well hey there! i'm fourteen.I like to chill,play bball with my friends,read,listen to music and do whatever a teen likes to do.I'm mature for my age.I don't act like a whiny little girl. status? taken.
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is it normal for a 16 year old girl to have some gray hair? I was looking through my hair and found strands of gray hair ...I don't think its genetic because my mother started getting gray hair when she was 25 ..why am I getting gray hair at 16?? Is there any reason as to why and how to stop it? (link)
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It's okay that you have grey hair. I'm 14 -F and I have white hair. And I think you're getting them because maybe you're stressing. That's why I got them. And I think you should dye it rather than pulling it. Because if you pull it, then you'll get more. I got more white hair when I pulled it out so I think you should dye it. And don't worry you're not the only one who gets grey or white hair at these teen age. Hope I helped :)
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I have a really good friend. We are basically "online" friends, although we go to the same school. The thing is, he is too shy to talk to me in person, what should I do? (link)
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You go up to him and say hi first :) since he's the shy one. I mean you guys are "online" friends but why not be better friends in person?
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Can someone please tell me all the aim websites that they know of so I can go on them.Thank you!!! And they have to be free no downloading and no viruses. (link)
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hey(: well you can go to meebo.com or koolim.com
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Same girl I've mentioned in another on my posts.. Anyway, today we got see to hang out for a few for the first time, prior to today we would just chat on the computer.. I was really looking forward to hanging out with her, and I had a great time except now it's all over and I really don't know when I'll get to see her again, and it's killing me.. She goes to public school, I'm homeschooled and I just don't get to see her much needless to say, and her parents are still "iffy" about me and more then likely do not trust me, but I've known her parents for about a year now..
Any idea on what I could do to fix this blah feeling or perhaps try to gain the trust of her parents so we could hang out more? I just would like to see her again and talk to her some more in person.. It's much better then chatting on the computer.. I really do love this girl, she's my first girl I've really liked and there is something about her I adore.. It just sucks when I can't see her..
Thanks in Advance!
Chase
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awww that's the cutest thing ive ever heard. well to make her parents love you. give presents to her parents and be polite and all. prove to them that you really care for their daughter. and u could try writing to her or calling her. I know it's not a lot but I hoped it gave u some ideas.
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How do you get a guy to ask you out? (link)
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well you can't really make a guy ask you out so try asking him out and if he says no then move on.don't hang onto a guy that don't wanna go out with you cuz they gonna make you look like the stupid person when they stupid for not going out with a great person.
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so i like this guy and i was talking to him today and he was like weres meg weres meg so i saw that he was like being cruching over her so i sayed you like her huh? and he shuged hes sloders so i was like you do!!! and he said ya but she dosent like me like that.
so should i still try for him?
or
should i try to hook them up?
its not like im in love with him i would rater see him happy with her then not happy with me and wer friends so i cool with that!! (link)
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well I know you wanna see them happy and all but if she don't like him, then don't even try to hook him up. and like you should try to forget about him. don't hang onto a guy that doesn't like you. there's other guys out there for you. you're just wasting your time if you keep hanging onto him so go find someone better. if you keep hanging onto him and he don't like you,then that makes you look like the stupid person and you don't want people to think you desperate for him.
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Hey there.
I'm an 18 yo Female! : )
Basically school started on August 25th, and I've already missed 4 classes in a row in the past 2 weeks. Last week I had a cold and my doctor said I was too sick to go to school, and this week I had pink eye. so I've had to stay off.
Tomorrow's going to be the 4th day of class I've missed. I've been e-mailing my teachers letting them know what's going on. I just don't want to be completely lost when I go back to class, I've been keeping up with the work.
Do yall think there's anything else I should do? I don't want them to think I'm skipping. (link)
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okay when you get back to school, just give a note to the teacher written from your doctor saying that you've been really sick to to school. and it's a good thing you've been keeping up with the work eventhough you've missed many days of school. so just get a note from the doctor saying that you were really ill to go school because teachers believe you when you get a note from the doctor.
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hi i'm 13/f and there's a guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me back..
cause he always talks to me
he always makes me laugh
i always catch him staring at me
when this guy took away my pen and i said give it back he didn't give it back but then when the guy i liked said it he gave it back. and then the guy that took my pen said "you just said that just cause you like her" then i think he smiled but he didn't say anything so i'm not sure.
and also the guy i like always kicks me under the table for fun and everything
so does he like me????? (link)
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he probably do like but shows it in funny ways. I think he's shy and isn't ready to let you know he like you just yet but if he do, don't get into it that mug because if you like the guy a lot then you ask him if he likes you and he says no, then you're just gonna end up hurt. so don't get your hopes up high. like I said he probably do like you but has a funny way of showing it. all guys have a different way to show the girl that he like her.
