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♥ much love - hannah

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umm i crap out blood is that a bad sign

yeah.. just a little. you should go get that checked out.
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How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..

No one can say if it's too young or not. The only way for you to tell if it's to young is ask yourself one question... are you ready. If you are ready, then no you're not to young ;; if you're not ready then you're not to young, but not ready.


Just remember that sex is searious, and you need to remember all the things that can happen, & remember to be safe :]
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EDIT-----EDIT-----EDIT----EDIT--
whatever, you question depened on the person, sorry my "age" wasn't what you wanted to hear.

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my lips are swollen from being so chapped.. i try chap stick and it doesnt seem to make it better. what can i do?

:: Neosporin Lip Treatment
:: Petroleum Jelly
:: Blisdex (spelling)
:: Medicated Chapstick (spelling)


That's all I know of that really works.
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Whenever I drink soda, (I only drink diet), when I swallow it after the first few sips, it burns my stomach really bad. What's wrong??

If it burns, then stop drinking it, or if you want to continue to drink it, then go to the doctor to find out whats wrong,. I dont think thats normal.
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14/f
You`re gonna know who I am about 3 lines in.

I`ve been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months. He lives far away, and he`s at his mom`s house for the summer, and she lives REALLY far away, so I hardly ever get to see him. (Guessed who I am yet??) He treats me like sh!t, and I can`t take it anymore. Yea, he`s really hot, but I know now that looks aren`t everything. I wanna break up with him, but I can`t get ahold of him. His phone hasn`t been on for the past week. So basically, I`m left here with Mr. Looser who I can`t get ahold of to break up with him. What am I supposed to do?? Act like I`m single since I`m gonna break up with him, or still be "loyal" to him because technically he`s still my boyfriend?? And another thing, I`m a huge whimp and I don`t wanna do it myself, but I know I should, what should I say since you know who I am and my whole story?? =D Thanks Hannah!!

~A x3

Psh, honey I knew who you were by the title :]


First off, it's deff. not your fault if you want to break up. Feelings change & that's something you can't help. Now to the real point.


If anyone of your friends knows about BAD relationships,.. it's me. I'v had more buttmunches then I can even count. So I understand where you are comming from with the "He treats me like sh!t". You should not under any reason be treated like poop. You are an amzing girl, and he should be hecka'z lucky to be with you, but instead he is taking advantage of it. Thats stupid.


If you want to break up with him, there is nothing you can do to change your mind. You have problly. put alot of thought into this & there is problly. not one reason in the world to stay with him. I can understand if you don't want to break up with him yourself, but who else talks to him enough to do it for you. I personaly think you should do it. Just be like (if you want to be nice & not honest)" Hey %Oo*, I never really get to talk to you, & I feel as thou. you should have the freedom to go out with other girls that you would be more able to see. If you want to do it, the kinda mean, & more honest way you should just be honest with him tell him he treats you like crap, and you dont like it. Tell him that you have put alot of thought into it, and you relize that you don't like how the relationship is going and you want it to end. I'm 100% sure that things will be better if you break up with him, because no one else knows him the way you do, and no one else knows how you feel like you do (if that makes sense).


Now, as far as the, "when should you" & "until then sould i act single" thats up to you. The next time you talk to him, I think you should do it.. the sooner the better.. in my opion. If you want to hang out with other guys, and get to know some of them better.. then go for it. You arn't doing anything wrong. If you are just getting closer to guys, heck you chould just be doing it because you want more friends. But I really think the next time you get a change to talk to him, (when ever that maybe) you should break up with him.


Good luck & if you need more help IM me or drop one in the inbox.
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I wasn't sure where to put this, because it's kind of a weird question. Bear it with me.

I'm a thirteen year-old girl and I'm bringing one of my friends with me on a three week long trip to Europe. She's very nice, low-key, and low-maintinence (sp?), so I'm not really worried about getting sick of her. My problem is, I'm afraid SHE'LL get sick of ME. I guess I tend to complain a lot, and stuff like that, but I really want to get better about that. Does anyone have any tips for becoming more self-aware and complaining less?

Take some time apart from each other. Just every once in a while. Don't be afarid to take time to yourself to just think & be alone.. everyone needs their own time. Good luck & have fun in Europe !
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im addicted to pot

That sucks..
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how do you pick up girls they think im attractive but i dont know how to pick them up

Talk to them.. flirt with them. stuff like that. Be yourself
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13/f

I have really large breasts, and unlike most girls, I hate it. Is there anything I can do that can make them appear smaller? Without buying anything, that is.

I have that same problem.. Wear a sports bra.. it kinda squishies them, haha. DO NOT USE TAPE !! It hurts.. so don't use tape... bad idea. You can also try cammies.. they also squish them :]
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hi...
i like this guy a lot,(he says he has a gf but i dont believe because he says she is 15) but he is like 1 of my BFF and i already have a bf and i cant stand him right now. The guy i like has been so nice to me this year and we have so many good times, but my bf is sweet to me to but i dont feel a click. Please Help Me 13/f!

