Hello I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question but i find my boyfriends body a little weird and wanted to see if this is rare or if it happens in some men.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We can only have sex one time a night as my boyfriend says it takes 24 hours for his sperm to build up again. I have been with other guys and this has never been the case with them. If he tries to do it again before the 24 hours and he does come it takes ages and then he feels ill for the rest of theday. Could there be somethng the matter with him and should he get medical advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Vikki27 answered Thursday March 30 2006, 6:16 am: It doesn't take 24 hours for sperm to build up again in a man's body. ANY man's body. However, after a man has ejaculated once, it can be more difficult to do it again, as it can leave them quite sore afterwards and very sensitive. When I say sensitive, I don't mean in a good way! Obviously this is not the same for all men but it certainly sounds as though this is what is happening to your boyfriend.
As for the feeling ill, I'm afraid I can't work out a connection. Loss of sperm wouldn't make him feel ill at all so I can't see a reason for this. It may be that making love more than once over-exerts him and this is why he feels ill.
Personally, I'm not sure that there is a medical problem that needs to be investigated as it mostly sounds very normal. However, if you do have concerns, it is always best to talk it over with a doctor to be on the safe side. Especially when it concerns the reproductive system, as men aren't always as careful as they should be about looking after this part if something might be wrong. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
kristen22 answered Monday March 27 2006, 5:28 pm: 24 hours for the sperm count to build up again? lol! Whats going on wit him is some ppl can only "put out" once a night like no kiddin that's there limit... Nothings wrong wit him. Dont pressure him to give you any more than that yes it can make you feel bad if you try to do it to much. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Monday March 27 2006, 10:33 am: I've never heard the 24-hour thing before; it's certainly not true for all men, or even most of them.
It wouldn't be a bad idea for him to talk to his doctor, but don't nag him about it or force him to - that definitely WON'T improve your sex life. Once a night is still pretty good, and it would be a pity to ruin what you've got by asking for more.
Still, if you can raise the suggestion that he should talk to his doctor without upsetting him, it might be worth a try.
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