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So, i just started freshmen year about three weeks ago and i yet to make one single friend. I see alot of cool looking people who seem to look like they're interesting in the same music as me by their style but i haven't worked up the courage to talk to anyone yet. I'm like, afraid they'll think i'm some sort of weirdo, hah-ha.I don't know, i guess i'm just being a bit self-consious.. eh, any tips on being a bit more social please?
Oh! & any REALLY cheap sites where i could buy band shirts and bags and such? Lol. :P (link)
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hmmm... well it was tough for me to make friends too and I'm a freshman also. but you could join a club and try to make friends that's kinda easy. and don't be afraid to talk to anybody. gather up your courage and say "hi!" or like in class when you don't get anything , ask someone who sits next,in front,or behind you and say hi my name is blah blah blah. it's an easy way. you could also try to sit with people who look like freshman to you. hoped I help and don't worry I bet you'll have lots of friends by the end of the year.
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oh okay, this my story i need help on.
last year i dated this guy who is two years older than me, well this guy is VERY inexpereince NO joke, so well anyways it was only a week a lasted because he didnt come up to me at school, which he does to all his girlfriends becuase he doesnt know how to approach a gril GAY i know well anyways, this summer he came over to my cousins and we made out and it was his FIRST ever kiss. GAYER i know, well anyways were talking but the thing is HE LOVES!!!! to talk to other girls to but he doesnt get close to them like that. now i had asked him if i was wasting my time and well yeah im he said so i told him that i was talking to another guy so it wouldnt look like i was heart broken and stupid and now im talking to that guy VERY UNEXPECTANT!! well now im still stuck on it. becuase the very inexpereince boy goes to the gym every morning bc he loves to play basketball and well i have gym 1st period so im there wiht my friends, well anyways he gives me a look like he wants to get back but idkk he so so so so SOOOOOOO EFFIN. confusing, i dont know if i should talk to him again even if he did break my heart. so yeah, and that guy that i didnt think i was going to talk to after he is so sweet, and we are "offcially talking" but i had LOVE and i absoulety LOVED the inexpereince guy for the most longest time and i dont know if im over him. gahhhh I posted a question called a "a year long fling or a year wasted" and well i got my answer when i asked him but he is so confusing.
gahhhh i dont know what to do at ALL!!!!!
Help me out please.
-cheergirl0811 (link)
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well I think you do because sometimes when you look at the person that you absolutely love and you're not with them right now, then deep down inside of you,you still have feelings for him and I know you do. it's hard to let go of someone you love. but does your heart tells you that you're still in love with him? follows your feelings. but since you loved him and it's hard to let go and you look at the person,you start having those feelings you once had for them again but sometimes things don't always work out the same as the first time. so I think you do still have feelings for but you're just unsure. try talking to him as friends again and see of anything happens again.
-I hoped I helped or at least gave you ideas :).
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i really like this guy that is bi-racial. (black and white)
and i don't know if my family would accept it or not but i'm not sure that i care..
is there anything wrong with a white girl dating a bi-racial boy?
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okay you like him then go with him.don't matter what people say.let them say stuff.they just hating.but yeah if you like him then go with him.even if they do say something,ignore it.I went with a boy who rican and black and I'm Asian but I like him and I go with him.but not anymore cuz I got a man.
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hey, im 17 and i have a 9 year old little sister. she's literally the biggest brat i know. i just want to help her. she's really beautiful, but i'm worried that when she gets older, things aren't going to go so well for her unless she learns how to respect and listen to her elders. she has adhd and has ocd. if things aren't going her way, she throws a tempertantrum, and when people tell her not to do something. she pushes their button and takes it too far. im also worried about how she's doing in school. i believe she's one of the smartest kids i know, but she's so ignorant. when it comes to learning, she gets too aggrivated and gives up. so now she just hates learning and doesn't listen when anyone who is trying to teach her something important. also she has a problem with keeping up with her stuff and a problem with putting things back the way they were istead she ignores it and does what she wants. it seems to me she has no motivation or drive to improve, all she's interested in is having fun and getting what she wants. all i want to know is: what can i do to help her?
i thought about briving her, but i don't know if that's a good idea. (link)
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well you can try to encourage her to become a better person. talk to her about the importance about school and about being respectful. she might listen. maybe she's just afraid of what life of ahead of her. and maybe she needs some time to think about stuff. show her what it takes to become a responsible and respectful person. you're her older sibling so you should try to encourage her. talk to her about it and maybe she'll listen. oh and when you talk to her about it, and if she says that she don't know if she can do that then tell her that she's not alone and that you believe in her. I'm a little sister myself.
-hoped I helped:)
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i really like my boyfriend and we make out for like long periods of time and we hug alot and everything and i was wondering, what should i do with my hands when we makeout to show that i really care about him? (link)
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it doesn't matter where your hands are. it doesn't matter. the only thing that matters when you're making out with your boyfriend is the pure touch of your lips being pulled towards and the chemistry between it. you can put your hans around his neck like the movement of you and him kissing. or like running your fingers through his hair.
