I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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OKay well theres this guy and i went out w/ him for i guess about 5 mouths then i got kinda scared becuz we got so close and im scared to get close to people so i broke up w/ him. and i still love him. i want to tell him in person (ive already have online) but it seems like ever sence i broke up w/ him he doesnt care like all his friends he doesnt talk to. my friend pointed it out to me and i feel sooo bad. i realli want to talk to him but i dont no how. im not normaly shy around guys half my friends are guys and i get all shy and shaky around him its realli weird but can anyone help?
Sorry its so long. (link)
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It sounds as though you have very strong feelings for this guy and when you have run away from feelings like yours for so long, you're bound to feel shy and nervous and shakey when you're faced with an opportunity to confront them.
I can understand why you're reluctant to get close to him. After all, when we've been hurt in the past (as I assume you have) it's difficult to accept the idea of becoming so vulnerable again. However, if we don't risk being vulnerable, we never get the chance to know true happiness. There's an old saying that great love means great risk and it's very true.
Try to meet up with him somewhere you know you won't be interrupted and you can have his full attention. Then tell him why you broke up with him. Explain whatever it was that happened to you in the past that made you so scared to be with him and that in spite of that, you know now that you would rather risk being hurt again than to carry on without him.
If he's half as miserable as he sounds, he may be a little unsure about getting back together. After all, he's been hurt now too but if he really cares, and it sounds like he does, I don't think there will be a problem.
Good luck.
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okay well this is kinda gross but i always have discharge like before and after my period and like it doesnt go away like its probably even there when im on my period.. i've had my period for about 1½ yrs. if that helps at all.. like can you tell me like if theres a way to get rid or it or like why i have it so much please? ill rate high. (link)
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Don't worry. This discharge is a perfectly normal part of growing up and it's a natural fluid your body produces. As long as it is clear or a pale white colour, you have no reason to worry. However, if it becomes particularly thick or produces an offensive smell, you should see your GP to ensure everything is okay 'down there.'
The bad news is that although this discharge is completely normal, you're stuck with it.
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ok well every month when i get my period i get EXTREMELY sick. I'm talking the works. I throw up almost everytime more than once and have killer killer cramps. I must have tried every medicine there is out there. I know people say to take it the night before but I never have any idea when its coming because im still irregular. I have to stay home at least one day from school every month and i cant take it anymore. Does anyone know any way to stop this, anything would be appreciated.
Thanks =)
I rate high (link)
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You'd be surprised how many women suffer the same every month! Obviously experiences differ. For example, I get a really bad headache the day I get my period. Others do get sick with it. Some people get dizzy and so on.
The best thing you can do is to see your doctor and get yourself put on The Pill. Although it's primary use is as a contraceptive, it also can be used to control periods and PMT. The chances are you are getting so ill every month because you are irregular. There are a lot of different pills out there so it may take a while to find one that suits you but as you do sound like your suffering quite badly, it's a good idea to get it sorted as soon as possible.
As a side note, make sure you drink more water than normal in the few days before you think you might get your period. The reason you get cramps is because your body is trying to push out blood clots from that area. Drinking more water should help to thin the blood a little and help it pass through more easily.
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What would you do if one of your close friends was dating a guy she really likes and he tells you that he has feelings for you instead? Would you tell your friend?
I did. I knew it would hurt her but it just wouldnt be right if they continued dating and I knew that while he's with her, he has feelings for me. It wouldnt be fair to her.
But instead of her thanking me for looking out for her, it seems as if she thinks I'm trying to keep them apart, as if Im lying or something.
The guys sister, who is also a close friend of mine as well, doesnt believe me either. Everyone thinks I'm lying, but the thing is, I have proof. Everything he said to me was by text and I didnt delete them yet.
I dont understand them. Im not the type of person who would make things up. I wouldnt try to mess up someones relationship for no reason. But I'm still viewed as the bad person.. and honestly, it really hurts me to know that none of my friends believe me. My friend knows that I'm not lying though because I've read her the text messages.. yet, Im still viewed as wrong. And even still, she continues to date him knowing that the damn guy has feelings for me. I dont know how anyone would settle for a person who has feelings for another person at the same time. Its just stupid..
I really need advice because its really hurting me to know that these girls do not see that Im only trying to be a true friend..
