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lets see. i loved my ex of 3 years. but he moved and we drifted. after 2 1/2 years of him being gone, id have to say ive given up hope on us being together. a while back, i liked this guy, nick but timing wasnt right, and i moved on... to steven. steven is perfect for me. so was my ex of 3 years, but steven and i dont have a chance right now. im dating nick at the moment, but it seems like he was more of a bf to me before we were going out than he is now. i still half way love my ex. and i still want to be with steven. but then again, i have feelings for my bf. i dont think that nick and i are going to last. pessimistic, i know. cause im looking for something more than what hes capable of. im looking for the same kind of love that my ex and i had. true love. i dont really know what to do. im going on vacation tomorrow and i know that its going to put strain on my relationship with steven. it might help to say that i havent talked to my ex in a while now. 3 months approx. what do i do?

okayy well first of all your DEFANITLY not a whore! its fine that you like 3 guys..its normal to have feelings for other guys even when you have a bf. as for what you should do or who you should go out with thats a decision you have to make..no one can make it for you.

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my boyfriend just recently broke up with me and i dotn knwo what to do its so hard i want to text him and tell him how i feel but i dont know what to say i dont want to get back with him or anything i just want him to know what he did was wrong what do i say?

i would def wait and see if he says ne thing to you first. you obviously still have feelings for him and are probally feeling horrible right now. maybe in 2 or 3 months text him.

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i broke up with my bofriend last night because i ldidnt thinnk i loved him

but i loved the way he treated me. &i loved that he was deep. maybe i just wasnt attracted to him.

now my friend is telling me about how mean her boyfriend is to her.......

so im starting to think. maybe him treating me right is enough?!?!?

idk. im having second thoughts.

what do you think?

well you shouldnt compare your boyfriend to your friends boyfriend in the first place..but if you dont feel like you love him dont go back out with him you'll be misserable.

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I want to pernamentley straighten my hair, but my mom won't let me. I am planning to pay for it. My mom still won't let me because, as she says, you will look like a wet muskrat, just like everyone else with stick straight hair.

But I am getting a haircut, and it will be shoulder length. My hair is EXTREMELY poofy, no matter what kind of shampoos or serums I use. When I straighten it with a straightener, which takes about an hour and a half (which I don't have time for) it gets really nice and silky, and the poof disapears.

I think I really need this: I only wear my hair down when I straighten my hair, which is about four times a year. Otherwise I wear it in a pony tail, which makes me feel like a tomboy.

How do I convince my mom to let me? I am 16 by the way.

okay well my advice for you if to def not get your hair permanetly straightened. i did it and it totally wrecked my hair. (my hair is seriously like getting shorter every day because its breaking off and it smells soo burnt when it gets wet) if you dont already have somewhat straight hair it wont help you that much anyway because it will still be super poofy. so i wouldnt get it permanetly straightened it but you should def buy some hair protector spray (the herbal essences one is great and it smells amazinggg). also you could try scrunching it because it'll look cute and this summer if your gonna be swimming alot and you're not gonna want to straighten your hair every time you get out of the pool.

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I was recently madly in love with this girl, Jess,..and i got to accept tha me and her aint gunna happen...
I stated going out with another girl, becky, recently..yet whenever we talk about the "future" i just think about how i want my future to be with jess..even though i really like jess, i want things to work out with becky..
do you think my feelings for jess will change with time?

okkay well i cant say if your feelings are going to change for jess. in time you might start to get over her...but you may not. i really think you should see if jess likes you back because if you really do love her nothing is gonna change that and you'll always have feelings for her. this happened to me with this guy i really like and even though i knew things with me and him would never work out i still loved him and my feelings for him still havent changed for over 2 years. its screwed up so many relationships for me because i couldnt stop thinking about how i wanted to be with him and not the guy i was with..so make sure things arent gonna work out with jess before you give up on her.

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hey i am guy. i like this girl and so does my best friend. Ill give you the full story . me and my friend are good friends with her. hes slightly more with her and he really likes her... he wanted to make out with her but he didnt in a spin-the-bottle game....anyway, i made out with someone then. hes really protective of her, but hes shy around her. ill give u an example.. one of his other friends, a guy, was coming to stay at his house from a different town, hes like a real jock and had been talking to her on msn too. my friend told him not to make out with her. also recently hes been saying every girl i ever was close to was really hot and we should get back 2gether again. i think hes trying to put me off this girl? anyway we r both single, wel im kind of, so i think he doesnt want me to make out with her. i kind of do though thats the problem. hes a real good friend though.

well i know you've probally heard this a million times..but ur girlfriends are gonna come and go but your bestfriends always gonna be there for you...so be there for him and dont mess with the girl he likes..