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ok this may be long im just warning you in advance. ok so im going to be completely honest. i am in no way a perfect or even close to be perfect person. i party, go out, and make mistakes. but lately it seems like i have just been worried about others way more than neccessary and taking crap that i shouldnt. it is mostly just one person. this girl is my best friend. we hang out al the time. but lately i think she is starting to think she can say or do anything and ill let it go. so i drive everywhere she wants to go on the weekends or even during the week. its not like she cant drive she just says she doesnt have the money, although i pay for absolutely everything and she pays for just gas and makes more money than me, but that really doesnt matter. so i take her everywhere and for some reason when she drinks she turns into a totally different person. she will say things at my expense to make me look bad, she will act like and even tell me and others that i do whatever she says, and she is very mean with what she says or does. this is mostly when she drinks but sometimes maybe when she is sober. when it is just me and her she is always like your my best friend i can tell you anything. buut when we are not she totally ignores me. it upsets me alot. i mean reading this may sound worse than what it really is. i usually just let it go. but the last couple weekends i have been crying about it. and for one it is embarrassing and 2 even if she does notice it she acts like its not her fault and everything is fine. i love this girl to death and would do anything for her. but how do i get it across to her what she is doing and do u think she is doing this directly to me or just because she has been drinking? thanks!!!! (link)
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well first of all sweety, your so called best friend is fake. if she acts like a sweet girl in front of you and mean around other people then she's a fake. so what if she's drunk or something, she's just using you and she takes you for granted. she's takes advantage of your kindness. do you want a friend who acts like a different person around other people. and if she keeps telling people that you do whatever she says then people gonna say that you scared of you. so just leave her and don't give. dam about what she do or say about you.
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16/f, please read, I WILL RATE!
I've been in this group of kids (a clique, in other words) for like 2 years now.This senior girl, Leslie, is the leader of the pack. Me and Leslie have been like best friends the past two years. Right when we met we clicked instantly and had so much in common. (Our goofy, carefree attitudes/behavior, and our all-around silliness.) I should make it clear that although she is a year older than me, we have the same experience level on subjects like drugs and sex-- NOTHING! Neither of us have ever even had like a serious boyfriend, and neither of us have ever even gotten close to drugs. We were SO far away from any of this permiscuous behavior. We were just bopping along not caring what anyone thought of us.
Well, around last spring, when some of our friends were getting ready to graduate, she started like not inviting me to things. If it was like a entire group get-together, somehow the info would never get to me and I wouldnt show up. But I am a member of the group- why is this happening (?)- I didnt know. Why was I missing the info that the whole group had gone to the movies, or that the whole group had hung out at whoever's house? I started missing more and more events with this group- It was getting to the point that I was missing concerts, parties, I mean, I was obviously being deliberately kept in the dark. It was obvious that an effort was being made to make sure I didn't get the word that there was a group event. Why would they do this to me? I was a main member of this clique! Im not like one of those "fringe" members that comes somtimes but not others, I had been a regular and great friends with each member of the group. Well, naturally, as I hung out with this group less and less, I had less and less to talk about with them at school, which caused me to miss even more events. We used to be so tight!
Well, I think I know what the problem is- Leslie started being all concerned about her image. She used to be genuinely laid back and cool- now she upholds an image of a cool, laid back drifter. She cares so much about what other people think- a thing that she used to not care about at all! Who she hung out with started becoming important to her. Now I have found out that she went to a hookah bar last weeked with some kids who have now graduated. Now, she is the type that loves to tell everone about how she hangs out with college kids and how shes done hookah. I feel like she dosn't invite me to hang out anymore because I'm too "immature" for her. No, I havn't had sex or done any drugs. But now she thinks she's all that because she hangs out with a little rougher croud once and a while and has done hookah. Hookah is illegal if you're underage but seriously, it dosn't make you a total badass!
The reason I am posting my problem is because the carnival is in town this weeked, its like the biggest event of the year and all the teenagers go to it- but they havn't invited me. Even when the're not planning on doing anything bad- they dont invite me! So my main problem is that I have lost my social life, and my best friend Leslie is too "mature" (she thinks) to hang out with me anymore! (link)
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well maybe she's growing up. like sometimes people chill with people who are their age. and you should at least know the consequences of being in a so called clique. I think you shouldn't really care about them and do your own thing. so what if you're being left out of the group. you don't need friends because you don't know if they gonna backstabb you in the back. do your own thing and don't worry about anyone but yourself. just know that you're know you better than them so don't worry. they're just b****es who hating on you.
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i like always like seniors. im a sophomore. but ive always liked older guys, but who doesnt right?
