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Whats up with her?
My best friend always has an attitude so everytime I want to do something with someone else she gets all mad. We just got back campping with each other and she didn't do nothing but have an attitude with me and she blames me on everthing,but she kept hanging out with this other girl. It was by b-day yesterday and were soposed to do something together, but I didn't want to because she was getting on my nerves so I told her I don't want to do nothing.Then she e-mailed me saying fine I wanted to do something else anyway and didn't even say happy b-day!
What should i do?
Should we still be friends?
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For some reason, there is obviously a huge problem in your friendship. Personally, I believe it's best to try to resolve these before abandoning a friendship because good friends are very hard to come across.
It seems that your friend has a real issue with you right now. It might just be that something is bothering her and she is taking it out on you (psychology suggests that we hurt the people we care about because we know we can vent our anger on them and we can trust that they should never leave us as a result), or it could be that she's directly upset with you for doing or saying something you didn't even realise would upset her.
On the other hand, of course, she could just be being unreasonable and ill tempered for a hundred other reasons and my point is that you really need to talk to her about it. Face to face, so that she can't block you or ignore you. Let her know that you think she's changed and she seems to be so moody with you all the time now so you're worried that something might be upsetting her. If she insists that everything is fine and you believe this is true, you might want to rethink being friends with her. Should you decide you no longer wish to be her friend, just tell her than you can't be friends with her if she's going to treat you do badly all the time.
Finally, I would like to wish you a very happy (belated) birthday! I hope it was a good one in spite of everything.
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You guys sound like you spend TOO much time together. Sure, you should still be friends with her if she WANTs to hang out with you, but if she's getting too attatched, then try making more plans with other friends, or better yet, trying including her in the plans!
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perhaps you two have been spending to much time with each other. give each other some space for a while and after things have cooled off for a bit, talk to her and see if she wants to meet up and do something that you both used to enjoy doing together! you will get a shock with how much fun you will have. i hope this helps, if not leave me a messege in my inbox! xx luv
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