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Okay, over the summer me and this guy named jared "talked" for a week but then he had to get a job so he couldn't talk anymore but we still texted as friends but nothing flirty. We still text, but again, nothing flirty. Well today in class one of my friends caysy sat in the same seat as him and was helping him with a worksheet and every couple of seconds i would see them wispering to eachother. I always see them flirting together. So i was standing right behind them and she still wouldn't stop. Then, they both volenteered to run an errand for the teacher and they were gone forever and i bet the whole time, they were flirting. Then, in the next class she was like "Omg, jared tried on my ring (i guess just to be funny) and he streched it out." I gave her kind of a weird look and she said "Me and jared are just friends so you don't have to worry." Then i was like "Does he know that i like him?" and she said that he had known for two days and he said he dosen't know if he likes me. I don't know if she was telling the truth but i think she was. She said that i should wait until he decides if he likes me. Ever since he knew that i liked him he hasn't hugged me or said hi to me every morning like he used to or talk to me any. I don't think he likes me anymore but i'm not sure. I don't really want to ask him. I don't know how to act around caysy now. If i call her out on it, she might go back to him and say that i keep bugging her about him or she might say to him, "she thinks that we are flirting." I don't want him to think i'm jealous. But if i don't do anything, she might keep flirting and just keep doing it and she might think it dosen't bother me. I have never liked a guy this much and now she does this. I don't know how to act around her anymore. What should i do and how should i act around her. Now, every time i talk to him, he is probably thinking that i am flirting. I don't like guys knowing that i am flirting unless that guy likes me to. But like i said, he talks to her a lot more than me but he just has that flirty personality so i'm not sure if he actually likes her or if he is just flirting just for the heck of it. Please help! Thanks!!
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It sounds like this caysy is not the friend you think she is, and it sucks when that happens but thats when you back down and find friends that are goin to treat you better. And jared, he's probly taken by suprise and he's probly wondering how to act around you too! If you two were friends then you still can be no matter what. It might be a little hard to start back into the friendship but when you do he'll have the idea of you and him in his head. Let him see how great you are. Dont stay away and hidden or he might think your relationship would be akward. The next time you see this jared you give him a hug despite of what he does and tell him that you missed your friend. Then he will know you will always be friends and that you also want more. It will give him more to think about you and to think about why your bestfriend would do this to you, and who knows? He might just realize that you aren't like caysy at all and things might get better for you and jared. Just dont be afraid to put yourself out there.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
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your friend is not a true friend. she is flirting with your crush when she is aware that you like him. don't do ANYTHING through her. do not ask her anything about jared -- she can easily lie.
i'd talk to him myself and ask him if he likes me because you shouldn't trust anyone else, sorry to say. if he says straight up "no" DROP HIM. immediately and let your friend flirt all she wants.
another thing you can do is tell her that it makes you uncomfortable how much she's flirting with him. if she is a true friend, she'll stop.
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