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I have a really good friend. We are basically "online" friends, although we go to the same school. The thing is, he is too shy to talk to me in person, what should I do?
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Talk to him first! Go up & say hi & carry on the conversation. I realize he's shy, but there's no reason why you can't initiate a conversation.
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I had a friend like that, and it was better when we were talking alone in person. It can get kind of weird when you're in a group of people. So try to talk to him when nobody else is around and it will be better. Also, he may be secretly in love with you, and that could be a factor in his shyness. Or I could be totally wrong, but don't rule that out. Anyway, it sounds like you two could be great "in person" friends too, and it won't hurt for you to just try to keep talking to him in person.
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Make the first move. Say hi to him ask him how he is doing are you having a good day etc.
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You go up to him and say hi first :) since he's the shy one. I mean you guys are "online" friends but why not be better friends in person?
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Why not just go up and say hi? Since he's the shy one, maybe you should take the initiative. You don't have to expect an extended conversation like you might have online at first, but maybe it'll get the ball rolling on things. If you're that good of friends, i'm sure you can get him to open up in time in person. :)
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