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Trying to get rid of him!!
14/f
You`re gonna know who I am about 3 lines in.
I`ve been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months. He lives far away, and he`s at his mom`s house for the summer, and she lives REALLY far away, so I hardly ever get to see him. (Guessed who I am yet??) He treats me like sh!t, and I can`t take it anymore. Yea, he`s really hot, but I know now that looks aren`t everything. I wanna break up with him, but I can`t get ahold of him. His phone hasn`t been on for the past week. So basically, I`m left here with Mr. Looser who I can`t get ahold of to break up with him. What am I supposed to do?? Act like I`m single since I`m gonna break up with him, or still be "loyal" to him because technically he`s still my boyfriend?? And another thing, I`m a huge whimp and I don`t wanna do it myself, but I know I should, what should I say since you know who I am and my whole story?? =D Thanks Hannah!!
~A x3
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Psh, honey I knew who you were by the title :]
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First off, it's deff. not your fault if you want to break up. Feelings change & that's something you can't help. Now to the real point.
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If anyone of your friends knows about BAD relationships,.. it's me. I'v had more buttmunches then I can even count. So I understand where you are comming from with the "He treats me like sh!t". You should not under any reason be treated like poop. You are an amzing girl, and he should be hecka'z lucky to be with you, but instead he is taking advantage of it. Thats stupid.
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If you want to break up with him, there is nothing you can do to change your mind. You have problly. put alot of thought into this & there is problly. not one reason in the world to stay with him. I can understand if you don't want to break up with him yourself, but who else talks to him enough to do it for you. I personaly think you should do it. Just be like (if you want to be nice & not honest)" Hey %Oo*, I never really get to talk to you, & I feel as thou. you should have the freedom to go out with other girls that you would be more able to see. If you want to do it, the kinda mean, & more honest way you should just be honest with him tell him he treats you like crap, and you dont like it. Tell him that you have put alot of thought into it, and you relize that you don't like how the relationship is going and you want it to end. I'm 100% sure that things will be better if you break up with him, because no one else knows him the way you do, and no one else knows how you feel like you do (if that makes sense).
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Now, as far as the, "when should you" & "until then sould i act single" thats up to you. The next time you talk to him, I think you should do it.. the sooner the better.. in my opion. If you want to hang out with other guys, and get to know some of them better.. then go for it. You arn't doing anything wrong. If you are just getting closer to guys, heck you chould just be doing it because you want more friends. But I really think the next time you get a change to talk to him, (when ever that maybe) you should break up with him.
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Good luck & if you need more help IM me or drop one in the inbox.
♥ me
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