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everytime that i miss school, i feel bad. even if im really sick, and dont feel like going, and cant go, i still feel bad. what wrong with me? is that normal?
That's normal. We all get that feeling, even if a person hasn't missed any school. It could be that the thought of having to make up alot of work, or the the thought of how much missing school will effect your grades that triggers you to feel bad. That's totally normal hun, we all have it, I've had it. So don't fret there is nothing wrong with you. :) Hope I helped.
Ok so i know this guy lets call him J. And me and him used to talk and flirt and stuff and i felt a really strong connection. Ok so months passed and he got a girl friend w.e so i stopped talking to him because i was hurt. It took me a really long time for me to get over him but i finally did. Now his brother is intrested in me but idk if i should flirt with him and stuff since its j's brother and i even told j i loved him once. i dont know what to do..= /
Well if you're really over J like you say you are, and you're intentions are good. Then I say go for it. But don't use J's brother if you're trying to make J jealous, because you're only going to hurt him. People hate to be hurt and so did you. So flirt with him, if you're really into him . Him being J's brother has no fault to it, its not like hes your ex-, plus J's got a girlfriend, so if he says something to you about it he has no right to you. That shows that he is jealous and maybe that he even likes you a little, but just think it this way. If he did like you WHY DID HE GET A GIRLFRIEND?. So if he does say this: IT'S YOUR LOSS,And now I moved on. :) Hope I helped.
Question already asked but put on like the last page anyway, I'm a guy, I always feel these girls like me, but then I find out they have boyfriends and whenever im around them they seem to respond well to me but when there with there boyfriends I kind of ignore them and they seem to ignore me. And when I get to know a girl pretty well and we both want to hook up and stuff she suddenly gets a boyfriend, does that mean she no longer wants to hook up? but ok, the real question is how do I actually know if there attracted to me and I should put the effort of trying to get with them as opposed to just forgetting about it and moving on??
These girls are just flirting. Some people just like to flirt, and flirting is fun. So whenever a person flirts with you try not to over-analyze over the "signs" that she likes you. Keep in mind if someone who is REALLY into you will be flattered that you like them ,and will take the invite when you invite them to go out. Not go out with another guy. So these girls are just flirting, don't take their flirting too seriously.
My advice, JUST FLIRT. Keep flirting, and there is MORE likely the chance to find someone that likes you. Don't close off , and try not to be settled into liking one person, in-case if all else fails , you have a backup. Or try going out with girls who are just your friends, maybe there is a friend of hers you may end up liking? Life is full of possibilities, flirting MORE increases your chances of finding someone for you. It just takes time. Hope I helped. :)
I have used just about every product there is out there and it seems it does not help my acne out at all. Should I try proavtiv? Does it really work?
Well it depends on your skin. Some people have a diffrent reaction to proactiv,for some it works well, and for some it may not. But for the most part, I can say that proactiv works really well. It clears your skin. The only negative thing about using proactiv is that it CAN dry your ski, which can possibly lead to more breakouts. If it is drying out your skin limit your uses to it, like once or twice a day, or just simply stop using it. You'll never know UNLESS you try, so I reccomend you try it, and see how you skin reacts to it, and if it works keep using it. Hope I helped, :)
1. My hot spot is on my neck. So if my partner kiss me or sucks on my neck, is it normal for me to get a little wet?
2. Also what is the right way to suck on a guy's neck?
1. Yes its is, you're getting a little aroused by it, but it is normal. Some girls get that feeling and some girls don't, but don't worry it is normal.
2. Well there is no real right or wrong way to suck on a guys neck, just make sure as you go along you DON'T BITE HIM, or suck on his neck like a vaccum, do it gently, and use your tongue if you have to, to give it a little more edge, he should like that, then kiss him lightly (like a pull away kind of thing )after kissing him on the neck. It'll just leave him, wanting you more ;)
how do you put ring tones on to your cell phone?
#1 Find a website. There is a HUGE number of websites where you can find ringtones.
www.jamster.com
www.funformobile.com
These are a couple of sites I know. Or you could just type ringtones on google.
Then when you find the name of the ringtone/song you want as your ringtone , you click on it.
To send to your phone you may have to click where it says buy ringtone, or send to your cell.
They ask for you phone number, and you type your number in and they should get a message right to your cell saying whether to but it or not.
Make sure that the ringtone can be for your carrier EX: AT&T Wireless, Verizon. ETC. or whether your phone carries only polyphonic ringtones ( just sound tune of ring tone) or can get real ringtones ( you actually hear the lyrics to the song), which most cell phones carry polyphonic ringtones.
