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I have a weird relationship with this guy,
See we were together for almost a year, and he broke up with me right before we hit our year anniversary.
The main fights between us was that he never had time to spend with me, although everything regardless of that was great. I love him a lot. And even after we broke up he still claims to love me.
After we broke up we had a weird week... it was weird because of the break up, but then after that it's like we never broke up, we still kiss and hold hands and have sex.. but everytime it comes up, or if someone asks, he says we're just friends.
He says that he's not ready to jump into the relationship again and he needs time.
He says he wants it to happen "naturally"
But the way I see it, we're pretty much already together since we still act the same way and do the same things we did when we were.
And it kills me when he says we're just friends, because he doesn't act as if we were.
He calls me and kisses me and tells me he loves me, and I love him a lot, so i don't see our relationship as just simply a friendship.
It makes me mad sometimes because i feel like he's ashamed to say i'm his girlfriend, and i want to tell him to screw off, but i can't. i love him too much.
any advice would be helpful
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If he's not giving to the relationship but your willing to then maybe you should just talk to him and say how you feel. I know your probly like yea ive never heard that before but if he knows that when your pretty much in a relationship but not calling it that then maybe he will see your point. And if your wanting this to be a relationship it might not be best to have a connection like holding hands and kissing and most definitly having sex. Friends dont really do that, he might think of you as friends with benefits and you should tell him that thats not ok with you. If he acts weird about it then dont worry and just play it by ear and see if he's still expecting more. Maybe then he will see that what hes doing is hurting you and maybe he never saw it in your perspective.
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
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If a relationship was not ended in clean break style, and the couple hangs out afterward, then these things are bound to happen. It is not fair to either of you to drag things out like this. Tell him it's all or nothing, a clean break (you can't hang out or these things that lead you on will continue!) or a true relationship. It is always best to make a clean break, hence it leaves things simple and "clean."
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Well, from what I see, he is using you. He wants a friends with benefits type of relationship, and people always get hurt in the end. So draw the line, and tell him how you feel. Tell him it kills you when he says you're just friends. And you don't see it as proper friendship, proper friendship doesn't involve kissing or sex. So give him an ultimatum, whether it is you along with a proper and serious relationship, or, nothing. It does hurt girls, because we are more emotional and have a close relationship with our feelings, so these thins do hurt after some time. Just give him an option. Enough is enough.
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