Question Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 11:58 pm
Ok so i know this guy lets call him J. And me and him used to talk and flirt and stuff and i felt a really strong connection. Ok so months passed and he got a girl friend w.e so i stopped talking to him because i was hurt. It took me a really long time for me to get over him but i finally did. Now his brother is intrested in me but idk if i should flirt with him and stuff since its j's brother and i even told j i loved him once. i dont know what to do..= /
phatdopelove answered Monday November 19 2007, 8:26 am: Well if you're really over J like you say you are, and you're intentions are good. Then I say go for it. But don't use J's brother if you're trying to make J jealous, because you're only going to hurt him. People hate to be hurt and so did you. So flirt with him, if you're really into him . Him being J's brother has no fault to it, its not like hes your ex-, plus J's got a girlfriend, so if he says something to you about it he has no right to you. That shows that he is jealous and maybe that he even likes you a little, but just think it this way. If he did like you WHY DID HE GET A GIRLFRIEND?. So if he does say this: IT'S YOUR LOSS,And now I moved on. :) Hope I helped. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday November 18 2007, 9:56 pm: You are free to flirt with whoever you like. So what if it's his brother. What happened with you and J happened in the past. He has a girlfriend now, so no worries. If you like his brother, go for it. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
partychick101 answered Sunday November 18 2007, 8:52 pm: The way I see it-
If you like him, go for it.
If J says something to you, that could be a sign that he still likes you. And then you'd be in a hard position.
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