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i need out
16/m
hi there.my problem is that i need to break up with this girl . i have been going out with her for about 6 months but i do not feel the same feelings for her that i had before. this is the first time i have had a girlfriend so i am not sure how i should go about doing it. i realy have to do it soon as she realy likes me but i do not like her and i cannot let this continue, i want to do it in the easiest way. i do not want her to get hurt though i know that would be quite impossible. any help here please. thanks for any advice
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I would just tell her exactly how you feel. Be really nice and supportive if she starts getting sad or cries and tell her you can still be friends. Hope this helps!
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However you do it, she will still be hurt. but it's better to be truthful and let her get over it, than be stuck in a relationship you don't even want.
What you need to do is just tell the truth. Tell her you don't feel the same any more and you don't want the relationship to continue. Don't feed her the "it's not you, it's me" crap and don't do anything to piss her off. You owe it to her to do a respectable break up. It's the least you can do.
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Dude- been there and done that.
What I suggest you do is next time you see her in person [or if you don't see her in person often, next time you talk online or on the phone] just be honest with her and tell her that you don't have the same feelings for her.
It's perfectly alright for that to happen- it's normal. Sure she can be mad all she wants, but you can't help how you feel, right?
If you try to send signals to her, it won't work. Just say what you're feeling and it will be easier than making up excuses.
--Jack
(16/m)
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i would talk to her about
it first just to see if
the break up can be mutural...
but i would reccommend leting
her down easy just tell her how
you feel....see if you can be just
friends *if your up for that*
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The best way to breakup with her would be to let her own gently, and that you can or would like to remain friends. That way she knows that you still care about her and that you dont want to hurt her. Of course she will be hurt but she will be grateful that you care enough to worry about how she will take it.
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Hi, either way she is going to get hurt anyway I am 16 and I am a girl and I think the easiest way for you not to hurt her would be to tell her you think it would be better if you were friends and whatever you do don't stop talking to her all together! that hurts bad so tell her you think you would be better as friends and talk to her like once a day then bump it down to three times a week then less if u want and all together stop talking to her if that's what you want. but I hope I helped and good luck!
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