about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

What do you guys think of the idea of having sex with your ex boyfriend that you are thinking about getting back together with?

I just want to know if y'all think its a good idea or not and why.

Background info:
It was a nutural break up
We broke up becasue we kind of just got sick of each other
It was getting too serious for me (not him)
He was my first
I wasn't his first
We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
And we do entend on getting back together...eventually


i'm 17/f and he's 19/m

i dont know if i meet your requirements( i am 14) but anyways i think it is really up to you. if you like him a lot then do it. but i think you should kinda hold of until you really DO get back together so it would seem like he is using you for a one night stand. because in reality he can get a girlfriend (that isnt you) right after you guys have sex. but hey this is just my opinon. the best thing you should do is follow your heart and do whatever feels right to you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you get pictures on your advice column?

you can do it a couple ways.
one go to photbucket and upload the piture to there and then get the URL
two http://imageshack.us/ upload ur picture from that site
three http://www.tinypic.com/

were ever you chioice you upload it and get the URL and then go to profile setting and put in the URL you got for it. hope this helps. if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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My sound isn't working on my computer and It hasn't since last night, what could be wrong?

go on your toolbar and look for an icon that looks like a speak and click on it and see if the volume is up. if it is check to make sure it is plugged in. if that still doesnt work restart your computer. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?!

it happened because you body is changing and because your still going through puberty and you body is slowly devloping and that is why you are getting what your getting. dont worry about it will eb ok. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i like this girl who is a junior and im a sophmore but this other girl likes me and she keeps asking who i like. i dont want to tell the girl that likes me that i like someone else and hurt her feelings but that might be the only way out. what do u think i should do?

well i think you should tell her nto to burst her buble or anything but if you keep it away from her and she find out it will only hurt worse. and you shouldnt be leading her on. letting her think she has a chance if you already like someone else. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay there is this guy, my friend was like "would you ever go out with her?"

talk to him more. get him to get to know you more. flirt with him a lot. try to be all over him while flirtin with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do i make a guy like me?? they guy i like told my friend "idk maybe" when she was seeing if he would ever go out with me. what does idk maybe mean? if im not quite there, HOW DO I GET THERE?? Ill rate 5's for good answers.

just BE URSELF. dont be anythign your not. you should let a guy like you for who you are nto what your not. if he likes a little from what it sound like he does. then keep doing what your doing and you will be great. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Are ceramic hair straighteners better for your hair than regular straighteners?

yes they are better but you kno in the end it still DAMAGES your hair.
*~Stephanie*~

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Hey okay heres the deal , i want to make my hair like scrunched/wavy but i dont want to use roller things cause they break my hair to much. What should i use to scrunch it ?? By the wayy my hair is super straight naturally.

what you can do when you scrunch it is when it is all striaght and wet take a blow dry and like move it all around and then when it gets a lil dry put some gel in it and scrunch by pushing the hair up and keep doing that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK there is this guy(lets say his name is X) who is going to ask me out. I like him a little bit but theres this other guy(name:O) I like love. I dont kno if the guy I love likes me but we are best friends...Should I say yes to X or wait for O...b/c if O doesnt like me I dont want to be alone b/c I said no to X...What should I do?

you NEED to fallow your heart and do whatever you feel is right. dont go with a guy if you really dont like him as much as you think you do. hope this helps you out and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just wondered this.

I answer questions, and its getting interesting. The people who generally need answers the most are the immature ones. But when you give them an honest answer, they reject it, and rate you a 1.

Example is this question, asked by a stupid little girl in the pinnacle of her selfish years. She wants to know what she should do because she wants to hook up with a boy who has a girlfriend

http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=376325 Thats the URL. Feel free to respond to it.

I couldnt care less about my rating, but its the response the rating means that kinda bugs. Dismissed out of hand because my response didnt tell her its ok to fuck up what might be a genuinely good relationship because she wants to hook up with the guy.

To all of you girls in similar situations, Dont be a slut. Its not flattering.

OMG i so totaly understand what you mean. i think it is fucked up how the do that. i mean i ask question and i dont always get the answers that i want but thaty doesnt mean i rate the person down for there opinon on something. i mean girls like her need to learn to get over it and the TRUTH hurts. and if she doesnt want the thruth and she hasnt hit reality yet to know about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Guys- What way do you all liked to be asked out? From the girls friend, the girl? What I was wanting to ask this guy out and I am having my friend to.

i think you should ask the guy out yourself. if you get your friend to do that just means your shy and scared to do it. you should prove to the guy that you are brave, outgoing,and strong. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my best friend had a stupid argument. What shall I do, I was alittle harsh on her, but I didnt want to stop being friends what can
i do?

you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel explain to her that the only reason why you did what you did because you were angry. if she doesnt want to talk to you at first leave it alone for a couple of days then try talking to her again when the fire has cooled down. hope this helps you out.
~*Stephanie~*

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Do you have to have an ID to buy ciggarettes?

yup you do.
*~Stephanie~*

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I know you all hate these questions!

What is this song. its so old!

Its slow and romantic, I think by an african american singer. and Its not really like rap.

Its like 1- im in love with you 2-i just wanna be with you 3- its plain to see that youre the only one for me, and 4 repeat steps 1-3

does anyone remember that?

5's and feedback!

Thanks!
-Kelsey-
:)

it is called back to one and it is by brian mcknight.

http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/1/287/8995_1_4_05.asf

that is the song. ^^^.. hope thsi ehlps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

p.s
this is one of my favorite songs...

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whenever i scrunch my hair it ends up being thick and poofy not like how it should look like.. im wondering what i should do so it looks thinner and what to use on my hair and how much.. thanks!

the advice i can give you is to also run your fingures through ur hair while scrunckin it. i used to have the same problem but i did that and it fixed.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok.. there's my exboyfriend, Nick. and we went out for a pretty long time.. and we broke up because we never say eachother.. now i c him all the time and he still really likes me.. and i kinda still like him. but i like other people 2! and wen ever i go out wit ne1 he freaks out and says i hate him n that i put other people be4 him.. and i care cuz he's a really close friend.. i just got a newbf n nick's upset. wat do i do. so what do i do? please helf!

xoxo

it seems like you care a lot about your ex.. (sadly i dont but that is bc HE cheated on me but anyways this is about you..lol.) you need to get your mind striaght. if you still like the guy then mayb you guys should give it another chance. if nto you need to talk to him and tell him he needs to get over you and that he shouldnt hold you back from dating who ever you want to date. hope this helps.
*~stephanie~*

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how should i ask a guy to homecoming?
we've been tiptoeing around the idea of going together for a while, and i figure i might as well just ask him already so i can keep life simple

HONESTLY, save yourself time and trouble and do it. dont wait for him to do and keep you waiting. plus if you already noe the answer stop beatin behind the bush and go and get him..hope this helps you out and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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what are extentions? and where could i get some? are they expensive?

extentions are fake pieces of hair that you can get to make you hair loong longer then it naturaly is. you can get them at a hair salon place and i honestly dont know how much they are.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does anyone know the song that goes like were goin down down in an earlier round and sugar were going down swinging

sugar were going down by the fall out boys
another good song by them that you might want to listen to is either "where is your boy tonight" or "dance, dance"

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