Question Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 8:06 am
How do i make a guy like me?? they guy i like told my friend "idk maybe" when she was seeing if he would ever go out with me. what does idk maybe mean? if im not quite there, HOW DO I GET THERE?? Ill rate 5's for good answers.
TattooedXRoses answered Saturday September 24 2005, 11:59 am: He's avaioding giving a real answer first off. Second, in my opnion you should never have to MAKE a guy like you. It will naturally come if you guys are supposed to be with eachother. Just hang out with him a lot and be his friend first.
tasuki answered Saturday September 24 2005, 11:54 am: Unfortunately, you can't MAKE anybody like you. They have to do that on their own. When people fall in love, it isn't because someone MADE them do it. Be his friend and flirt with him, and maybe ask him to go to the movies with you. You don't love someone and then go out...you grow to love each other as you are going out. However, always remember that his opinion of you doesn't matter. If you flirt and go out with him and give yourself to him and he still says "idk maybe", then he IS NOT worth it. There will be other, better guys. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
XoXo_BloNdiEbAbeS answered Saturday September 24 2005, 11:00 am: You can't MAKE a guy like you. Just be friendly and kind around him and try to show off your flirty side. SOme guys are more attached to you if you talk to them a lot! Hope that helps!
xoxo Lindsay [ XoXo_BloNdiEbAbeS's advice column | Ask XoXo_BloNdiEbAbeS A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday September 24 2005, 10:35 am: you cant MAKE some one like you, but just be yourself. if you don't be yourself around him then he starts to like you, then it's not realy YOU that he likes.
just go talk to him a lot and flurt with him. and maybe MIGHT mean that he likes you, but you never know.
he might be saying that because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. but if he didn't like you, why would he care about hurting your feelings or not?
maybe he just doesn't know you enough, so he said maybe. you need to talk to him more so then you guys'll get to know each other better and he might start to like you. but remember, just be yourself.
but don't act and talk all weird when you flurt with him. because most guys don't like sissy gurls that are too gurly.
it all depends on the guys taste for girls. you can't really GET THERE if you just aren't his type.
just be yourself, and if he doesn't like you, then he's not worth it, and he's missing out on a lot.
he may seem like THE GUY right now, but maybe he's not. maybe there are a lot of bad things about him that you just don't know about.
and don't worry, even if it turns out that he doesn't like you, then that's his fault, and there's a lot of other guys that would be happy to go out with you.
sbloemeke answered Saturday September 24 2005, 10:26 am: First, you cannot MAKE a guy like you. That is their choice, and sometimes, it is impossible to get them to like you. Some people just don't go together.
IDK maybe usually mean "Yes, but not right now." It means that he would love to go out with you, yet he has other stuff on his mind and plate to do these next few days.
To get there, you just keep flirting with him and talking to him. Make sure that it's more talking, as that is substance. And in a relationship, you need substance over style. But you need to flirt every so often. When you feel that you and him are close enough, go ahead and ask him out. It doesn't have to be him asking you, you just go for him.
-Steven [ sbloemeke's advice column | Ask sbloemeke A Question ]
TexasChick1104 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 10:19 am: First you have to understand that you can't MAKE a guy like you, but you can try to encourage it. You could try to get to know him better or ask him to hang out with you sometime (probably best with a large group so it isn't akward).
The "i don't know maybe" could mean several things:
1. He likes someone else more or likes other people.
2. He was just trying to not hurt your feelings.
3. He likes you but is shy to admit it.
If you really want to know how he feels just get him alone and talk to him. If he isn't a close friend then there is no loss in approaching him and telling that you like him then asking how he feels about you. [ TexasChick1104's advice column | Ask TexasChick1104 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Saturday September 24 2005, 10:18 am: You can't make anyone like anyone. When a guy says "I don't know, maybe", that means they usually don't like you and are just trying to say it in the nicest possible way. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
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