Hope I helped.
Im really jealous of my best friend. Whenever we hang out and meet new poeple it seems like she always has to out shine me and everyone whos with us. Like if we meet guys they always think shes so hot and even when she has a boyfriend she has to make them like her more. It seems like i can never meet guys cause they always are all ofer her then something happenes and they will never talk again sothe guy is basically "off limits" to me since were best friends. I dont know what to do its come to the point i hate hanging out with her.
Well to me, it sounds like you have some insecurties. But don't fret EVRYONE has their insecurties and insecure moments. If you want to help yourself over being jealous of you best friend, you have to try to start putting yourself, and recognize yourself first instead of focusing on others. If you spend your life just recognizing others for their so called
"perfections" then you'll miss out on living out your own life.
YOUR BEST FRIEND: In description, your best friend is just outgoing, thats what makes her stand out. And people who are outgoing, are more likely to get noticed or get attention. So if your like on the sidelines or a wallflower saying nothing, you're not going to get noticed much. BUT EVERY person is diffrent on how they interact with other people. Some people are so comfortable in talking with strangers, while some other people are not.
You are your own person. ONLY you can make a diffrence in yourself. Try interacting with people more, gradually others like other people who are open to talk to anyone that comes their way, even just randomly, you can make new friends that way too.
AND: There MAYBE some rule as to a best friends boyfriend or ex-boyfriend is strictly off- limits but that is NO official rule. If they previously dated, and they're not involved together anymore, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't go for the guy, UNLESS he was a jackass or jerk off to her, then that maybe the reason she doesn't want you to be with him, but other than that I think you should go for guy you go for, and if he likes you, he likes you. You can't help that, he can't help that and neither can you best friend. Also: If the guy you like, and its who your best friend "used" to talk to, then what the heck, just go for it, she can either complain or not, it shouldn't hurt, after all, the guy and you best friend never dated so WHY NOT? Go for it. :)
She's your best friend but yet you hate hanging out with her? Are you sure she's your best friend? Take a look again. Just first off, if you're not comfortable being around her, maybe you should take a stroll of in hanging out with her for awhile. OR if you reconsider, think about it.
#1 ALWAYS put yourself before others, trust me if you have that belief you'll have more confidence (not saying you don't have any) and learn to be confortable in your own skin, not by somebody elses. REMEMBER: EVERONE HAS FLAWS AND IMPERFECTIONS,NO ONE IS PERFECT.
#2 Go shopping, get new outfits or do something that makes you feel better, and get rejuvenated.
Do what is best for you, and what makes you comfortable,JUST REMEMBER: YOU ALWAYS come first.
Hope I helped, and sorry so long ♥
when is it considered not being a " virgan " r u still a virgan if only the girl has an orgasim and not the boy ? do both people have to finnish to have sex ? or is it if one person does ur both not virgans haha im confused :/ please help me figure out if i am still a virgan haha :]
MISPELLED: Virgins.
Sex: is the penetration of the penis into the vagina.
Oral sex: sucking someones genitals.
Anal sex: penis goes into butthole.
Well some people have diffrent perspectives on whether they're a virgin or not, but for the most part most people consider that having sex like when the 'penis enters the vagina', a good percentage of people almost near 100% think when that happens you're not considered a virgin.
Some people (a small percentage) believe that you're not considered a virgin, when just giving hand jobs or blow jobs/head/ oral sex. Anal sex (usually with gay people) say they lose their virginity even through that.
EXAMPLE: If a person considers themselves not a virgin to you and you're a virgin, and you haven't had sex with this person yet you're still considered a virgin.
But really YOU have your prefrence on whether you're a virgin or not. But usually & for the most part, you're not considered a virgin when the penis enters the vagina. But YOU only have a preference yourself. :) Hope I helped.
Every time i use eyeliner after like 1-3 hours it smears horribly. What specific eyeliner do you use that doesnt smear at all?
brand name?
type?
i want one that i can buy from rite aid or cvs.( so it can't be sephora brands)
Please only give me eyeliner types that you have used. =]
Thanks in advance
PENCIL:Revlon colorstay eyeliner.
http://www.revlon.com/ProductCatalog/ProductDetails.aspx?CategoryID=3&SubCategoryID=9&ProductID=47
LIQUID: I use this all the time. MAYBELLINE Ultra liner in waterproof black, it works, stays on ALL day, when I get home not even a smudge.
http://www.maybelline.com/Product/Eye/EyeLiner/ultra-liner-waterproof.htm
But all in all, Maybelline Ultra liner works better, IDK which you prefer pencil or liquid but usually I use liquid. Hope I helped.
