Just take your time and dont rush into anything that dosent seem right!
i feel like i dont do enough for my boyfriend of 8 months, so what are some ideas of cute things i can do for him? the other day he invited me over and had a big vase of roses and a letter telling me how much he loves me with candles lit. it was adorable and i really want to pay him back within a week! any ideas?
It sounds like this relationship is very strong and that's always a great thing. But maybe if you suprise him often with nothing TOO big then both of you will stand on an even bar. Remember it's always the little things that matter so dont give up! Some ideas are to cook a dinner or suprise him with tickets to his favorite concert. It all depends on the guy and what he has a passion for. I'm sure in the end everything will work out.
i love my boyfriend alot, but everytime we argue, he gets mad and turns his phone off so i cant get ahold of him. he likes to make me feel like its always my fault...what do i do?
A lot of the time guys hate to sit down and talk about their relationships but you have to tell him how you feel! Dont let him bring you down! Stand on firm ground and let him know that your just trying to help make this relationship work and that it would be easier for you if you had open communication. And he shouldnt make you feel like your to blame, so talk to him and tell him that if your going to make this work then so is he!