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It's near the end of my grade (8) and were graduating. I am going to a different highschool then the one i like. But i REALLY LIKE HIM. What should i do? One of my bff likes him to. So i have to say i don't like him anymore. I just really want him to hold my hand. or just tell me he likes me and kiss me OR SOMETHING. on the day of graduating should i tell him? HELP. give me ideas what to do! (we ARE having yearbooks)
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whatever you do, just know your "bff" or whatever will probably hate you. When this happened to me, I thought that if I talked to her about it she would understand. She said she did. But now hates me anyway. Thats the truth, its not the happiest ending. But hey, every choice has some consequences.
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This just happened to me (I graduated 8th grade last week.) I got lucky, and the guy who was leaving and I was obsessed with decided to stay. I found out that he was staying on the day of graduating, and he decided the night before. I'm really happy...Point is, you never know what'll happen. Everybody's saying to take a chance but I actually understand how terrifying that is. Take a deep breath, and steal his yearbook. Write something really sweet in it, but don't confess your undying love. Anybody can see that. Write something kinda flirty but not really, like "It was a great year, and I'll miss you like hell in high school. Don't worry-we'll DEFINITELY stay in touch." Leave your email and cell number also, and sign your name with a heart. Later in the week, drop him a casual email and talk about your summer plans. Tell him where you'll be, and leave a camp address if you're going to sleepaway. Mention again how much you'll miss him and flirt lightly. See how he responds, but if he doesn't, send him some graduation pictures in the mail. (Make sure to get LOTS of pictures of him!) Him and his friends and you and your friends...Slip in one of you, still on graduation day, where you look really pretty. If it's not from the same day, it's painfully obvious and you look desperate. It can be one of you blowing a kiss to the camera, something stupid like that. He can think you put it in by accident, or not. Don't just tell him you like him if you're not positive that he likes you back....It's better to make him want you, and miss you, because once he decides for himself your BFF can't blame you. Flirt and flirt and flirt...Good luck!
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Awe, I have that same problem.. the guy I like is going to a different highschool then me. The best thing to do, is yes tell him you like him. Tell him, be threw signing his year book with it, or just stright to his face.. I wouldn't write it in a note.. every finds out with a note. If you have to.. just kiss him on the cheek :] He might just think it's because you are going to miss him next year. But deff. tell him you like him !! You won't get the chance next year.. so make the best for this one !
♥ me
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i HAD A PROBLEM LiKE THiS WHEN i WAS iN 8TH GRADE AND THE GUY i LiKED WAS GOiNG TO A DiFFERENT HiGH SCHOOL...SO i GOT CONFiDENT AND REALLY STARTED FLiRTiNG WiTH HiM..WHEN NOBODY WAS AROUND..HE KiNDA TOOK THE HiNT AND WE STARTED BEiNG GOOD FRiENDS AND i WROTE iN HiS YEARBOOK "iM REALY GLAD WE BECAME FRiENDS YOUR REALLY CUTE..CALL ME OR iM ME THiS SUMMER. (NUMBER HERE AND S/N)" HE ENDED UHP CALLiNG ME AND iTS BEEN 2 YEARS AND i STiLL TALK TO HiM (WE WERE ON THE PHONE YESTERDAY FOR AN HOUR AND A HALF) AND ALSO OVER THAT SUMMER...WE WENT ON A FEW DATES. iT WAS REALLY FUN. iT WORKED EXACTLY AS PLANNED. HOPE THiS HELPS...
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Hi, because it could be the last time you ever see him again, then yes, if you feel confident, tell him. It sounds quite romantic to me. Otherwise you could sign his year book saying something like "come round to my house sometimes, heres my address..." and so on. It could scare him away however. The only thing you can do is tell him in a quiet place were no one can disturb you. He might not want what you want. Sadly, thats life, but theres always plenty of other fish in the sea. Tell him how you feel, because you might regret it later on, and wished that you knew how he feels about you. Let me know how you get on. Good luck!!! Daniel.
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Sign his yearbook with everything your heart feels but make sure he wil see it! If you can maybe tell him right as your are walking out of school on the last day or something like that. Don't let this slip by or you may lose soemthing amazing. I hope everything works out!
<3 Morgan
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Hey there!! OMG! I had the same thing happen to me in 8th grade! The only problem was, I didn't take a chance and I missed what could have been a great relationship just b/c i was too scared to take a step out of my comfort zone! DON'T miss your chance!! I mean, heck I think you should just go for it! Tell him how you feel, maybe it's your time to make the first move. I'm sure that if you tell him how you feel, (even IF he doesn't feel the same) you will feel a whole lot better in knowing that you told him what you needed to, and you were brave enough to be the one who took the chance! I know you are probably really nervous about this, but just remember that the worst part is getting yourself to tell him how you feel, but once you so tell him it gets MUCH easier! I just don't want to see you miss a chance like I did! GO for it, you'll never know until you give it a try! Hope I helped!
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When you sign his yearbook, find a random page in the middle of the book [ so no one else will see it ] and write that all down. Tell him since this is your last day of going to school with him, you want him to know that you really like him. ( Don`t sound all stalkerish, just tell him you like him, and that he can always make me smile, and add cute little hearts around it ) And leave it at that, but make sure he gets it BEFORE the graduation day, or else nothing will really happen. Just try to get around him alot, ( Don`t go overboard though ) and on the first page of his yearbook, put the page number you signed his yearbook on in a little heart with your name so he can find it. Worked for me, hope it`ll work for you too! <3
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Sign his yearbook with your number and a cute message saying 'I'll miss you a lot and you were awesome. This year was a blast'. It's the last day of school, so you don't have to be embarrased about signing his yearbook with a cute little message, you know?
Good luck.
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My advice? He's just a guy ive learned that there is always going to be another guy! In fact there are TOO MANY!!!!!!!! I think it's not worth you and your friend fighting you should both forget him. What am i talking about it's SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST!!!!!!!! um..... i'll go now.
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