Okay so I had oral sex with this guy and I guess he liked me a little bit. I dont know. But he'll talk to me sometimes and then other times he just ignores me. I mind you he is really shy. Like he'll talk to me but when we were having oral he seemed like i dont know nervous. He's 2 years older than me so I dont know why he was so shy ans stuff. Now he talks to me like he likes me and then he'll act like im some sort of freak. He calls me some stupid name thats not insulting its just something he likes to call me. I dont know if he wants some sex or he really likes me. I've never had sex before. So yeah I'm a virgin. But he really pisses me off. Why does he do that? I want to ask him but he's so confusing he may never talk to me again. I'm just sick of him.
Well in my opinion, he's playing it off. And he isn't shy or else he wouldn't have asked you for some oral sex. This is the cold hard truth, older guys go for the younger girls cause they think most of them give it up easier. But if you would've resisted it, you could've proved him wrong.
REALITY: This guy doesn't want a regulaer relationship with you. He sees it as what we'd like to call it "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS". To others he'll call you a friend and you're giving him what he wants, pleasure. And he'll ONLY call you or talks to you when he "WANTS/NEEDS" you. And he'll only make time with you on HIS time, NOT your time (he doesn't care), if you can't be there,most likely he'll find somebody else.
And by the way I see it, ask him where do you think we're going. OR just talk about RELATIONSHIPS in general he SHOULD give you the HONEST answer, MOST guys are pretty honest and straight-foward about things. See what he says, most likely you'll find he's a jerk-off. I could be wrong about him, (if I am please forgive me) but thats the way I see him and ESP. if he knows you're a VIRGIN, he may pressure to have sex with him even when your note ready. You need and deserve a guy who values you, and values your time, & respects you. Trust me, he'll come. Hope I helped, and sorry so long. :)
are guys turned off by braces?
15/f
No thats not really true, although some are, they should think about it this way. Your braces are there to make your teeth straight and when you get them off your teeth are gonna look pretty damn pretty. Like me per say, I had braces (but some people don't notice) but when I got them off I have a pretty BIG smile on my face. Your braces are there to make your teeth straight and make YOU feel pretty, and its not there for to please other people. And if a guy can't like you for you, or what you have thats his problem. TRUST ME, doing things for your benefit is better than doing things to please other people, if you live you life that way, you'll NEVER accomplish your dreams. Your pretty I'm sure, and when you'll get them off you'll be DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!. So even though you maybe self-concious about your braces (even when it comes to guys) don't be, they're there for a good reason and if a guy REALLY likes you he wouldn't care if you had braces or not, you're still the same person, and if they're like off they're just jerk offs! Braces ar beautiful and make you beautiful. ALSO: It does NOT get in the way of kissing like that person couple #'s down below me said, although the guys THINK they do, it certainly DOESN'T interfere with kissing at all. So if you're ready to plant a kiss tell the guy, it doesn't interfere. Hope I helped. :)
I'm thinking of going to the Damone Roberts salon to get my makeup done for the dances but I'm wondering if the makeup artists are going be snobby since it is a high class place. Whenever I try to get my makeup done or if I want to buy makeup, the make artists are usually mean to me and they make me feel like I'm never going to be pretty since they would usually point out my flaws.
Well you maybe shy but the saying is "you never know unless you give it a shot". Well the way I look at it, and this is how I think they view it too. Its their job they do, they're there to put make-up on your face and they want to five you a professional look, they're really not trying to criticize you. Make-up artists are obligated to make people look their best and they want you to feel good about yourself too, although they may pt. out your flaws , EVERYBODY has flaws & most people would like to cover those flaws up. Everybody is pretty and unique in their own way, and usually when you go tell the make-up artist what the occasion is and WHAT you want. Tell them whether you want a more natural look, or a glammed up look. These people who do it in the mall and stuff, they do it for a living and they get payed for it, but they're not their to criticize you, they just want you to look your best and And I watch 10 yrs. younger daily and look at it this way, most people are thinking the same thing you are (like those people when they go into the box) but in the end, they look glamorous and it makes them feel better. Hope I helped, if any. :)
whats an orgasm?
and can guys and girls get them?
