Do you think it's wrong to take a picture of your boobs for a guy you're not dating?
p.s. I like him. He says he likes me. If that helps.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoXoXoXo77 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 6:41 pm: no its not wrong, but i wouldnt do it. if you like him and he likes you then why wouldnt you guys go out? i wouldnt send them to him until he commits to a relationship and then you know that he really does like you because he might just be telling you he likes you because he wants to see pictures of you. im guessing he probably thinks youre hot if he wants those pictures.. but his friends might be in on it too and i really wouldnt send them because once you do he can show anyone or everyone and that would be really embarrassing. i would wait until youre in a relationship where you know you can trust him. and if you really want to then maybe let him see them in person so that way he wont have a picture he can show everyone. the only thing he would be able to do is tell people that he saw them but who knows if they would believe him.
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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday April 29 2007, 5:57 pm: Do you want him to like you or do you want him to just want to have sex with you? If you want to have a relationship with him, sending the pictures is a bad idea. It's not a good way to lure him into having a relationship. NOT showing him the pictures is a better way. If you send him the pictures he'll have seen all he needs to see and you'll have left nothing for his imagination. If you don't send him anything and he is interested in seeing something, he'll work hard to get into a relationship with you so he can. Then you'll have the relationship and you'll feel good about him liking your pics. It's easy to sit there and send things over the Internet, but for the future, try to imagine everything you do on the Internet as actually doing it in real life. Would you show him your boobs in real life? Probably not, so don't do it on the Internet. Just because it feels safe and good over the Internet doesn't mean that it really is or that it's a good idea at all. It can get you into a lot of trouble. I wish you the best of luck and remember to keep this guy dreaming, not looking until you're in a relationship. Sending th pics is a good way to ruin your chances with him. Good luck. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Ashumms answered Sunday April 29 2007, 5:41 pm: Most often if someone asks if something they did or are going to do seems wrong, they think it is wrong and just want someone to tell them they think so too. I guess it just depends. Did he ask you to take the picture or did you just decide to do it yourself? If he asked you to take the picture but isn't dating you, he's just taking control of your feelings for him. That's why he also told you he liked you in the first place. It's not that he likes you or doesn't like you exactly, he wants to take control of your body or what you're willing to give him. If that's not the case, and you decided you wanted to take the picture yourself, think about this first. Do you really want a relationship to start with the physical instead of the emotional connection you have? If not, then my answer is yes. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
summer_is_love258963 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 5:13 pm: if you really like him then yea, theres nothing wrong with sending the pics but just keep in mind that once you send them ANYONE can see them. so make sure you really trust the guy before you send them because i doubt you want anyone else to see them. [ summer_is_love258963's advice column | Ask summer_is_love258963 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Sunday April 29 2007, 5:06 pm: I'm assuming based on the general demographic of this website that you're a teenager (under 18).
Did you know that it's illegal for anyone to possess pictures of a sexual nature of a minor? If you were to give this guy pictures of yourself topless, he'd be in possession of child pornography. Wrong.
Don't give pictures of yourself naked to anyone. It's too dangerous; they could get leaked online, they could be shown to people you don't want seeing them.
Razhie answered Sunday April 29 2007, 4:48 pm: They are your breasts, do whatever you want with them. Just consider the possible outcomes, not everyone can be trusted to behave respectfully, no matter how much they like you.
amazingadvice409 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 3:58 pm: haha im liek goign against what everyone is saying
but im in basically the same situation
idk if he likes me but i like him so much
i didnt exactly take a pic of my boobs
i took it of me in my bra
but if you trust him, like i trust this guy i sent it to..it wont get around or anything
so its basically up to you
but if your boobs are nice and big and NOT saggy hell love it and it will make you and him more comfertable with each otherr
hope i helped [<3]
--from what you just answered back--
ohhh...i no what youre sayinggg
well hmm i never really thought of thatt
maybe you shud talk to him more and just see waht hes all about...ask girls maybe that he has gone out with before ?
lol keep me updateddd <333 [ amazingadvice409's advice column | Ask amazingadvice409 A Question ]
LadyH answered Sunday April 29 2007, 3:48 pm: That would not be a wise decision. Who cares if you like him & he likes you? You aren't dating him & you aren't in a serious relationship to where you can trust him. Have more respect for yourself. Share that stuff with someone you are in a serious relationship with. It just sounds like you're trying too hard and/or just giving yourself away for the attention & to make him like you. [ LadyH's advice column | Ask LadyH A Question ]
HereForYou answered Sunday April 29 2007, 3:21 pm: Hey!
My answer (and thats just me) is that i wouldn't take a pic and send it to any guy...but your question has an answer that depends on who people are...and its their deicision..some girls don't mind it...others do...As for me, i wouldn't prefer it =)..its your choice! take care <3 [ HereForYou's advice column | Ask HereForYou A Question ]
ohhsnapp05 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 3:20 pm: um yeahhh, thats how girls get reps for being a slut. not a smart move on your part. bc i guarentee that pictures gonna get around to more ppl [ ohhsnapp05's advice column | Ask ohhsnapp05 A Question ]
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