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Bad kids?
I used to be good friends with Nick and Eric, but then Nick got into drugs and smoking, Eric started drinking, and they both began having sex with girls. Eric is only 13, and Nick is 12. ( I`m 13) I stopped hanging out with them because they're only around girls to get in their pants, and their so bad. Well, my best friend doesn't realize thats what theyre doing. They even tell her they only like her cause she's got a massive butt but she doesn`t listen. I don't want her to turn out like them, HELP!
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i would suggest hanging out with your friend as much as possible and kicking Nick and Eric out of your "Circle of Friends" make it known that you don't like what they are doing and make it known that what they are doing is wrong. good luck!
-Bess
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Hi, your friend has a choice:
a) Listen to your advice
b) Go ahead with her decision
All you can do is give her some advice on what you think. All you can do to be honest is just tell her your point of veiw and make sure that she keeps safe, as a friend. I think 12 and 13 is a little to young for them 2 to be having sex, would'nt you agree? You have common sense because drugs and alchohol don't mix with sex. If drugs and what have you get too serious e.g voilence, then they could get into trouble with the law. Well done, good on you for seeing what was there in front of you. However it is up to your friend to decide who shes going to be friends with. All you can do is give her your opinion and be there when she needs you. Thats what real friends do. Get back to me if you like. Daniel.
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this is one of the hardest things to do as a friend..to have to watch a close friend go in the wronnnnng direction. you can talk to her...invite her over your house and talk to them on AIM or through email and get it out of them how they talk about girls..and show her this as evidence..dont let them know shes over..and mention your friend and show your friend the comments they will say about her. other than this and talkng to her..its allll up to her..its her life..and shes going to make mistakes in her life (we all do) hopefully she willl listen to you though!
-melissa
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