(By the way, the guy, he is a cool guy. We got along well, prior to when he told me he liked me. But I never ever viewed him as someone Id try to get with because I already have a man in my life that I love and who I only want to be with. So I dont want anyone to think that the reason I told her was because Im trying to get with him.. which even she may already think.)
Thank you for any advice.
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It's a very tricky situation.
The only reason why neither of these girls believe you is that both of them are too close to the guy in question.
His sister wouldn't want to believe that he is capable of trying to hit on someone else when he is going out with another girl. If they are relatively close siblings, she will always stick up for him over a friend. I know it's not very nice and it's silly to back up someone when you have proof that they were in the wrong, but it's just how some people can be.
As for his girlfriend, my guess is that she really likes him a lot. Because of this, it's easier to convince herself that you are a liar and that he would never do that to her, than to accept the idea he's not this great guy she thinks he is.
The bad news is there's not really a lot more you can do to convince them because it's down to the guy. He knows the truth and he's standing there, letting you take all this without doing anything to stop it. Or perhaps he doesn't know? If he doesn't know what's going on, you need to have a chat to him about it if you can. Tell him that nothing could ever happen between the two of you and that you're not happy that he's told you this when he's going out with your friend because he's put you in a very awkward position.
It's nice that he's said he has feelings for you, because it takes a lot of courage to tell someone that. But you were right to tell your friend because I can't imagine most people would want to be with a guy who chases another girl while with them. However, she appears to have made her choice and there's nothing you can do about it now. Eventually, she will come round but it will take some time.
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Why is it that when I shave my legs I can still see dark small circles where the hair used to be?
Is there any way to make them stop appearing?
Does this happen to anyone else?
Please help. (link)
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This will be ingrown hairs. Annoying as anything but they can be beaten! Get yourself a body brush and use it to exfoliate your legs once a day. Follow it with a good moisturiser and you should notice the dark circles start to disappear.
Any particularly stubborn hairs can be removed with the aid of a good set of tweexers, Just be careful not to pinch too much skin!
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ok can someone please help me, i am at a total lose of knowledge here. so when you get car insurance you pay like every couple of months right? so when youi buy a car do you have like monthly payments for that too? and when you see like one of those cars on the side of the road that say 'for sale' do you only pay the flat fee to the seller, or do you pay monthly somehow?
i need all the info anyone and everyone can give, please! (link)
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I actually work for a motor insurer! When you buy a car, it depends on where you buy it from and whether you buy it all in one go. If you buy it from a dealership, you can arrange to pay it off in installments which you would pay once a month, probably with a bit of interest on top. If you bought on the private market (i.e-roadside or from a paper), you would need to pay the whole lot in one go. However, make sure you get someone who knows a lot about cars to check it over BEFORE you hand the money over and that the correct paperwork is signed and sent off. I don' know whether you are in the UK or the US but in the UK, it is the new owners responsibility to ensure the paperwork is passed to the DVLA.
As far as insuring a vehicle goes, you need to have all of the details for the vehicle (engine size, make, model, year it was first registered etc)because they will need all this to calculate your annual premium. Make sure you get a lot of different quotes from a lot of companies, because some of them charge ridiculously high premiums for younger drivers. Once you reach 25 in the UK, the premium goes down but before that it tends to be very high. Also check to see if they do quotes online because some companies offer a discount when you purchase your insurance online.
When it comes to paying your premium, you can choose whether to pay it annually or in monthly installements. If you pay monthly, there will be an interest added to the premium so you will end up paying extra over time but it lessens the burden of raising the money to pay the premium in time.
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In a few weeks, I will be autitioning for my school's talent show. I want to sing. I want a sing a song sung by a female. But here's the catch. I want it to be an oldie's song. Like a classic that everyone knows. Any advice on what song to sing? (link)
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I Only Want To Be With You - Dusty Springfield
Baby Love - The Supremes
Crazy - Tammy Wynette
Stand By Your Man - Tammy Wynette
Downtown - Petula Clark
Secret Love - Doris Day
Always Something There To Remind Me - Sandie Shaw
Depending on how good your voice is, I think Stand By Your Man would probably be a very good choice as it shows off your voice at a range of different octaves.