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dno what category this goes in so yeah...
i need a good name for msn, does anyone have any good sayings or quotes i can use...
i want heaps so plz tell me your fave sayings or quotes... or a cool way to write my name- sally
thanx xoxo

--Are you here because you need someone or cause you need me?
--I'm the kind of girl who isn’t sure if you’re up for her yet...
--I’m trying to hold on. But I’m sure if you’re worth it.
--She’s standing on the line of giving up & seeing how much more she can take
--Some of us think holding on makes us strong but sometimes its letting go
--Don’t ever make some one your everything because then when they leave you have nothing
--I still look at your picture it has wet stains from my tears & I still can’t believe I fell that hard
--Watching them together is like a car crash you really don't want to look but you just can't stop staring
--If he’s dumb enough to walk away…be smart enough to let him go
--If it didn’t really matter then you wouldn’t be spending so much time thinking about it
--Never give up on the things that make you smile
--I miss your smile baby but I miss mine even more
--Once you get what you want then you’ve got something to loose
--& she’s addicted to the feeling of every time she hears his voice
--The hardest guy to get over is the one you never had

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ok it goes like this....

"girls like boys with cars and lots of money...." or something like that...
it came out like maybe in 2002 or 2003? im not quite sure which year. help?

Boys & Girls Lyrics
Artist(Band):Good Charlotte Review The Song (3) Print the Lyrics


Educated With Money
He's well dressed, not funny


And Not Much to say in most conversations
But He'll foot the bill in all situations
'Cause He Pays For Everything


Girls Don't Like Boys
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny


Paper or Plastic
Don't Matter She'll have it
Vacations and shopping sprees
These are a few of her favorite things
She'll Get What She wants if She is Willing To please .
His Type of Girl Always Comes With A fee,
Hey Now There's Nothing For Free


Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny

And these Girls like these Boys, like these Boys like these Girls
The Girls With their Bodies Like Boys With Ferraris

Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money

Lets Go



Hey Hey !


Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny

And these Girls like these Boys, like these Boys like Girls
The Girls With the Bodies Like Boys With Ferraris
Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls like Cars And Money,

(music).......

All of these boys yeah all of these girls
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

(SLOWLY FADES)...All of these boys (yeah) and all of the girls Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

All of these boys yeah and all of the girls
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

All of these boys yeah and all of the girls...

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When we and my boyfriend are making out he moved my hand to his penis and I don't knwo what to do. He's still wearing his clothes and everything but what do you think he expects of me? I'm an older teen but I've never really had a serious relationship and I don't have a problem doing anything I just don' tknow what.

it sounds to me like he wants you to give him a handjob (if your not ready for that yet you can just massage his penis while his pants are on) and if you do it right he'll love it.
sooo your making him horny and thats a good thing but make sure YOU really want to do it..dont do it just to please him, then he'll think your easy.

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I used to be anorexic.

Now I am bulimic. Why? I can't help it. I try to eat healthy and I know I eat enough food. It's just, some nights I'll start eating something and then it goes on and on. I'm not even hungry! I just eat, and I can't stop. Then when whatever I was eating is gone, I either go to bed and swear that I'll never eat anything again unless I'm hungry, or if its not too late I'll run on my treadmill and then throw up, cause that's just what happens when you run after stuffing yourself.

So how do I break this vicious cycle? What the heck is my problem?!?!?

Here are some hotlines you can call
Hope i helped

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okay so i am having a big problem. Well usually i am a good kisser but i havent had alot of practice lately. Now there is this new guy that i like and i really want to kiss him. Any advice on how i can make sure this is the best kiss of his life?
thanx

Take it Easy.
When it comes to kissing, keep your lips soft and gentle. Think of kissing something very tender. You can practice on the back of your hand! There are long kisses, and there are kisses made up of a whole bunch of short, gentle little kisses. Go with the flow, and let your partner take the lead if you are not sure which way the kiss is going. When you are in the middle of the kiss, concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips and his, the electricity when the surface of your lips and his match up, and how each of you are moving your lips in rhythm with each other. Getting out of your head and focusing totally on the physical sensation of the kiss can add some real power and sensuality to your kissing.

Tongue or Not?
Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing... if you are not experienced, save the French kissing (kissing using your tongue) for later. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips. When you are comfortable kissing your partner, experiment with different ways to taste and nuzzle his lips. Nibble his lower lip lightly (DON'T bite), caress his lips by brushing your lips back and forth against them, lick the outside corners of his mouth, and try using different pressures and movements to gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good his lips feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better!

The Eyes Have It.
As for your eyes, keep them closed once you are into the kiss. You might want to keep them open until you have actual lip contact, so you don't miss and end up with a mouthful of ear. But when the kiss has started, eyes closed is the way to go. It can really help you shut out the world and focus only on the kiss. Also, kissing with your eyes open can weird out a guy, if he happens to catch you doing it. A valuable Jellybean tip: guys who kiss with their eyes open are usually thinking of something else besides you. If you catch your partner kissing with eyes wide, be careful - he might not be good boyfriend material.