The climax of an sexual act from anything like masturbating,sex,touching genitals can make you climax into an orgasm. Some people when they reach an orgasm they tend to make a loud moan or shake or as literally knocking something off the table. An orgasm is the stimulating of the genitals. And yes both girls and guys have them but most women don't experience that often so they fake an orgasm :)
hi rose,my name is destiny.I am only 12 year old and i think im pregant.horrible i know.Im so scared .i dont know what to do.im shaking just by writing this letter.I dint have sex but me and a male kind of fooled around.I started my period the first time in december 2006 so my periods are still irregular.I dont have a certian date of my period but i started my last period on july 3rd and today is august 19.im a couple weeks late.I dont know who to talk to or what to do.I cant talk to family and if i talk to my friends they will think im a slut.Im so scared i dont know what to do.PLZ HELP ME.
THANKS SO MUCH,DESTINY
Well first off try to calm down. You didn'y specify what "fooling around" was exactly so I assume if you didn't have sex or if yall were body rubbing against each other and his semen/cum DID NOT go into your vagina then you won't have to worry about getting pregnant. You would only have to worry about being pregnant IF yall were both naked on top of each other or his penis was near you vagina and his cum/semen went into your vagina. If your not sure take a home pregnany test, thats the only way you WOULD be sure or see a doctor..
BUT THERE ARE CAUSES OF MISSED/IRREGULAR PERIODS.
-You're only 12 and the first years that you have your period they're OFTEN irregular.
-Increase in exercise
-STRESS is can play a BIG FACTOR
you may have dissrupted your hormone balance, and this would include such things as stress or worry. Even worrying about the possibility of pregnancy can do it.
-major weight loss or gain
-illegal drug uses
-medications cause
less or missed pds.
-eating disorders
Any of these signs can be factors as to why you have missed periods, but it sounds like to me its just STRESS.
POSSIBLE pregnancy symptoms.
-Missed period is most common
-Any extreme tiredness or fatigue
-Swollen and hurt breasts and dark areola (the color thing that is part of your boobs
-Morning sickness, (like throwing up)/ nausea
-Headaches and back aches
-ALOT of trips to the bathroom
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Your not a slut at all, at least your aware of things, you just have to make sure when you do any type of sexual act you HAVE to make sure he's not anywhere near your vagina. And when performing oral sex, it is safe that he puts on a condom although the tasting only rubber is disgusting. But to me that their is LIL chance that you could be pregnant. So not to worry, STRESS is MAJOR factor. But to be sure, talk you r parents into going to see a gyno/obgyn or take a home pregnancy test, that is the only way to be sure you know.
Hope I helped sweetie and don't stress out to much! :)
where can you find them exactly?
You may need to check the phone book for the numbers but you can go to your countys health clinic or the OB/Gynocologist,Planned Parenthood,any of those and your information is confidential so your parents won't be notified. They have to be prescription, and if you have insurance it will cover the pay for your exam to the doctor. Your parents will not know about the pills but will know about the exam you took.Hope I helped. :)
i shaved my legs for the first time yesterday using venus breeze. is that a good thing to use? i hear some people can get bumps and all that stuff. i was taking a shower then just shaved off the hair.. im black, and my mom says the razors affect black people differently than whites so im hoping nothing bad happens to my legs... and is it weird to shave your arms? like can i use the venus breeze erazor to shave my arms and armpits? and will it look weird? cause its kinda embarassing that i'm a girl with the hair on my arm.. its darker than my skin and sticks out to anyone who's near enough to me to see. so help?
Well I use Venus Goddess which is practically the same thing, but has a diffrent name and it works pretty well and then within a month or two you have to change the blade.
About the race thing,I do know that it does happen to african-american people many have in-grown hairs, shaving doesn't work well considerably that explains why you probably know a good number of african-americans who DON'T shave their legs. I'm half black but I shave, EVERYDAY. I use the same razor as you but a diffrent name, VENUS GODDESS.
After that, consider on trying something other than shaving to get close. Use a hair deplitory, like nair it costs about $4 in drugstores. On a personal note, thats what I use for my arms,and legs, when I can't get a close shave. Nair is really great for those areas. And you won't have alot of ingrown hair do to razors and less stuble and on a side note: when you use nair and you wash the lotion off, use warm or hot water and wipe it off with an old face towel or cloth.
Bad to nair: IT STINKS BAD, BUT IT WORKS WONDERS.
HOPE I HELPED! :)
What makes the tips of your nails white? I mean the natural white tip everyone has.
My tips have always been really white but some days it's a duller white and some days bits of the white goes completely clear.
Is there anyway to make them whiter or is it just a thing everyone is different with?
