|
His cheatin heart....
Im 17 and Ive been with my boyfriend now for about a year. He's a really nice guy and he lost his virginity to me, but he cheated on me 2months ago...he slept with his ex!! he said it was because he was curious and it was a stupid mistake and that he loves me so much and im the only one for him. He swears he would never do it again, Should i believe him?? or leave him???
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
okay if he said you're the only one for him, why he slept with his ex for? and what is he curious about? his ex girlfriend or something. well is he curious about still having feelings for ex by having sex with her? to be honest, whatever guys say to girls they don't really mean it cuz they just saying stuff you wanna hear. but you gotta ask him what is there to be curious about?and tell me how it went.:).
]
In a relationship things always get messy. And exspecially for long term relationships because you have built so much trust into the relationship that when a guy breaks your heart like that it can be very hard to recover. If he's serious and knows he was wrong then slowly work your way back into his heart but dont go too fast!! You dont want him to think he's possesive of you! If he's not serious however, then you know you can get someone better, someone how will treat you kinder. Just take your time and dont rush into anything that dosent seem right!
]
My boyfriend of two years also cheated on me, he was out of town, some-what drunk, and got curious. We were both each others firsts and he wanted to know what it would be like with another person. We're still together, but only because I know that he regrets it with every inch of himself and would take it back in a heartbeat. If you know that he regrets it, and you feel like your relationship still has potential, there's no point in ending it. It will be a hard long journey afterwards though.. nothing will really be the same for awhile. Now, if you know he's just telling you this to make you happy, you should probably back up and take some time to think everything through. Hope everything works out well :)
]
if you had sex recently test his love and tell him you are pregnant if he breaks up with you its not there if he doesnt then he really wont do it again in the end tell him you are not really pregnant
]
I think you should leave him...cheating becomes an addiction and he won't be able to stop cheating on you and every time he cheats on you he'll always have a stupid excuse like he did the first time he cheated on you...and if he really did love you he would've never slept with somebody else especially his ex...but since he cheated on you with her I think he still might have feelings for her and he might be playing both of you...I say move on and find somebody else you deserve better.
Hope every thing works out for the best...
XOXO Bre-Bre
]
Well, everyone is different. For some people, the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" doesn't apply. If he lost his virginity to you, he was probably curious to see what it was like to be with another girl. If you have been with him long enough to know that he isn't the cheating type, then give him another chance. It is really a personal decision for you to make based on the type of person he is. If he is the type to cheat, then leave him because he probably won't ever change. Hope all goes well.
x0*-Bryttnii
]
More Questions: |