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My best friend always has an attitude so everytime I want to do something with someone else she gets all mad. We just got back campping with each other and she didn't do nothing but have an attitude with me and she blames me on everthing,but she kept hanging out with this other girl. It was by b-day yesterday and were soposed to do something together, but I didn't want to because she was getting on my nerves so I told her I don't want to do nothing.Then she e-mailed me saying fine I wanted to do something else anyway and didn't even say happy b-day!
What should i do?
Should we still be friends? (link)
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For some reason, there is obviously a huge problem in your friendship. Personally, I believe it's best to try to resolve these before abandoning a friendship because good friends are very hard to come across.
It seems that your friend has a real issue with you right now. It might just be that something is bothering her and she is taking it out on you (psychology suggests that we hurt the people we care about because we know we can vent our anger on them and we can trust that they should never leave us as a result), or it could be that she's directly upset with you for doing or saying something you didn't even realise would upset her.
On the other hand, of course, she could just be being unreasonable and ill tempered for a hundred other reasons and my point is that you really need to talk to her about it. Face to face, so that she can't block you or ignore you. Let her know that you think she's changed and she seems to be so moody with you all the time now so you're worried that something might be upsetting her. If she insists that everything is fine and you believe this is true, you might want to rethink being friends with her. Should you decide you no longer wish to be her friend, just tell her than you can't be friends with her if she's going to treat you do badly all the time.
Finally, I would like to wish you a very happy (belated) birthday! I hope it was a good one in spite of everything.
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Ok, so this is really gross but I've had diarreah (sp?) for a week and about 2 days now. And also, on Friday I've had really bad nausea (sp?) and I don't know. Bad nausea and diarreah.. what is this? I'm really worried about it though. Please answer. (link)
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It sounds like a bad stomach bug. There are quite a few going round at the moment and they can be very nasty. Don't take anything for the diarrhoea, as the infection needs to get out of your body. Drink plenty of water so you don't become dehydrated and to help flush it out of you. If it's not gone in another day or two, I would recommend you see your GP for further advice.
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Hey. I've been a veggietarian for nine months now, and I've changed so much. I am so malnurished and I'm having like a million mental break downs. I've become really sad and angry. I wanted to stop being a veggie but its so hard! I wont eat meat or i'll start like crying...well not really but ill feel really sad and become moody. im also really malnaurished cause im allergic to a lot and cause im kosher. i need advise from a veggie or someone who once was one. thanx to anyone who can help! by the way...incase you wanna like address me in ur note back my names joey f/! thanx!!
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I've been vegetarian for nearly 13 years now and also suffer from Coeliac Disease (allergy to gluten, found in wheat, oats, barley and rye).
I have to admit, it can be very difficult to ensure you have a healthy diet and it's a lot more difficult if you have other restrictions imposed on you because of allergy or religion.
Make sure you have a balanced and varied diet. You haven't said what you are allergic to but there are alternatives to most foods available in stores, in prescription or in special health food shops. Make sure you try to have 5 portions of fruit or veg a day, either by having some salad or rice with vegetables, fruit smoothies, soups, or just having the fruit or veg by itself. Also try to eat nuts if you can. Nuts contain complex carbohydrates and essential fatty acids which you need to have in your diet. Eat around 4-5 portions of dairy a day, to ensure you have protein and calcium. Eggs are very good for you and if you can, make sure you drink plenty of milk. If you can't drink milk, try a lactose free alternative like rice milk or soya but try to find ones that are fortified with calcium.
On top of all this, try to find a supplement. It's not as good as the real thing but it's always a good idea for vegetarians to take one. Find a good supplement that covers all of the essential vitamins and minerals such as Vitamins A,B,C and D, Zinc, Copper, Iron, Magnesium, etc.
Make sure you try this for at least 3-4 months to give the supplements a chance to work. If you still feel ill, speak to your doctor who might be able to refer you to a nutritionist and/or a dietician. They will be able to assess you and make sure your diet is as balanced and sufficient as possible.
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i gave a guy my number a couple days ago, and he called that night, and the next two days. we have had a really good time talking. he said we should hang out today, and said he'd call around noon. he didnt call until 5'o clock and i didnt pick it up because i was kinda mad that he didnt call when he said he would. but really, i do want to talk to him. should i call him back or wait for him to call again? (link)
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If this is the first time has hasn't called when he said he would, I think it's a better idea to let it go for now. Some guys like to 'play it cool' and don't call you on time because they think it will make you more eager to talk to them when they do call. On the other hand, it might just be something held him up and he couldn't call when he said he would.