HeartBroken

Follow your heart. If you don't like your boyfriend now, and if you don't feel a click.. then break up with him. So what if that other guy have a 15 year old girlfriend, you like him and you can't help that.. you're not sopose too. You should tell the "15 year old grilfriend boy" that you like him, and you love how he has been so nice to you, and how you guys have so many good times :] good luck.. follow your heart !
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It's near the end of my grade (8) and were graduating. I am going to a different highschool then the one i like. But i REALLY LIKE HIM. What should i do? One of my bff likes him to. So i have to say i don't like him anymore. I just really want him to hold my hand. or just tell me he likes me and kiss me OR SOMETHING. on the day of graduating should i tell him? HELP. give me ideas what to do! (we ARE having yearbooks)

Awe, I have that same problem.. the guy I like is going to a different highschool then me. The best thing to do, is yes tell him you like him. Tell him, be threw signing his year book with it, or just stright to his face.. I wouldn't write it in a note.. every finds out with a note. If you have to.. just kiss him on the cheek :] He might just think it's because you are going to miss him next year. But deff. tell him you like him !! You won't get the chance next year.. so make the best for this one !
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alright,
well i have a boyfriend that i really do like. But before we were going out i liked this other guy but he already has a gf. but he still liked me a little bit. well then i started going out with a guy but i still have feelings for the other guy. and i talked to him on aim and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend so we can go out once hes single. i really like him but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend plus i really like him too! i dont kno what to do, help if you can,

XconfusedX

I'v been in that same situation before.. the best advice I have ever gotten from someone was.. follow your heart. It knows what it wants.. and it's the only thing that really does. You can take the chance and break up with your boyfriend for the other one, or stay with the guy you have now, and hope the other boy finds a new girlfriend.


Only you know the anwser to this,.. It's up to you and your heart. You can always try to make a list. 2 column, once side of "boy" and one side for "boyfriend" and list why you like them. Which ever side has more at the end thats the one you should go out with, because that's the one you find you have most attrative. Like I said before thou, follow your heart.. It knows what you want :]
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I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five.

Guys... are really (like REALLY) bad at seeing hints. So if you want him to know you like him.. TELL HIM :] It's the only thing you can do.. that will work for sure.


Make sure if you tell him, NOT to write it in a note,.. notes are bad ideas.. they when written down everyone finds out. If you want him to know.. you should tell him over the phone or when you have just his attation. Or, if you don't want to tell him.. you could always just kiss him yourself. Sometimes thou, thats not the best idea :] Good luck & just tell him !!
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a like this girl and she likes these to other guys who r both my friends and they like her but i really want to go out with her but she doesn't no that i like her yet what should i do

If you like her tell her, how could ever go out with her, if she didn't even know you like her.


And as far as your friends go... you should I guess talk to them about it, let them know that you like her. It might cause a problem, but it will work out.


Just tell this girl you like her, and that you would like to maybe go out with her. Good luck. :]
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My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg

I'll rate 5s for all answers.

Everyone has different opions on different things. You can't try to change their opoion on something,.. beacuse that is just the way they feel about it.


Yes, I think the girl is pretty.
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does anyone know where to get camis that are kinda long that covers your whole stomach? and i also want the very cheap ones.. like i dont want a cami for 10$ .. thanks

- AERO
- Wal-mart
- K-mart
- Buckel (tons of colors.. a little on the $$ side)



Thoes are the only places I'v seen them..
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13/f
well i used to masterbate but i dont anymore... i haven't started my period yet
could this of affeceted it? please help

nope, don't worry it will come soon enough :]
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I was just wondering if it was at all possible for someone to get pregnant after having dry-sex.. or when the girl doesnt have clothes on, but the guy does? ... thanks

nope, dont sweat it.
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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.

First off, if you really wanted to kill yourself.. you wouldn't have asked for help. It's great you asked, just please don't do it.


Everyone has a tough time in life, and everyone has that secound of their life where they think about ending it.. to make it better for themselves.. you're not alone..


Before you do anything.. think about it. You will never be able to see anyone every again.. won't be able to walk into a room, and have all eyes on you. You wont be able to eat your favorite food, or swim or anything like that. You have probally been though so much in your life already.. why would you want to stop it now. Everyone has their limits on how much they can take... how much crap in their life, they are willing to put up with... and you found your limit. So anything wrong in your life.. drop it. Forget it, if it's friends.. drop them, make new ones... Do what ever you have to make yourself happy.


You will never be able to talk to your friends, talk to the boy/girl you like.. if you end your life. Think about your family. How much pain you would cause them if you were to do that. They would have to live with the fact that they didnt have a dang clue about if for the rest of their lives. Do you want to put people you love threw that much pain, and sarrow ? Everything bad.. will turn good in time, and you will make it.. keep your head up, and good thoughts in your head. Hurting yourself.. would only be hurting the ones you love. You wouldn't have anymore pain.. but your family and loved ones.. would. You would happy, and care free, and painless.. but your family and loved ones would have to wake up.. everyday EVERYDAY knowning that you kill yourself.. and they couldn't stop you. That they were not giving the change to stop you from hurting yourself.


You do have reasons to live. You wake up every morning to a band new day. You can be/do what ever you want.. and you just want to give that all up ? Think about it.. I mean really think about it. You wake up everyday.. God gave you your life, and you want to give it back ? You have a million reasons to live.


Ask someone you love for real help. Real mental help.. you would be amazed at how much that will help you deal with all your problems. Someone you could talk to, someone you could tell your problems too, and they might be able to help you. Ask for help, just like you did on here... just ask someone, NO ONE would deni it to you.


Don't do it.. it wouldn't be worth it..
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I used to be more of the popular type, I was always out with friends. But latley, I can barely name 5 or 6 friends that I'm actually friends with still! All of my old friends went like .. emo, I'm sad to label them, but I can't hang out with them anymore, cause they just won't give me a chance. When I became captain of the cheerleading squad, they shut me out. I can't find anyone else at my school, who I can go shopping with, and just be true buddies. Please help, I'm so lonley!

People change and sometime change isn't always such a bad thing. Ask yourself one thing.. why would you want to fight for a friendship with people, when they wouldn't fight for it too ?


Try to make new friends, yeah it will be hard at time, but the end result will be good. Be yourself, have fun. Making friends can be hard, but to not have anyfriends is even harder.


Just remember, be yourself.. don't make a friend off of a fake personality.. you'll end up hating them :]
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