How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..
MissAshleyXOXO answered Thursday June 22 2006, 10:34 pm: If there's any doubts at all, then you're not ready. So I think that if a part of you, even a small part, feels you might be too young, then you probably are. If I were you, I'd wait. [ MissAshleyXOXO's advice column | Ask MissAshleyXOXO A Question ]
nat94 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 5:28 pm: there isnt really an age that is to young to have sex, the question is are you ready to give your virginity? do you really like this guy, do you think you and him are going to be together for the rest of your life? And are you ready to face the consequences of this?
LiLReBeL6907 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:45 pm: It depends on you and what you are comfortable with. If you and him both feel you are ready then take the proper procautions. Just keep this in mind. If you are ready to have sex, then you are ready to handle the possibilty of becomign pregnant and the possibility of having kids. It is scary to think about but is true. Just make sure to always have protection. Never let him tell you that pull out won't get you pregnant. If he isn't wearing a condom you have a 50/50 chance of becoming pregant. And it is a proven fact that 30% of girls that have unprotected sex, within a year, will be become pregant. So don't take that risk. Be safe. Hope I helped.
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poetqueen answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:25 pm: you cant really say what the right age is. if you are emotionally mature enough and so is he then you arent too young. if you are uncomfortable with the idea then dont do it because that means you arent ready. and if he cant understand that then hes a jerk. talk to him about it and tell him what you feel about the subject. if hes your boyfriend and he loves you then he will accept it. good luck and dont be scared! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
Melody answered Thursday June 22 2006, 12:39 pm: I was fourteen when I lost my virginity & i'm fifteen now. I'm sexually active & I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. However there is no right age to have sex at. It's a personal choice. If you think you're to young, then most likely you are. You aren't ready if you think it's to soon & there is nothing wrong with that. But if you think you are old enough then that's all that matters. No one can decide what's the right age for you. Age isn't really a big factor when it comes to sex. Maturity is.
Basketball3846 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 10:08 am: There really isn't a right age for sex. If you feel that you love the guy you are with and he loves you back and you guys both feel like you have something with each other then I would say go for it. Just make sure, a lot of things can happen. STDs, Pregnancy etc. Like the person before me said, getting pregant young can ruin your life. Use protection always. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
karie28 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 7:09 am: I would have to agree with the others--there really is no such thing as the "right" age in having sex.
Let me tell you a short story...
(This is TOTALLY true)
I have a cousin who engaged in sexual activities at the age of fifteen. One day, her mom called my mom, crying. Mom asked her "Why?" and she told her, "Afie's pregnant....". Of course, I was sooo shocked when she told this to me. Fast forward to the present: She and her husband are separated, she has a new guy who became the "instant" father of her child. I asked her one time what's the graetest lesson she has learned from her past experiences. She told me, "If you're not ready to have a kid, you're not ready for sex."
Why am I telling you this story, you might ask. I'm telling you this because I believe that she is sooo Right when she told me that if you're not ready to have kids, you're not ready for sex.
I think what she really meant with that statement is that, if you're not ready to take full responsiblity for all your actions, then don't do "it".
partygurl24 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:47 am: I personally believe that 15 is yound to be having sex. You just know when you're ready to have sex. Don't just do it just because your boyfriend wants to. You have to want to also because sex is not just a simple thing that doesn't matter. Many thigns can result from having sex, which is why when you do, make sure to use a condom. Maybe you should wait until both of you are comfortable with taking this bis step. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:48 am: the most important thing is to make sure its something you want. dont let anyone push you into anything you dont wanna do b/c it screws with your emotions/confidence. i know first hand. as for age i think by law you got to be 16 but honestly i havent ever met anyone who goes by that. most ppl i kno been havin sex since they were about 13 (i actually waited til i was 16) the point is its your life and you got to do whats right for you. except for drugs, drugs are bad!
but i shouldnt be talkin
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jumadel answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:25 am: Hi, really any age under 16 is quite young to have sex. You two are still quite young yet. Just say something like "Im not ready yet, I'm still quite young" or "What's the rush, maybe when were 16 we could give it a try. Go to your local law centre for advice on the age of consent. Don't rush into anything. Some people regret doing it at a young age. You've also got to think about contreception. There are thing's like genital warts, gonhorrea and aid's that can be spread. Talk it over with someone who specialises in that particular area. Hope that answers your question. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
Sunshine answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:24 am: I don't think it comes down to a matter of age. There is no magic number. The fact that you had to ask this question, tells me one thing, you are not ready. You should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you're not ready. If he really cares about you, he'll realize that you are worth the wait. [ Sunshine's advice column | Ask Sunshine A Question ]
x_woah_me answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:10 am: No one can say if it's too young or not. The only way for you to tell if it's to young is ask yourself one question... are you ready. If you are ready, then no you're not to young ;; if you're not ready then you're not to young, but not ready.
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whatever, you question depened on the person, sorry my "age" wasn't what you wanted to hear. [ x_woah_me's advice column | Ask x_woah_me A Question ]
UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday June 22 2006, 12:54 am: it depends on when you feel ready. if your ready & know the consquiences then your ready but if you arent ready to face them then your not. its all up to you! [ UHOHxOMFG's advice column | Ask UHOHxOMFG A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday June 22 2006, 12:52 am: If you are to young to deal with the consequences of your actions (motherhood being the main one), then you are to young. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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