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cant get over him
okay so theres this guy who i really like i mean for the first time im actually in love. i liked him since the begining of the year and we barely EVER talked but i knew he liked me a little so yeah. and about 2 weeks ago he asked me out over myspace and we've only went out for about 7 days then he dumped me to be with another chick. at first when he dumped me i didnt have any feelings but know i feel like dying so bad i mean i really love him ALOT. cuz everytime i talk to him i feel so diferent and its such a great feeling and now being dumped by the guy i really love just hurts so bad. half of me hates himand half of me loves him like crazy. how can i get ovr someone who i love alot and if you can try to give me a great advise ill rate you very high! thx
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Ah, the pain of falling in love. I know it well. I'm sorry something so crappy had to happen. Being dumped makes you feel pretty low, but it will get better. Stay away from him, you can't get over someone if you're constantly talking to them or hanging out.
It also doesn't help if you're sitting around feeling heartbroken and depressed. Go out and spend time with you're friends. When you're alone with nothing to do, you tend to thing about what happened but if you're out having fun with your friends..it gets your mind off of it. Trust me.
You'll be as good as new in no time. :)
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my advice to you is to try to talk to him. maybe become more as a friend. if not, just try to forget him. try looking for a new guy you might like. and go after him. lol. well all is im saying is that guys are jerks and you dont deserve to be treated to way he treated you. you know?? as long as you have your friends, thats all you need.
good luck=D
-steff*
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my advice is that you need to try to be as good as friends with him as you can becasue if you do that then you dont have to worry about him leaving you then maybe after he see's how good of friends that you are he will realize that he still likes you and ask you back out...atleast thats what i would think but i hope evrything works out!!!
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me and my boy friend broke up a little while ago and i know i loved him so i kinka know wat you are feeling, but i dont know that you really loved him since you were only together for a week, but it is possible. if you really think you love him then u need to distance yourself from him. he apparently doesnt feel the same, or he wouldn't have dumped you for another girl. i know its hard to distance yourself from the one you love (i had a hard time at first but its getting easier), but it would truely help you to move on. try meeting other guys, even if its just hanging out and nothing will come from it, jsut get back out there. thats what i did and it helped so much! hope this helps u! ♥
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Okay, sweets back it up..
just because both of you HAD liked each other, doesnt make it love.
Its not love if he dumps you after a week, for another girl, obviously he wasnt in love with you.
But to get over being dumped, try avoiding talking to him, hang out with your friends,
go out with family, play games, entertain yourself somehow, dont think about him - because that only makes things worse, enjoy life you dont need a guy to make you happy, and the guy who you really like, wont askyou out through myspace.
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The best thing to do is to talk to him to see where your at and what you are both feeling. What do you have to lose? You could talk about why you guys broke up and what kind of relationship you want now. Ignoring the problem wont help at all. When you talk to him don't intimidate him or corner him or make him feel like hes being interrogated, just have a normal conversation. I hope I held and good luck!
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