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Do i still love him?
oh okay, this my story i need help on.
last year i dated this guy who is two years older than me, well this guy is VERY inexpereince NO joke, so well anyways it was only a week a lasted because he didnt come up to me at school, which he does to all his girlfriends becuase he doesnt know how to approach a gril GAY i know well anyways, this summer he came over to my cousins and we made out and it was his FIRST ever kiss. GAYER i know, well anyways were talking but the thing is HE LOVES!!!! to talk to other girls to but he doesnt get close to them like that. now i had asked him if i was wasting my time and well yeah im he said so i told him that i was talking to another guy so it wouldnt look like i was heart broken and stupid and now im talking to that guy VERY UNEXPECTANT!! well now im still stuck on it. becuase the very inexpereince boy goes to the gym every morning bc he loves to play basketball and well i have gym 1st period so im there wiht my friends, well anyways he gives me a look like he wants to get back but idkk he so so so so SOOOOOOO EFFIN. confusing, i dont know if i should talk to him again even if he did break my heart. so yeah, and that guy that i didnt think i was going to talk to after he is so sweet, and we are "offcially talking" but i had LOVE and i absoulety LOVED the inexpereince guy for the most longest time and i dont know if im over him. gahhhh I posted a question called a "a year long fling or a year wasted" and well i got my answer when i asked him but he is so confusing.
gahhhh i dont know what to do at ALL!!!!!
Help me out please.
-cheergirl0811
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I think you should feel very priviledged since you gave this guy his first kiss.
I don't know about everyone else, but nowadays I find every guy has had at least one girl, and it shows in some ways he has respect to not go around kissing every girl he sees.
So to find a beautiful inexperienced guy is to me, a special person to find.
Who do you prefer the most? The guy you're talking to now, or the inexperienced ex?
Whoever you see yourself with more, and the one your heart is drawn to is the direction you should go in.
You're lucky to be able to pick! But also if it's all too confusing for you, just move away from both, stay single for a bit, and find the one for you where there are no "what if's/buts".
Xo
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oh yeah. I've been here. As a matter of a fact I AM here and just posted a similar question. But I have some advice we should both probably follow.
Look around. You're single! there are TONNNNNNZ of guys just dying for a girl like you that will treat you 10 times better. I know, I don't want to believe it either. And it probably feels like all you will ever want is him. But think about it. I bet you met him pretty easily. Imagine if you put forth a lot of effort to find a guy. IMAGINE what you'd find. I think I'm going to try this next week. You honestly should too.
another thing that should help is try to either just be friends with him, or push him out of your life completely.
I know it hurts. And you still want him to be there, but if you want to move on I suggest it. If not why not try with him again!?
See if it turns out he likes you! You only have one life to live. Don't let teenage break ups keep you from further loving. :)
Hope I helped in the teensy tinyest bit. <3
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Maybe you possibly have "I want what I can't have syndrome" but that is okay becasue you have all of your life you're young you will meet plenty of guys to fall i love with. I wouldn't advise you to put yourself out there to get into a bad situation becasue the whole reason for the dimise of your relationship was on him. I'd try to be happy with this new guy at least try whole heartedly and if it doesn't work then express your feelings to old home boy.
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well I think you do because sometimes when you look at the person that you absolutely love and you're not with them right now, then deep down inside of you,you still have feelings for him and I know you do. it's hard to let go of someone you love. but does your heart tells you that you're still in love with him? follows your feelings. but since you loved him and it's hard to let go and you look at the person,you start having those feelings you once had for them again but sometimes things don't always work out the same as the first time. so I think you do still have feelings for but you're just unsure. try talking to him as friends again and see of anything happens again.
-I hoped I helped or at least gave you ideas :).
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