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i dont know if i like him or not!
So I just turned 16 yesterday.
and I've been dating my first boyfriend for a month now. I thought he was extremely cute when I first saw him, and now when we hangout I keep second guessing. And I shouldn't be, should I? We haven't kissed yet, and all of my friends insist he was trying to kiss me last night, and I think he was too. But I couldn't, and I don't think I wanted to. I don't know if I like the IDEA of having a boyfriend or if I actually LIKE him, and I'm so so confused! What do I do? And if I'm supposed to break up with him, how? (We work together. AND my sister works there too.)
Thankyou in advance!
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First of all, Happy birthday! And second if you really want a boyfriend but your not sure about the one you have then most likely you like the idea of him...don't think you have to give in and kiss the guy if you want to. If your already a month into the relationship then it's not unusal if your unsure about the relationship. And third your right in many ways, you shouldnt second guess your relationship and only you know wether or not you really want to break up with this guy. Just because you work together dosen't mean things are going to be akward or anything just act normal around him and if you decide to breakup then hopefully you two can remain friends.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
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okay the first thing you absolutely positively need to ask yourself is:
if he didn't like me right now, and we weren't dating, would i like him?
trust me don't make the same mistake i made to go out with a guy just to say you have a boyfriend. it hurts him and it doesn't make you feel any better about yourself.
if you realize that you don't like him anymore like that, then by all means break up with him and so both of you can go your separate ways. say that you like him more as a friend. honestly, just be truthful and although you may be distant for a while, stay friends. keep in touch and if you're friends then no worries about your job :)
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