The Most Important Lesson.
That's all you really need to know about kissing... except for one more, very important reminder. ENJOY THE KISS. Staying in the moment and enjoying the experience has a lot to do with what makes a memorable kiss. The best way to kill a kiss is to dwell on how you're doing, concentrate too hard on getting the "right" kissing technique down, or let your mind wander to what your partner thinks about you. The single most important thing to remember about kissing is to BE IN THE MOMENT and enjoy the kiss for itself. This is what it's all about... the simplest and greatest of pleasures, the soft friction, the tender wetness, the heat of his face so close to yours... kissing is great. Possibly the greatest. So kiss with confidence... and have FUN!
hope i helped =]

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I'm 15/f. I need to ask somebody a question. It's pretty long. I'll send it to your inbox, if you're interested in helping me. I don't want to put it on here, because someone that I know might figure out that it's me. It's about me and some guys. Thanks :)

ill help.

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i just recently bought a really cute bathing suit that fits and all but i have a small chest so i dont fill the top out well. what can i do without stuffing or using implants?

maybe try getting a thicker padding, or you could just take the padding out so it fits better.

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do you think its a dumb idea to go to Goodwell and get jeans?.. i mean i know they have hollister A&F jeans, but for cheaper. i think its a good idea. do you?

try tj max they have some american eagle jeans and some other brands and there not used, but a ton cheaper.

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anyone know any really good surf shop kinda stores where i can shop online? like beckersurf and pacsun? thanks!

you could try some of these-
www.blueplanetsurf.com
www.surfwearhawaii.com
www.tillys.com
www.surfride.com
www.oneill.com

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14/f


so naturally light brown hair, dyed black, grew out, dyed blck again, tried to go back brown- my roots didnt change color. ive done this "back to brown" thing many times but its just stayed black with brown roots. i just died it again and ive been in tears because it doesnt change no matter what i do. im not spending alot of money to get it stripped or professionally done. ive been waiting for a logn time for it to grow out. im tired of wating, what can i do?

yea the same thing happened to me, i went to the salon and she did a conditioning thing to it that wasnt very expensive (maybe $20-15) and it also stripped all the color out of my hair. (also all of that coloring can really damage your hair soo i would suggest you to stick to your natural color for a while)

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im like about to cry as i write this. okay i was tlaking to this guy.. hes 2 and a half years older than me and we were getting prettyy closee..and then he asked me for pictures and of course, cause im stupid i sent them..don't even say i shouldnt have because i know i shouldnt. well today he called me and we were talking then he said he was talking to another girl then he was like whne are you gonna come over and ahve sex im like never your talking ot someone remember then he was like dont pull that shit. then he was like if you ever come over will you do stuff with me im like uuhm no your talking to someone and he got mad that i kept bringing it up. i find him pretty damn dumb to do that bc he told me who he was talking to and i could tell her what he is saying to me, but i dont wanna fuck anything up. was i write to bring that u again that hes talking to someonen while hes asking me this stuff?

you deff. did the right thing
this guy seems like a jerk
you shouldnt waste your time on him

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Do you think it's wrong to take a picture of your boobs for a guy you're not dating?


p.s. I like him. He says he likes me. If that helps.

if you really like him then yea, theres nothing wrong with sending the pics but just keep in mind that once you send them ANYONE can see them. so make sure you really trust the guy before you send them because i doubt you want anyone else to see them.

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i want to start using make-up.
well, more make-up, 'cause i already use black eyeliner to line the bottom of my eye.
you can see what i look like here: http://www.myspace.com/dixiencoco
[feel free to add me if you have one yourself]
anyway, in some of those pictures i'm wearing eyeliner, and in others i'm not.
[mostly the older/first ones have me make-up free]
i do have glasses and i'd like to [for now] stay away from things that would make my nose or wear my glasses sit oily, because its hot in florida at school and i tend to sweat a bit making my glasses slide down a bit much.
and um, anything else i'll add later.
'kaythanks.

You'll probally look best in minty green, light to medium purple (plum), pale blue,light gray or light blue-gray shades of eye shadow. Choose one shade only to use at a time and apply it all over eyes, from lash-line to brows.

Apply one or two coats of clear or brown mascara.

Maybe try a sheer lip gloss or shiny lipstick in pinkish-brown.

And for special occasions..
Go for a metallic silver or metallic plum (medium purple) eye shadow on lids (sparkly or not, your choice) and ramp up eyelashes with two coats of brown mascara. Keep lips pale but shiny with a clear or pale pink gloss.

hope i helped

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it goes like this\

sometimes i get so sick of your shit its over
every time i turn around your right over my shoulder
i cant live wit you all in my grill
i dont understand i wish that you could just chill



if u know please tell me
thanks

its called just chill
Jon Yung sings it

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