1)Use an brush-like or just a brush to clean under your nails your nails with some baking soda.
2) Soak a cotton ball with hydrogen peroxide or alcohol rub into your nails,and let it soak for about ten min.
3) And using lemon will strip away stains from your nails.. soak your nails in water combined with lemon juice.
4)If you use nail polish then make sure you have a good base so it prevents it from yellowing or looking yellow when you remove it with nail polish.
Hope I helped.
hey i'm Candace, and i'm 15.
my next door neighbor, matt, and i have been best friends since birth practically. He's my age. last summer he had feelings for me but i turned him down because he's like a brother to me.
His best guy friend, tim, and i have been talking& flirting on and off for about 2 years. we've liked each other off and on during this time but we never got the chance to take it further due to distance.
Now i hang out with my matt more then i have in the past couple months and tim is there. we both like eachother A LOT now but i dont know if it can work, because of matt. I feel that it may be awkward. do you think i should let Tim go, or go for it?
I think you should go for it. You made it clear to Matt that you only like him as a friend and is like a brother to you, so Matt should take it pretty clearly. Take it from me, I made it clear to my best friend we couldn't go out cause I saw him like a brother and didn't want to ruin the friendship. So if he still doesn't get it, try telling him that you don't want to ruin a perfectly good friendship and make it clear to him that you like Tim. (But only try this if you really want to). If you and Tim like each other like you said, you deserve to be together and be happy. It maybe awkward but it could help if maybe trying to talk to Tim and finding a girl for Matt, so he can be occupied, and it wouldn't be so awkwad and then all of yall could go as a double date if you wanted to. Don't be doubtful. So go for it you deserve to be happy, and Tim will get his too w/ another girl. Hope I helped.
ok. when i first started my period it use to last on average 5 days. and recently it has only been 2-3 days. is this bad? how long does yours usually last?
i havent had sex or anything like that so that wont be the cause. and im not on birth control. i havent changed anything either and this has been happening for about the last 5 periods.
Well a normal period can last 3-7 days, like the person below me said. And if you have been active in sports and exercise and been drinking alot of water then this certainly plays a role on your pd. days on getting short. Exercise and drinking plenty of water is very healthy for you while you're on your period, and it makes it better for cramps too. Some girls get the idea of them being in a bad mood while on their period and eat more foods. Its healthy to stay active in sports or exercise while your on your period, it REALLY helps, trust me I have experienced it, plus I'm sure you don't want your period lasting that long, NOT any girl for that matter. So 2-3 days is good and still healthy. Hope I helped and story so long.
i need help,
i cant get over him. i know im only 13 & most relationships dont last at age 13, but theres something about him. hes not extremly hot or anything, but his personality is perfect. He can make me laugh for hours, and when i talk to him, i cant help but smile. But he's in a relationship. god, i dont want to start drama and please dont tell me to just drop it, but they are both 13 too, do you think it will last? i mean, idk. hes sorta shy with like making a move on a girl, like last year i held hands with him, but this year his gf & him are pretty close...well all they do is hug. but shes like i want to kiss him, and i know this is so mean & selfish, but them kissing will just bring them closer together....but i sorta think he has a thing for me. idk why, i can just tell....
help me :]
Well think about it this way, if you were in a relationship with him and you were his girlfriend I'm sure you wouldn't want any girl to hit on him or you'd HATE hearing the thought of another girl wanting/trying to break yall up, so what a girl would do is fight for him, hold onto him tighter. Any girl acknowledges another girl liking her man, gets intimated, she WILL fight for him. Maybe not physically fight with you, but she will be willing to SHOW it to you that HE belongs to HER and thats her man. ANY girl would do that, EVEN you. People deserve to be happy if they're in a good relationship. You deserve to be happy too but not in trying/wishing them to break up. If he did like you like you said, I'm sure he would be with you.But even if he was shy, he may have not been shy at all in making this girl his girlfriend. You said he he held hands with you last yr., well that was his chance for him to make a move on you, and I'm sure you've given him plenty of chances, and he sure didn't jump to it.You may not want to hear this, but he should've made the move when he had the chance you gave him while he was single. And well if he DOES like you, he will break up with her and be with you, but don't let him just straddle you along while he STILL has a girlfriend , hes just leading you on and being selfish/cheater. Its up to him to make a move on you, just NOT when he's in a relationship. If he cheated on his g/f before & then dated you he'd probably cheat on you, so be careful. Be patient there is other guys who are like him maybe even better than him it just takes time. ONLY TIME WILL TELL. Hope I helped.