Whatever the reason, you should give him the benefit of the doubt on this occasion. See how it goes. If he apologises for not calling when he said he would, dismiss the whole thing completely. He might just be one of the good guys.
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I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on a walk with my friend and saw him there playing soccer and he was like flirting a little and smiled at me alot. Then when i got home we talked again for like an hour. so what im asking is does he like me, is he interested, was he just shy in school, because im really shy and wasnt about to go up to him like we were really good friends, so maybe hes the same? Well srry its so long please help! (link)
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My guess from your description is that he really likes you. It's a lot easier to be confident and outgoing when you're speaking to someone over the internet and not looking at them face to face, especially if you're very shy. This is one reason why online dating is so popular!
One of you will need to make the first move and unfortunately, I think it will need to be you! Next time you see him at school, just walk up to him, say hi and try striking up a conversation. Make sure that you come up with something to talk about beforehand, to avoid any awkward silences but I'm willing to bet that once you start talking, it will be easier than you think. As both of you are quite shy, don't be put off by the odd awkward lull in conversation. This is perfectly normal.
Before long, you'll manage to form a good friendship which can stay as it is or can progress into a relationship, if you wish it to do so.
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i was recently raped and im scared. the guy who raped me..was my bedt friends boyfriend (shes 14 hes 15 turning 16) and im scared. i have nightmares about it and im afraid to go to sleep..i keep getting calls that have perverted breathing for like 15 seconds then he hangs up i havent told anyone..and im SCARED!! he threatend to kill me and my family..what should i do?? (link)
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You have GOT to go to the police. I know it's a terrifying thought and it's so scary to think that he might hurt someone but think about it this way. If you don't stand up and do something about this, he's going to do the same thing to more girls and make them feel the way you do right now.
Make sure you tell your parents first. They have to know that something like this has happened to their daughter and you will need their support with going to the police because it won't be an easy experience for you. Because you didn't go to the police straight away, there will be no DNA evidence but if he didn't use protection, you need to be checked out for any infection, disease or pregnancy and again, you will need your parents support through this.
I doubt VERY much that he will do anything to harm your family. He is going to be using that as a threat to prevent you from reporting to the police. Call his bluff and do it. For your safety as much as anyone elses. When you do go to the police, tell them about the telephone calls. They might be able to trace the number and block it. If it comes from him, he can also be charged with harassment, as well as rape.
I am so so sorry that this has happened to you but now that it has, you can't let him get away with it. I know that it's tough because he's your best friend's boyfriend. But how do you know he hasn't done this to her? Also, if he can treat you this way, who knows how long it will be before he does treat he like that? You need to help yourself and other girls by doing something about it. You CAN be strong and you CAN report him to the police. Please be brave. Too many people get away with this. Don't be another victim.
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how can i tunr a guy down easily like because hes really cool but i dont like him that way i dont want to hurt his feelings because hes like sensitve like that
please help
brittany (link)
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It's never easy to turn a guy down for a date because a lot of guys have such fragile egos and it's difficult not to hurt their feelings.
Explain to him that although you like him as a friend, you just don't think you could be any more than that. Reassure him that he's a nice guy and that you don't like that you have to turn him down but it wouldn't have been fair to lead him on and let him think you were interested when you weren't.
As long as you don't think it will have a negative impact on your friendship, tell him that you hope he won't be upset and you really want to still be friends, if he's okay with that.
Then all you need to do is make sure that you don't wave any future boyfriends in his face by accident!
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My boyfriend of about 4 months, now ignores me on a regular basis. I ask him if something is going on, and he claims that he "is in love" with me and doesn't ignore me on purpose.
I'm thinking that he wants to break up, but everytime I try to talk to him about it, he assures me that nothing is wrong, and that he would never ever want to break up with me.
But, I'm getting different vibes. Should I just break up with him than deal with this? Because I'm about to. (link)
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One of the biggest problems with men, according to a mass percentage of all women, is that they don't communicate their feelings or thoughts effectively. Most women are happy for men to know how they feel at any point, whereas men prefer to lock all their emotions away and this makes it difficult to ever know what is going on in their heads.