But the thing is, ive had a crush on this magnificent guy since last year, hes obviously a senior this year. He's in one of my classes, and I can't like seem to look away from him, and he's caught me staring at him a few times. And I'm like in "love" with him. He is the nicest guy i have met in my lifetime. He is very responsible, he isnt into drugs, or smoking or anything like tht. He takes alot of pride in his schoolwork and does many good school activites. And he is nice to EVERY person i swear. But I know hes got more of a connection with senior girls, and his other friends tht he rather spend time with and talk to. And I think he is really cute, many people dont think he is, but i do. And I mean, im ok, like im a little bit overweight, but im trying to work on tht. I think about this guy like all the fricken time...i cry at night because i know i will like never be with him. But hes just so awesome, i mean yeah i talk to him and stuff, he does the most random gestures, like pats my back if hes walking past me, he talks too but i just like love him, if i cant do anything else, i want to be a really good friend of his, but how do i do tht? hes a senior and im a sophomore...hes in one of my classes, and an afterschool activity. (link)
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well I know that you're like so in love with him. try to be friends with him like talk to him or join the activities that he do. try to be real close friends with him but don't let him know you like him just yet. keep talking to him and try to be close friends almost like his best friends but more than that. tell me how the relationship goes so far.
-hoped I helped:]
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Im a senior this year and i am so close with my best friend jessica, but i started hanging out with my old friends...and im extremely close with them again, and are with them everyday. I still try and call jess and i see her at soccer practices, but she's started acting really bitchy towards me. I have'nt abandoned her...and its not that i dont care or dont love her still but its not really affecting me all that much...but i dont wanna completely lose her...so what do ya think??? (link)
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okay maybe ever since you've been hanging out with your old friends, don't you think jessica would be feeling lonely? she probably feels lonely and like you don't wanna chill with her. when you chill with your old friends, bring jessica along too. introduce her to them. make her feel like you're a true friend.
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Alright, so on Sep. 13th, it'll be me and my boyfriend's 4 month; and I have no idea what to get him!
I've already (in the past) made him a scrapbook of us, I've bought him a gift (necklace), and gave him love quotes. So now what?
Help please!
PS. I have about 5 dollars.
So obviously, I'm on a very low budget. (link)
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get him like a card and write something in there and express your love towards him. or like spend the day with him. tell me how it goes. sorry it's not much but I hoped it gave you some ideas:].
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I'm 14 & a sophmore
so there's this guy I've liked since freshmen year
but he's really concieded obnoxious & loud around every one
but wen we r alone he really nice & a genuine charmer
idk if I should tell him cus idk itd b kinda weird rite (link)
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well it seems like he's the type of guy who wants attention from everyone. he's the center of attention and thinks it's all about him. hey once you tell him you like him, he might be like "I'm sorry I only love myself." like how stupid is that. so you really shouldn't tell. if you do, you might expect the unexpected. and he's obnoxious too and selfish. so move on and find someone better. I know it's been almost a year since you like him but don't hang around one guy all the time unless you're dating him. move on and find someone better.
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There's this guy i know from a long time ago..I was about 7 or 8 years old when i met him and hes like 4 years older than me.I met him beause my little cousin is bestfriends with his little sister.about 5 years ago i went to his house to help my little cousin with a project and he was there.I remember him in his soccer clothes and a soccer ball.He was about 13 or so.HE was actually cute now that i look back on it but i was effin 8!so one day im in the car with his mom and my cousins friend because they were giving me a ride home...and they told em that he was like INLOVE with meeeee since that day he saw me because i was super pretty and that he thought that i was to small and he thought that when i grew up i was gonna be absolutely gorgeous!so i was like shyyy cus I was thinking about barbies at the timee man!but yeah i saw him a few times....5 years passed and i was in a golf cart with my bestfriend and i passed by where he lived not even knowing they still lived thereee...his mom saw me and she was so happy to see e becaue she hadnt seen me like in forever!then i see the most gorgeaous guy i can think of walking back from the mailbox....IT was himmmm!My jaw dropped and I was like in shock of how beautiful he was....NOW HE DOESNT REMEMBER MEEE!he totally forgot..but i added him on myspace and on msn and i didnt wanna be so straight foward.. I was like do you rememberrr me? and we started talking and he still didnt remember..then i go i was dancing to some hilary duff song in your house when i was like 8...he was like oh yeah that was a long time ago...but i cant stop thinking about himmmmm!hes in my mind everywhere i gooo..our families are actually really close..should i tell someone in my family about it?what should i doo?!everywhere i go i think of this dude. (link)
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well first of all sweety, it's all in the past and you shouldn't really get all that into the guy. like I know it's hard to stop thinking about a very hot boy but still if he doesn't remember then he doesn't remember. my advice is to try to get to know him and start off by being friends. but don't get all that into it.
-hoped I help:]
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