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popularity down the drain?
I used to be more of the popular type, I was always out with friends. But latley, I can barely name 5 or 6 friends that I'm actually friends with still! All of my old friends went like .. emo, I'm sad to label them, but I can't hang out with them anymore, cause they just won't give me a chance. When I became captain of the cheerleading squad, they shut me out. I can't find anyone else at my school, who I can go shopping with, and just be true buddies. Please help, I'm so lonley!
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Well, the best thing to do is just to find new friends, and forget the emos, i mean, wy hang with them if there judgemental? Also, maybe you could sit by, and talk to some new kids/shy kids at lunch, or whenever is a good time, they probably feel lonely, so its a win-win thing. Then you might have more mall buddies.
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aww THIS HAPPEND TO ME TOO i know exactly how you feel its the worst feeling possible you could always go to the mall by yourself and meet hot guys.
go eat somewhere and wait for people to talk to you
go to youth group,a church,a gym,a pizza place,an ice cream place
i dont really know.
im still trying to figure out what to do.
well i hope you feel better
because i know exactly how you feel
it will be ok.
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omg! i use to no exactly how you feel. its the worst except at the time it was my fault when i lost a close friend and i blamed everything on me. now were not as good as friends but we still talk. thats why i just kind of started hanging out with new ppl. i also started talking to people online but NEVER meet up with them in life. also dont give them like personal info like where u live<<<u probly no this stuff but im still just telling you>>>> also you could try making friends maybe with like kids on your street. you could also try telling them how you feel. hope i helped! bye! ♥ terri
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Hi, they don't sound like they want to be friends anymore. There are loads of ways to make friends though. Here are some examples:
1. Group, sport, interest
2. School
3. Online
4. Party
The hardest part about friendships is starting a conversation with them. Just get involve in any groups and what have you, and see how it goes. You might make a dozen of friends. Daniel.
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Don't bother with them anymore. You don't need to try and change yourself for them, and they obviously won't change back for you. However, in a few of your classes, just see if there's any groups that look like a lot of fun and just introduce yourselves to them or strike up conversation with a comment or something recent. Or like someone else said, become friends with your fellow cheerleaders. As long as you stay true to yourself, that's all that matters. Or as a few people may say f*** 'em!
Hope I helped!
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People change and sometime change isn't always such a bad thing. Ask yourself one thing.. why would you want to fight for a friendship with people, when they wouldn't fight for it too ?
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Try to make new friends, yeah it will be hard at time, but the end result will be good. Be yourself, have fun. Making friends can be hard, but to not have anyfriends is even harder.
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Just remember, be yourself.. don't make a friend off of a fake personality.. you'll end up hating them :]
♥ me
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People change.
You'll realize that more and more as you get older. But also this gives you a chance to go out and meet new people, and possibly make more freinds. If these girls don't want to hang out with you, that's their deal. They are the ones that have changed while you have remained the same. So my advice is not to forget them and make new freinds, but to still have the conversation lines open with them while you meet other people.
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Why want to be friends with people that don't want to be friends with you? Start hanigng out with the girls on your cheer squad. You'll obviously have more in common with them and they won't shut you out.
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