The chances are that his ignorance may not have anything to do with you at all. Because, by nature, he wouldn't talk about anything that's bothering him, there could be any number of issues troubling his life. There could be work/school/family problem. He won't talk to you about them but they could still be there and by trying to find out whether or not he's happy with you on such a regular basis, you're encouraging what is known as a 'Self-fulfilling Prophecy'. In other words, you talking to him persistently about your fears he may break up with you could, in fact, encourage him to break up with you.
The best thing you can do right now is to try to bring the focus back to you for a while. Take him out somewhere, do something fun. Try to get him laughing. Then, after a while (by this I mean a week or so because any sooner could make it worse), let him know that you are worried because he's seemed very distracted for a while and you're concerned that something is bothering him that he's not talking to you about.
If he says nothing is wrong and you believe that he's being genuine, then his ignorance of you is very likely something that isn't going to change and then you need to make the decision whether or not to let him go. My feeling is that if he's not changed by this point and there's nothing wrong, there's no fulfilling future in the relationship for you and you would be better of finding someone who is worthy of your time and deserves to have you as a girlfriend, as he clearly does not.
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hey my name is frances i am 19 i recently broke up with my boyfriend, and i did the most stupid thing in the world when i met him to give back his stuff. i slept with him and all my feelings came pouring back just when i thought i was going to be able to move on. i told him i felt used so that he could get what he wanted he told me that hurt him to think that he would use me. but that is how i feel because when we met he told me i was beautiful and that he never for meant fo this to happen( we were b/f g/f, for two years) and he said everything that he has always said to me so i gave in and we had sex at his place now i feel used and he says that he did not use me that he does care about me. how can i get over him. i dont have alot of friends becuase well that is another story so no one to hang out with and i am always at work and constantly thinking about him it gets bad at night when i am at home alone. please help i just want to be happy again. (link)
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Clearly you and your boyfriend broke up for a reason. Now, I don't know what that is so I don't know if he cheated on you or if you drifted apart or if you just couldn't be together any more but if it's something you think you can work through (provided he didn't cheat on you/physically harm you) then there's no reason you couldn't give it another shot.
That being said, it's implied in your problem that you would rather get over him than get back together with him. This is something which is far harder to do and possibly the reason why so many women get back with men that are no good for them. If he's treated you badly, you don't want to be one of those women.
The only thing I can suggest is that you try to create as many harmless distractions for yourself as possible. Take some courses with your local adult learning centre or do some extra curricular activities. Join a club. By doing one or more of these, you will not only be giving yourself something to think about besides him, you'll be achieving something, which will boost your self esteem and you'll be meeting new people, which will help your self confidence.
It WILL be hard and I'm sorry to say that nothing will make this any easier (except possibly ice cream and a myriad of other tasty treats that are havoc for the waistline) but at least finding other things to occupy your mind will help you to stop thinking about him all the time and will help you find the confidence and peace to move on.
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So I have this friend, she moved away like a month ago. and we talk online. She can be cool at some times, but then after a while on our conversation, she can act like someone else.
I dont like it, and it bothered me. I said something to her about it, and she started to cuss at me and everything. I told her I don't want to be friends who will treat me like that. And she was like "Fine, whatever"
So I signed off, and just forgot about her. Then she called my house from Long Distance, crying saying how sorry she is, and she wants to be friends. I accepted her apology and we were friends. Then when we chatted online she did everything all over again.
But this time, I told her I don't really think we should be friends if she is going to act "different" And she called my cell phone 10 times in a row. She calls & hangs up. and did the same thing 9 other times. It got me pissed off. She left me messages on this one site saying "I'm so sorry, let's my friends again."
How do I get her to get the point that I don't want to be friends with her, if she doesn't change?
May I add, she yells at me for hanging out with my 'other' friends, then her. She makes me feel like as if she wants me all to herself. (link)
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Obviously this girl has a problem with something and whether it's you or something else is unknown but my guess would be that she is quite badly jealous of the friendship you have with your other friends that she can no longer have with you. Chances are she might also be hving difficulties making friends where she lives now and for this reason, is finding it harder to let go of the friends she once had.
This being said, nothing excuses her behaviour towards you and I can fully understand your reluctance to continue the friendship. Sadly, it seems she, on the other hand, is finding it a little harder.
