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my mom
my mom has a boyfriend and he is stealing her away from me.wat do i do? by the way im a girl and im 13
signed confused daughter
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I've been there, sadly. And I'm sorry you're going through it. Honestly, you may think hes stealing her away but you're just not used to having her around. Try talking to her, she needs to realize that your feelings matter, and you need to see that she still loves you she just wants happiness for herself. Good luck.
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My stepfather did the same thing when i was your age. You have to let her that you are here and that your not going to go un-noticed. You will come before any boyfriend of hers, and if he's the one stealing her away then i would suggest talking to him and explaining that you know whats best for you mom more than anyone does, and if he wants to remain her life then he needs to be in yours as well. And if that dosen't get his attention then you talk to your mother about it. Tell her that if this relationship gets serious that you are going to be a part of it!
Hope everything works out for the best!
Sincerly,
Brittanybloggers
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i'm so sorry. i think you should sit her down and really let her know how you feel. as the person below me suggested, have a day where you do something together and talk to her about it then. you don't want her running off 5 minutes into the conversation. she'll be more conscious of her actions as well as her boyfriend's. it must be hard on her as well, remember.
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Don't worry, your mom will always be there for you. Take a day to hang out with your mom, make it a.....mother-daughter day. Do something together that you enjoy, something you haven't done in a while.
-ceramic paintings
-shopping
-anything you have fun doing together!!!!
Schedule these days whenever you feel left out. I know everything will work out. Hope to hear from you after your first mother-daughter hang out day! Good Luck!!!
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