when is it considered not being a " virgan " r u still a virgan if only the girl has an orgasim and not the boy ? do both people have to finnish to have sex ? or is it if one person does ur both not virgans haha im confused :/ please help me figure out if i am still a virgan haha :]
phatdopelove answered Thursday August 23 2007, 7:28 pm: MISPELLED: Virgins.
Sex: is the penetration of the penis into the vagina.
Oral sex: sucking someones genitals.
Anal sex: penis goes into butthole.
Well some people have diffrent perspectives on whether they're a virgin or not, but for the most part most people consider that having sex like when the 'penis enters the vagina', a good percentage of people almost near 100% think when that happens you're not considered a virgin.
Some people (a small percentage) believe that you're not considered a virgin, when just giving hand jobs or blow jobs/head/ oral sex. Anal sex (usually with gay people) say they lose their virginity even through that.
EXAMPLE: If a person considers themselves not a virgin to you and you're a virgin, and you haven't had sex with this person yet you're still considered a virgin.
But really YOU have your prefrence on whether you're a virgin or not. But usually & for the most part, you're not considered a virgin when the penis enters the vagina. But YOU only have a preference yourself. :) Hope I helped. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
Cherry_Blow_Pop answered Thursday August 23 2007, 6:52 pm: It has nothing to do with having orgasms. Both of you could have sex and now achieve an orgasm and still not be considered virgins. If his penis has penetrated your vagina then you are no longer a virgin. Now, if you have only had oral sex..whether or not you are a virgin is up to you, depending on whether or not you see oral sex as 'sex'.
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