Somehow, whether it be by letter, e-mail, text or phone, you need to relay to her that you are not prepared to continue the friendship due to her irrational, jealous and posessive behaviour and that you can't trust her promises that it won't be repeated, as these have been broken previously. Therefore, you would like her to stop calling and texting you, at least until she realises that she cannot treat you this way. It just isn't what friends do.
It's up to you whether after this you want to give her one more chance but I would recommend that if you do, you make it her last chance, after which point you cease all communication with her.
I know it sounds harsh but if you really want to get the point across that she can't treat you like this, you have to be strong.
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My mother and I have jsut started talking about a year ago. She was with a man I did not like and she choose him over me after he crossed a few lines that should have never been crossed. Well everytime I have something important come up like surgery or graduating from something she does not show up. She makes these big excuses and blames everyone else for her not showing up. Now I understand that she lives 12 hours away from me, but when she is offered a free trip up here with someone else I think she should take it. Ever since my little girl was born my mother has only seen her 4 times. I feel like I'm the one that has done something wrong. Should I feel this way? How can I tell her that she is hurting me and don't even act like it bothers her? I'm very confussed and feel like I"m the one to blame for her acting this way. Could you please help!!!!!!! (link)
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There could be a great many reasons for your Mother's behaviour but I think it's perfectly fair to view it as unacceptable, especially in view of the presence of a Grandchild.
Regardless of what happened all that time ago with the man she was with, you are still her daughter and she is still your Mother. What happened then shouldn't destroy what you could have now and she needs to understand this. Unfortunately, as we get older, it's easier to become set in our ways and the chances are, she might feel ashamed of her actions at the time but is too proud to do anything about it.
Whatever her feelings, you both need to sit down, face to face and discuss it. If you feel she needs to at least see more of her Grandchild, you should tell her that. You have EVERY right to be hurt and to feel what I can imagine to be severe betrayal that she sided with this man after what happened. You should tell her that you feel betrayed and hurt.
However, you need to be sure you are ready to tell her all this because it sounds as though she's trying to bury everything that happened back then in her mind by avoiding it and she may not like the past being dug up again. Judge what you do and say very carefully but I do think it needs to be said, at least for your sake.
Good luck.
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okay so about two weeks ago my cat starting having diheria. i got medicine for him and its not helping! he has horrible diheria and is vomiting. he doesn't hold his food at all! and whatever he does digest he gets diheria. he use to be very heavy now he is soo light. i need help, what could be possible wrong with him? he is turning 10 years old in august. he acts like a kittin and is obsessed with string. he doesnt act or look his age.
i need help with this. (link)
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It's possible that maybe there's something wrong with his liver perhaps? If he's still urinating properly then I doubt it's anything to do with the kidneys.
Really what you need to do is take him back to the vet. If the medicine isn't working and he's losing weight, it's something wrong internally and it might be he's on the wrong medication.
Rather than feeding him normal cat food at the moment, try giving him real chicken or fish, as these are quite plain compared to processed cat food and may be easier for him to digest.
Just make sure you get him back to the vet as soon as possible. I really hope he's okay.
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Hello,
I am a 14 year old guy...
...I realized I liked my best friend for the 3rd time around Valentine's Day. So, I told her that I liked her, and she said, "No offense, but you need to get over me,". Well, since then, we've barely said a word to each other. My friends have been trying to get her to say something to me, so she did after I gave her a birthday card. I asked her to talk about what had been going on between us, and she said, and I quote,
"Not to be a beyotch, but I just don't feel like talking to you. I don't think we have the connection we used to have,"
After that, I was so upset. I didn't know what do to... I'm still upset, as she now has a boyfriend who is a complete jerk to me. What should I do??? (link)
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It's really awful when this sort of thin happens because, truth be told, there's not a lot you can do.
I understand that you like this girl a lot and by the sounds of it, you have done for a while but she really doesn't sound like a particularly nice person and she's not being a very good friend to you either. Given this situation, the only thing you will be able to do is to write it off as a bad experience and let it all go. Easier said than done, I know but she isn't worth your time and by the sounds of it, you are a nice guy who can do a lot better than that.
Your best bet is to steer clear of the both of them. Avoid them as much as possible. They seem to have the very wrong idea about you and this is the only way you will be able to convince them otherwise.
In the meantime, please don't be too upset. There will be many other girls out there who will truly appreciate you and the wonderful person you are. You just need to get out there and find them.
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