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gang banggers
okay so my boyfriend is in trg (tiny rascal gang) and I don't really care. I mean he's everything I'm looking for in a guy. but do you think it's bad I'm dating a guy in a gang?what should I do?
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If he is everything you are looking for, then you might as well start looking under rocks. There are some nice toads out there in swamps...you could try kissing one. This guy will leave you with more than warts. Gangs are nothing to screw around with...even small pathetic losers can do a lot of damage when they put their tiny pea sized brains together. Why are your standards this low? Don't answer, just listen. Raise your standards. You are worth more than this. The first thing you look for in a guy is that he is a decent human being and respects not only himself but all life. Anyone who fails that basic decency test is not worth spitting on, let alone sharing spit.
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well i don't think you should be d8ing him you need to talk to a parent tho because since hes in a gang if you broke up him he my try to kill you
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I guess it would have to depend how much your boyfriend is into the whole gang thing. Me, being hispanic, I know some people in gangs and I know girls who have boyfriends who are in gangs. Many of them don't worry about it. But there are a select few that are worried. They are worried that if something were to happen with their boyfriends and another gang, they would go up to them instead of the boyfriends. But like I said, I guess it just depends how much your boyfriend is into the whole "gang world"
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE<3
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Honestly, these days gangs aren't real. They might think they are something bad for being in a so called gang, but gangs today are just friends claiming to be in gangs. There are some real gangs in bigger cities such as New York and Los Angelos. Now-a-days kids claim to be in gangs when really it's not a real gang.
But if your boyfriend is a "real gangter" I wouldn't suggest being involved in that. Your safety is at risk when you get involved with someone like that. I'm not saying to break up with him over it, because that's your choice. What I am saying is that if he did something to someone and they wanted revenge, they would go after someone close to him whether it's family or you. Talk to him about it and let him know that you don't want a part of that. Also, because your dating someone that is in a gang, people will look down on you because of things he does. Trust me, it's not worth the outcome of your life.
Think about your options. Think about everything real hard. It's your life and your choice. If you choose him, then your chosing to be a part of his lifestyle. Which also means putting yourself in danger. I'm sorry hun but you need to rethink what you're getting into. I'm sure no one wants anything to happen to you because of his doings.
Good luck, inbox me if you need to.
x0*-Bryttnii
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It might not be bad, but I don't see any benefits from it.
Trust me, there are plenty of guys out there who are "everything you're looking for in a guy", and who aren't in gangs. Gangs are dangerous things. It's probably best that you don't associate yourself with one.
--Jack
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