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friendship troubles
ok this may be long im just warning you in advance. ok so im going to be completely honest. i am in no way a perfect or even close to be perfect person. i party, go out, and make mistakes. but lately it seems like i have just been worried about others way more than neccessary and taking crap that i shouldnt. it is mostly just one person. this girl is my best friend. we hang out al the time. but lately i think she is starting to think she can say or do anything and ill let it go. so i drive everywhere she wants to go on the weekends or even during the week. its not like she cant drive she just says she doesnt have the money, although i pay for absolutely everything and she pays for just gas and makes more money than me, but that really doesnt matter. so i take her everywhere and for some reason when she drinks she turns into a totally different person. she will say things at my expense to make me look bad, she will act like and even tell me and others that i do whatever she says, and she is very mean with what she says or does. this is mostly when she drinks but sometimes maybe when she is sober. when it is just me and her she is always like your my best friend i can tell you anything. buut when we are not she totally ignores me. it upsets me alot. i mean reading this may sound worse than what it really is. i usually just let it go. but the last couple weekends i have been crying about it. and for one it is embarrassing and 2 even if she does notice it she acts like its not her fault and everything is fine. i love this girl to death and would do anything for her. but how do i get it across to her what she is doing and do u think she is doing this directly to me or just because she has been drinking? thanks!!!!
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well first of all sweety, your so called best friend is fake. if she acts like a sweet girl in front of you and mean around other people then she's a fake. so what if she's drunk or something, she's just using you and she takes you for granted. she's takes advantage of your kindness. do you want a friend who acts like a different person around other people. and if she keeps telling people that you do whatever she says then people gonna say that you scared of you. so just leave her and don't give. dam about what she do or say about you.
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